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Hey everyone!My name is Brina,I've been on this site for a few years, after not being on for a while, I figured I'd start up again, having more knowledge then before! I'm 19 years old and am going to be a sophomore in college this coming fall! Please feel free to ask me anything!I'VE BEEN VERY BUSY WITH SCHOOL SO MY APOLOGIES IF I DON'T GET TO YOUR QUESTIONS RIGHT AWAY!
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So, to make the long story short.. My teacher did not enter in a grade for an essay I turned in, and told me I never turned it in the first place. So I have a failing grade for the class. I told her I turned it in, so she told me to just bring the paper in the next day to see it. I told her I would, but one problem.. I accidentally threw it away! I just realized it later on. And not thinking it wouldn't be entered in my grade average, and thought it was already entered in. And finding this out, I was pretty pissed about it. I told my dad to e-mail her that he saw the paper, and that he accidentally threw it away. But instead he told her he saw the paper, but said I could turn it in, after I TOLD HIM that it was thrown away accidentally by me. So my teacher told him there would be a sub the next day. He told me that when the teacher comes back, to tell her I already put the paper on her desk even though I didn't, just to pretend I really did turn it in. I told my dad he should of stuck with my idea of him saying he threw it away but my parents are saying just to keep the plan that we are going with now and tell the teacher you put it on her desk the other day.
I REALLY want this grade to be entered in, so I don't fail, but then again I don't wanna lie to a teacher because of the fear of getting caught. I don't wanna go back to it and tell her this whole time it was accidentally thrown away. What should I do?
The ol' trick of putting it on the desk when a sub was there is one of the best ways to get out of it. Come on, every once in a while we've gotta lie to our teachers! And, having your dad say you can do it...doesnt make it as bad, because, your DAD said you could. Make sure you don't tell her you handed it in to the sub during class, because fellow students could say you didnt, so stay after class and tell her. And,if she talks to you about it during class, just tell her you'd like to talk about it after class. No worries, the plan should work. Hope i helped! Good luck!
-Brina
My friend lou's haloween party was a blast and i made out with this boy i never though i would get the chance to talk to and that i thought was cute during spin the bottle. everyone of course at school found out and for the past 2 days my friend jasmina and mensur make fun of me about it in art where him and his other friend are! its REALLY funny but embarassing. they asked him questions like did you like it? was she good? would you go out with her? do you like her! and he answeres yes/yeah!/mhhmm to all of them! we even exchanged Numbers and he has my s/n (i THINK)but i barely talk to him and i dont really kno him but hes SOO cute but he doesn't do ANYTHING about it. WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM why doesnt he put in the effort to talk to me some more! should i talk to him on AIM? HELP should i go for it myself and if so waht do i do? or ditch this kid who won't make a move?
thanks majorly!
He's probably thinking the exact same thing you are. Maybe he thought that you were embarressed about the whole situation {which you were} and he didn't want to bug you about it. You need to take charge and start talking to him. Don't wait for him, if you want to talk to him, you make the first move because he's being a chicken shit :-p. Don't ditch him, he's probably putting a lot of thought into this. Maybe he's a bit nervous, yeah, he's talked to his friends abotu liking you and stuff, but thats all guy talk, not for girls ears. So, make sure you talk to him if you want this towork. Hope I helped, good luck!
-brina
My friend was dianosed with mono last week, i didnt know this and i drank out of her water bottle, is it possilbe that she is still contagious?
It good be possible,maybe not, its hard to say. Deffinitly go to a doctor and check just in case. Hope I helped!
-Brina
The following message is from my younger brother and not from me (ty1993). He doesn't have an account.
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Hi. Thank you for reading this! My sister is named Lauren. I constantly have fights with her, and it is always me who gets in to trouble with my parents. I really want to stop fighting with my sister so that I can grow up and have a good relationship with her. Are there any ways to stop fighting with her quickly and easily? Please help me with my problem. I hate fighting with my parents also. About 99% of my fights with my parents are related to me fighting with my sister. I really need to stop this. Thank you very much for your help.
