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help.
so i am dating a boy who has a lot of female friends. hes a great guy and im in love with him but i get so jealous wen he goes out sumtimes, even if its wit grils who are my friends to..... is there anyway to overcom the jealousy?
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Trust is key in any relationship, my friend. I know it must be hard to see your boyfriend be around so many females, however, you must trust him and know in your heart that he loves you and they are only friends and nothing more. You must trust until otherwise proven wrong, and you haven't been proven wrong yet so it sounds like you have a great guy. Trust him and keep him around, if he treats you as you deserve. Good luck friend and just take one day at a time and trust him.
P.S. If you like, every now and then, go out with him while he's with his female friends if that would make you feel better friend and then you can see that everything is alright and your boyfriend only loves you. :)
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i so know how you feel.
but you just have to trust him. and i know its so hard to do because he SHOULD only want to hang out with you.. like, you should be the only girl he wants to be around all of the time, but they're his friends, so what can you do ? you kind of have to just suck it up and let him be. if you try to control him, it will make matters worse and people will start to dislike you.. maybe even him.. if it comes to that.
i mean, how would you feel if he told you he didnt want you hanging out with any guys.. whether they were his firend or not because he was jealous ? .. see ? i mean, its healthy to be jealous. it means you care about him alot. which is really good. but just occupy yourself with your friends and hang out with them while hes out with his friends. the only way you can get over your jealousy somewhat is to know that he is with YOU not those other girls. he chose to be with you for a reason and not them, and its because he loves you and wants to be with you.
if you just think about that.. youll feel better. but also, if you want to talk to guys [not in a flirting manner] then go ahead. it might make you feel less jealous too.
oh and, definetley tell him how you feel about all of this. he will reassure you and make you feel more at ease. and if you keep these feelings of jealousy bottled up inside, at some point, youre going to explode and you guys might even have a fight. so try to avoid it and talk to him about this. be honest and he'll be truthful with you.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me because i really do know how you feel and went through this myself. xxo.
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