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haven't found a guy yet
i can never seem to meet any guys where i live. the guys at my school are not my type and i would never date any of them and same for them towards me but then when i meet other nice guys from different schools they are taken. its seems like i will never find anybody and im a junior in highschool and i need to have a relationship before highschool is over. can you give me advice
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my advice is stop looking for a guy...your young enjoy that ...and i dont know why you feel you "need" a relationship before highschool is over ...ive never found a guy when i was looking for one it happens when your not looking for it ...just relax and enjoy life ....and if you feel like you "need" a relationship that just makes you seem needy and for guys that a huge turn off,or you will find the wrong guy....the kinda guy that seeks out woman that is looking and feel like they have to have a man to be complete..and those guys are very controlling and will make it hard for you if you ever tried to end the relationship.........so stop looking and it will happen sooner or later but it will happen
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You don't need to have a relationship before you finish high school. It's not like all the guys in the world are going to disappear once you graduate, and dating really isn't something you have to do in high school. I'm 17, I've never had a boyfriend, and I have tons of friends who've never had a boyfriend. I'm graduating in May and going to college this fall...the fact that I haven't dated yet doesn't worry me at all.
When you get this desperate to find a boyfriend, you can find yourself in some really crappy relationships. Some guys seem to smell that need in girls and they will take advantage of it to use you and abuse you. Honestly, if you don't see anyone worth going out with, don't date. Why settle for less in a relationship? Guys can be real dicks and there's no point risking heartbreak for someone you didn't really care about to begin with. You should for someone who's worth your time and deserves your love.
Maybe you feel like you have to date because all your friends are, or something. I don't really know. But it doesn't have to be that way! Dating isn't all it's cracked up to be, especially when you end up with the wrong guy. Bad boyfriends can make you feel insecure, worthless, and miserable. You shouldn't risk that unless you're sure you like someone. Just be patient even if your friends bug you about it. It's worth the wait. :)
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