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im prude and so not happy with it. im 13 and most of my friends r not prude and im like so jealous that guys r all over them when i truy think im prettier or just as hott.i really dont wanna have sex or ne thing i just wanna make out with a guy.thanks (link)
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well i can see how you would be jealous of that. if i were you i would be too. alot of my friends are prude. probably at least half of them are. your day will come, you will get noticed by a guy sometime and be able to make out with a guy. plus you shouldnt want to be with a guy just to get with him, if you have a boyfriend or a guy your close with like that then yeah thats great but just for the purpose of being able to say your not prude is not a good reason. only go around hooking up with guys if its something you wanna do. most people do enjoy it (yes, i definitly myself do) but then again there are some people who just dont like it and they wanna throw up. (i dont get why or how they could feel that way) just go down your own road tho hun!
((steph))
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This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks. (link)
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normally im not trying to answer questions that will get me disliked by the asker or people that read the question but this i have to respond to. im 13 and i do not feel desired to have a boyfriend just to fit in, i desire to have one because i like having someone to care about me in a romantic way, not as a friend, or family member but someone special you can hang out with alone and mess around with; have fun with. me and all my friends are called sluts, whores, ext. but we really arent. everyone thinks because we grind, put on a large amount of eyeliner, wear camis, and like to have fun with guys means were sluts and should not be acting like this because 'were not old enough.' its all not true and people only say that because theyre jealous. yes we like to wear stuff that makes us look good, look sexy because who wants to look ugly and like someone who just throws on what ever their mom picked out for them that morning to wear. if you think people like me 'show too much skin' then deal with it. your obviously jealous because you dont like the way you look. i can act how i want to, dress how i want to, and have my own style. dont you think its about time for you to start getting a little more worried about what you look like and a little less worried about what other people look like? trust me, its time hun.
((steph/13/f))
well it seems like someone needs to take a look in the mirror because you dont need to be concerned about how i look or anyone else. back off and stop telling me the right way to dress.
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i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom? (link)
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um... wow... and how old are you?
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I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH (link)
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well his last g/f did hurt him so hes probably afraid of comitment. just continue to take it slow for him and if this keeps up for a really long time then just talk to him about it.
hope i helped!
((steph))
p.s. u definitly dont rate high
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in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this... (link)
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well you can be flirty with him and go out with him if you like him. dont judge him when you dont know him. he may not be like that, he may have had sex with a few people and the word got out about it. you dont have to have sex with him if you dont want to. thats your choice. if he asks you then tell him your not ready. if he cant accept this then hes not a good boyfriend.
hope i helped!
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someone help me please. Im not gunna ramble on so im gunna put out the basics alright
1)bf of 9 months
2)havent seen him for 19 days
3)barely calls
4)keeps askin me if i know this certain.. constantly
5)he still says i love you.. but im confused
i just want to hit him sooo bad yell at him so loud get it thru his thick head and leave him but i dont because I love him (link)
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well you need to see him and find out if you still enjoy spending time with him because you seem pretty angry with him. talk to him more and then see how you feel.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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Sorry i didnt know what to put this under;
anyways. i used to have a reallyy good voice.
i would sing in all this all county stuff
and i could sing very high and very well..
but i started to abuse my voice by going to
concerts and yelling.. so i would lose my voice..
and i am just an overall loud person so i always strain my voice from yelling or being loud..
so after all these years of abusing my voice
my voice is now really bad = (
i always sound raspy when i talk and i dont
sound as good as i did when i used to sing..
can this be fixed? should i go to the doctor?
i really want my voice to be back to normal..
my voice has been like this for a year now.
thanks so much in advance!! = ) (link)
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theres a certain doctor for voice. i forget the name but go see one. if your voice is important to you then you should do this sooner rather than later.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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I've been friends with my best friend Kristen, for about a year or two. Recently I got with this guy, and him and I got into a conversation the other day about what we would give up for each other. I then realized, that I would give up my best friend Kristen, for this guy. Does that mean that I'm an awful friend? The way I look at it, it seems that my boyfriend has replaced my old best friend.. and he is now not only my boyfriend, but my best friend as well, which is why I feel I could give her up for him. Let me know. &heart; (link)
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well its natural to think that when your in love with someone. he is gonna be your best friend. but she is your best girl friend and that will never change. its not like your ever for any reason going to have to give one or the other up.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks! (link)
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well just tell her that your not into girls and you just want to be friends with her. it might be scary being friends with her knowing she like you but shes still your friend no matter if shes straight, bi, or lesbian.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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ok im a 13/f and i have 2 bffs...one is a 14/f and one is a 13/m. We r all really good friends but lately it seems like they r doin lots of stuff w/ out me and keepin secrets from me. But yet my b-day is in feb. so is there a chance they r doin sum kind of plannin for my birthday or they r jus leavin me out??? plz answer honestly...ill rate good! (link)
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they might be leaving you out of stuff, they could be planning something for your birthday too... who knows?? you should wait till your birthday and then after that if they are still ignoring you then i think you should talk to them about it.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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I think I'm Bi- sexual but i don't know. I'm not sure how to find out cuz i think i am and is it okay?? don't worry about hurtin my feeling just answer what you THINK thanks a lot (link)
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well i have no clue who this is so i wouldnt be able to tell you.... but if you are desired to see girls and want to start a relationship with one then yeah you probably are... write me another one and tell who this is and leave your screen name too and ill help you!
