My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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I really really like this guy, and someone found out(Long story) and told everyone. The guy now knows, and I thought he liked me, but then he has a girlfriend. There is another guy who may like me and I kinda like him, so should I move on, or keep my hopes up?PLESE DONT DELETE!! (link)
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i would follow everybody elses advice and go for guy # 2 because what are the chances of guy #1 breaking up with his gf very slim! i would go for the other guy if i was you because you could be waiting awhile for them to break up dont keep getting your hopes up because your just going to get hurt.
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Okay, I know I shouldn't have but I did!! Everyone told me not to do it but I did it anyway. I popped about 4 pimples because they were huge and just staring at them made me feel grossed out. When I popped them it swelled up and had puss coming out of them. Is there anything you can use to make the swelling stop and to shrink or not to show real badly. Please don't tell me to use coverup, makeup and all those acne scrubs. Tell me an ingrediant something you can put on the pimple that you can make out of everday items. thanxz, please hurry!! (link)
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try putting toothpaste on it thats what i heard i tried it and it went away. Good luck!
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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?! (link)
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ok first of all this girl sounds like a real biotch. if she was really your friend she wouldnt of done ANY of that stuff. If you want to be friends with her talk to her work it out. You have a reason to be mad i mean cmon whos real friend does that to them? GOod Luck!
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me and my girl have been together 6 months and i love her and all but there is another girl that i kinda like. i think i have a future with both of them. what do i do. (link)
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ok this is a tough situation first of all. You like both of them well love one of them but do you even know this other girl that you like?I mean like shes not some girl you just met or anything! I'd say maybe either be single for awhile or stay with you girl. And if either of those are an option you want then take like to sheets of paper and right good/bad n list the good things about each girl and the bad about each girl and see which one has more in common with you, But a piece of paper cant decide your future nobody can help you make your decision only you can.So either be single until you make your decision or see how things work out with your girl! good luck!
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Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate! (link)
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ok its totally normal. And yes she can get her period at 10 shes not to young. You can start puberty as early as 8. Just keep an eye on her and stuff see if she acts like you did before you got your period and make sure shes prepared!
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i like this guy.. and he likes me too.. well see he says that he likes me but he doesnt want to get together.. whats wrong with him!?!? (link)
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well theres many possibilites..maybe hes just not ready for a relationship or he doesnt really like you or he could be scared to get hurt aka breaking up with you or you breaking up with him. Talk to him about it .GooD lucK!!
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My ex recently came back into my life and I admit that I do have strong feelings for him. He also said that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with me. He said that I was on his mind alot and thats why he felt he had to find me. Things keep happening like fate wants us to be. If I do decide to talk to him again, it will be a risk because he do have a past behind him because he's a bad boy. I still want to be with him in a way. We both said we will take it slow to see what will happend. So do you think that I should give it a try because I think fate is bringing us together for a reason, I just need to hear it from someone else. (link)
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deffinitaly give him a chance! my ex bf was like that and we worked out for 2 years! i say you should give it a try! good luck!
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i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
-Jenn- (link)
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im in the same situation! its tough...your just switching schools you guys can still hang out and talk.If you think you'd be better at the other school go for it! good luck!
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hey whats the nervous game? (link)
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its like wen a guy n a girl play and the guy puts his hands on the girls leg n moves it up and keeps askin r u nervous yet? and then u keep going till they get nervous kind of hard to explain! hope i helped
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them? (link)
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YEAH! relationships arent just about looks!
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does getting your tongue pierced hurt? How much worse is it than an ear piercing? Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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its actually not that bad. If you follow what the peirecer says then it should be okay. Dont touch it alot and eat alot of ice after that helped me. Good luck! merry xmas
[[BloNdii]]
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Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length. (link)
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aww i know how you feel! my cousin was like that and he was like my bestest friend ever! Well what i did was bought him a lil xmas tree n put lights on it and took it to the hospital and had him help decorate the tree since he couldnt do it at home, but if your brother isnt up to doing that then decorate it for him. Tell him how much u love him and just talk to him about things that he likes dont say anything to him about his problems or such. As for your parents talk to them and just say like Henry is a great person he will always be in our hearts and we will always have memorys with him say stuff thats comforting.I will have my church pray for him! make your last few months together memorable! im so sorrie about your brother!
xoxo Blondii
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Sorry if this is long!
Ok, I liked this guy and my friend knew so she "hooked me up". The boy lives in my friend's hood. So, my friend said we were going out but we never once went on a date. So, one day he emails me and says, I can't go out with you now sorry." So it was kinda no big deal, but I was going to the movies w/ my friend and this guy. Anyway, I saw him and there was another girl (we are in diff. grades). So, this weekend my friend invited me over and I said yes. My so called "ex" will prob. be there. How can I act like I have moved on and I don't care bout him and I love my life w/o him? Please help, I really need it! (link)
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hm...maybe like talk about other guys or some stuff like that. Don't show interest in him or anything he says but dont come off to bitchy! Talk to him and stuff dont be shy! goOd lUck!
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13 (link)
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i dont think age matters but you guys should be careful because he can get in trouble for you your still a minor and hes basically an adult.Just tell your parents the truth im sure they wont care..but to be on the safe side id deff. tell them no matter how mad they would get because if he gets in trouble for you then they can back him up sayin they approve and stuff. but if you want to keep it a secret go ahead!
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What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go. (link)
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give her some taste of her own medicine blow her off when she trys to hangout with you! and when she says we need to talk tell her why your doing it or you could take lead and tell her that you guys need to take about your friendship good luck!
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im a guy and ur age, and ive kinda been wanting to ask this girl out but i dont want to use the term will u go out with me, i just dont like it i also dont really know how to flirt wiht her what do girls like that guys to when they flirt thanx (link)
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okay...well casually ask her out maybe start by asking her if she wants to go the movies, and then start from there make it simple make sure you actually like this girl and you know her before you ask her out because in the middle of the relationship she may not seem what you thought she was. After you feel more comfortable ask her out. Just be like hey i really like you and id like to take it up another step maybe as bf and gf and see what she says maybe she'll say yes maybe she'll say no but dont think negatively. Um, as far as flirting goes id say maybe play with her hair and hold her hand just joke around with her, put your arm around her waist or shoulders. GooD luck if you have any more questions feel free to ask!
[[bLonDii]]
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theres this really hot kid that ive had connections with in the past..(the beginning of october) but now he has a gf .. he makes fun of me alot..like when i say something. he would imitate me . is he flirting with me? or is he just being a jerk? (link)
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i would say hes just being a jerk cuz if thats flirting he deff. needs some lessons on how to flirt nicely with a gurl...but hey i dunno this kid but it sounds like hes just bein a jerk!
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I've been working at the same place for over a year and I really enjoy working there. I feel like I've established myself as a good employee. A past roommate of mine who I didn't get along with well and only see infrequently recently applied for a position at the same place I work. Apparently, she told my boss and others she spoke to that she knows me well and that I would be excited to work with her. She pretty much said that I really wanted her to work there and would recommend her. The problem is that I know this person is not a good worker. She is irresponsible about coming to work and tends to slack off when she does come. She's not very respectful to employers either and tends to demand that they give her time off whenever she wants it. I'm concerned that this person's job performance could reflect negatively on me, since she pretty much used me as a reference without my permission. Should I approach my boss about this? What should I do if my boss asks me about her? What can I do to distance myself from this person so that her poor performance won't make me look bad? (link)
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tell your boss everything that you just told us. Dont lie to your boss that will only make things worse and it will look bad on you just tell him/her what you told us!
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I don't know what I want to "be" when I'm older. I have no idea what I'm going to study, or anything! My friend makes me think about this, because she's my age, and she knows what she's doing. She's going to be a chef and she's already practicing at home! It makes me think like I am behind. I don't really need 1 thing I am going to be, I just want an idea, or like a couple of occupations for me. When I was little, I always wanted to be a teacher. I played school all the time. But I'm not sure if I still want to. There's no other jobs that I'd specifically want to do, but I'll tell you some of my hobbies. I'm not much of a sports person. I like to write, but I'm not very good. I like to work with kids..I'm thinking maybe a daycare? If you have anything, please share your ideas or thoughts. (link)
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dont settle on what you want to be now...believe by the time it comes you will know what you wanna be...when you guys get older she probably wont even wanna be a chef anymore! it always works that way! dont decided now your still a kid go out and have fun dont worry about what your gonna be till that time comes! good luck!
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For like the past 4 months I have been having stabbing pains in my knee when I walk up or down the stairs, kneal down, stand up from sitting down, anything that includes bending the knee. Do you know of anything that I could have done to it or things that I can do to make it better? I went to my doctor before and he just told me there is nothing he can do and it made me really mad cause I am sure there is something he could have done but i don't know. Do u know of anything I can do to make it feel better at least? thanks alot for any help, and if you need more info just post it and I will reply again, thanks again. (link)
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you have arthritis i have the same thing...you could try the icy-hot patches or just taking tyenol go to the doctor to be on the safe side...because as you know none of us are doctors!
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