((steph))
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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX (link)
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well first of all since you've never met him thats not good. you dont really know what hes all about. you need to meet with him. and secondly if you want it enough you can make it work - it will be VERY VERY hard but work at it by talking everynight and stuff. hope i helped!
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hey steph i am so pissed at christine.i dont care if you tell her that cuz i am gonna any way.well i'll tell you what happened even though you probably already know. any way she invited five people six people to sleep over her house. that is extremely rude becuse when julia grace and me were the only ones not invited to sleep over there she didnt even think to ask if we wanted to (which i didnt)then she tells me that her mom is gonna get so pissed cuz i dont have a ride. then my mom comes to get me, more pissed then her mom could ever be. and when i was leaving she was acting like every thing was happy and bright like shes like "bye thanks for coming!" then she gives me a hug!i mean after how rude she was she wants a hug!and we get her a 40$ gift certificate to the mall! that just makes me so mad!then she blames julia about the rum in soda so shell stay outta trouble!omg i dont think im gonna be her frend anymore. -maria
ps if you dont get this ill tell ya in skool.and im not mad at u (link)
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hey maria, i thought you were mad at me! im so sorry about everything. she didnt just blame julia on the rum thing, infact, she tryed to take the blame for every bit of it. she told her parents that she had a drink before anyone came over that night and they didnt believe her, they told her that if she didnt tell them who it was then they would call EVERYONES parents and say everyone had taken part in it. so then she told on julia, laura, me, and a few other people, alot of people who didnt even touch the rum, or know what was going on. and you werent the only ones not invited. 3/4 of the people there werent invited to sleep over. she just had too many people. it wasnt great, trust me, when her parents found out at 3 am that we had been drinking rum they werent very happy. then we had to go to sleep and everyone was crying and feeling bad for each other. now very awesome at all. you should feel very very lucky you werent there. i have alot of bad problems right now... 1. my parents are sending me back a grade and to live with my aunt/military school if i dont get all As on this report card. 2. im also in trouble because i had to take a punishment for drinking at christines party. 3. bobby likes laura... which leads to #4... 4. bobby doesnt like me. 5. im so mad at laura for like flirting with him all the time. 6. collin likes me so much but i dont know what to think of him anymore... i just dont know if i do or dont like him. 7. mike likes me (- that should be counted as 2 problems -) 8. mike likes me. 9. josh likes me... loves me...agh... 10. i need to get better grades... or else... 11. i cant talk to/see christine for a very long time because shes grounded for a very very long time, and when shes off grounding then my parents probably dont want me to see her because they think shes trouble for drinking.
well g2g im gonna call you tonight so talk to ya then.
pce~
((steph))
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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha! (link)
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well i dont think you guys are meant to be. you cant keep your attention on each other. i think if it really matters though then just talk to him, it will all work out since it has so many times before...
hope i helped!
((steph))
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ahhh!!! im gonna go crazy. one of my best friends thinks her life sucks and it doesn't. because her boyfriend broke up with her and her parents don't treat her right. she said she's going to start cutting herself and that she's given up on God. I don't know what to do. and please don't tell me to talk to her. if you do tell me what to say. because i'm really confused... (link)
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you have to remind her of all the good things in her life. then she may realize that she leads a good life and its not worth giving up. try to make her have fun when shes around you.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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Ok, I like someone and they are a senior in high school. I know that we will never be together, but I can't help getting that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I am around them. Whenever they talk to me I feel like I am on top of the world. I don't want that feeling to go away. When I see them with someone else, I get jealous and I don't like being like that. What should I do? (link)
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dont tell yourself that you can never have them, its not true. tell them how you feel and see what they say. if you cant do that then just try to forget about it and move on.
hope i helped!
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ok...im a 15 year old female and i have a pretty big chest (34 c/d)...everyone calls me a slut cause i have a big chest..i mostly wear sports bras so people dont see exactly how big my chest it, but yesterday was my friends sweet 16, and the dress i wore really showed alot of clevage... all the guys at the party talked about how hott i was and how they wanted to hook up with me...i feel like i cant be myself because of my chest..and the worst thing is... i swim and im in a bathing suit all the time..well my friend told all the guys i was on the school swim team... and my friend came up to me and told me that all of them were gonna be at my next swim meet...is there anything i can do about my chest????HELP
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well theres nothing you can do about it. try not to wear lots of shirts that are low cut and keep wearing sports bras. as for swimming you should just try to ignore the fact that guys may be looking at you, i know its hard but theres nothing you can do to change the fact that you have a big chest.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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my friends have been out of town for about a week and i can't find ANYTHING to do!!! my parents are at work and i dont want to sit infront of the t.v. all day...does anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
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when i get bored i just try to relax. hang out around the house and go online or listen to music. this time of year is also a good time to catch up on writing thank you notes.
hope i helped!
((steph))
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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not? (link)
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i think you should because your right, you will be devistated, this way you can get used to not being with him all the time. once he leaves hes gone so do it now to lessen the pain.
hope i helped!
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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16. (link)
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i think you need to make him settle down for a second and just talk to you. tell him you feel like you hardly know him anymore. tell him you feel like you never talk. if he understands and starts talkin to you more and stuff then he isnt but i would dump him if he completely ignores what you try to tell him. then i would call that, him using you.
good luck!
~~StEf~~
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