Any time you see that you are in the situation were you will fight with your sister, jus tleave the room, and if she stillis trying to get
into a fight with you then you need to go to your parents and try to let them know how you feel. If this doesn't work, set up a meeting with your family with yoru school guidence counselor. Hope I helped, good luck!
-Brina
So I'm a pretty good piano player and I'd really like some newer songs to play. I'm interested in almost everything. I plan on buying Mandy Moore's Only Hope (most likely the easy version) and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for more music like that?
Hmm, deffinitly check out the Titanic theme song."My Heart will go On" The piano part is extremely amazing. It's not wicked hard, so for being a pretty good piano player, it should be great. Hope I helped!
-Brina
Haye yawl, this is kindof stupid n all but like me and my boyfriend hav been goin out 4 like a year this thursday and i kindof need a cute gift idea. i really love him and i need it 2 b awsome. he iz a country redneck boy cauz we r frum ga.so if u have a good idear id luv 2 hear it.thanx yawl :)!!
luv caroHaley
Deffinitly plan a horseride or something to a nice little area. And, make a picnic and bring that along with candlesticks, and his favorite type of music. Hope I helped. Have fun!
-Brina
my boyfriend wants me to give him head, but i've never done it before. i'm comfortable with it and all, and i want to do it, but how do you give someone head?
Honestly I don't know. I mean, I know what it is, but I probably wouldnt explain it right. Talk to your boyfriend about it. Evidently he knows what it is if he wants you to give him it. If you two have a strong relationship he shouldn't mind talking to you about it. Maybe you should find all of the facts from him about it before you do it, so that your comfortable more with it. I hope I helped! good luck.
-Brina
14/F Hi,listen all girls look.There's this guy I like,Dakota Gorsuch,since third grade we've been crushing.But he can't get the couage to ask me out!he wants to but won't.he's going out with a good friend of mine.But he doesn't want to.What should i do? :[
Right now all you can do is wait till he breaks up with his girlfriend. If he has feelings like he says he does, then he will break up with her. I konw, you dont want to wait for them to break up, but thats the right thing to do, instead of interupting there little shindig together.And, when he does break up with her YOU need to ASK HIM out! Thats the only way to do it if he's being a chicken shit. Hope I helped. Good Luck!
-Brina
Tonight I'm going to a bat mitzvah party that has costumes required. I'm being Barbie with one of my other friends. We won't really know anyone so we sorta want to look really good, but we don't know what to do for our hair?
Any suggestions?
[my hair is brown, wavy, but want to straighten it for tonight. Length is past my shoulders]
Straighten your hair, and part it to the side, or straighten it and put it into two pony tails, or a regular ponty tail. Those are the main hairstyles for a Barbie doll {Iused to play with them till i was 10 lol}. So, your hair is going to look simple but cute. Hope I helped! Have fun!
-Brina
Next year I will be a senior and I want to try out for the football team. I only want to kick the ball. The only problem is I'm a female that stands at 5'3 120 pounds. I know of many female kickers in college as well as highschool so the coaches can't so much discriminate. I want to become the best kicker in the school. Can someone please give me some tips. I got a whole year to get ready. So please give me all you can. THanks
All I can say, is that is the most awesomest thing ever. Not many girls are able to have a chance to do anything on a mostly guys sport. But, anyways, Practice, practice practice. Get a football, and do leg stretches, like, extending your leg for the postion that yor foot should touch the ball. Work on your calve muscles. And do tons of kicks, try getting it higher and higher each time you practice. It shouldnt take that long for you to get ready. Just let the coach know what you want to do on the team. Hope I helped. And good luck!
-Brina
OK, I feel kinda stupid about asking this because its just so SILLY but here goes...
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, lets call him Tom, and I'm so happy when I'm with him! The only problem is his ex. He only went out with her for about 6 months, but the thing is she went out with a guy I kinda liked (lets call him Rob) after dumping Tom. Well after that I went off Rob and me and Tom hooked up and I've never been happier :D
BUT this girl always looks at me as though she's better than me - like I have her cast-offs or something. AND recently shes been giving Tom the eye :( I know Tom loves me, and he really doesn't like his ex, it just ANNOYS me that she thinks shes better than me.
So my question is this; what can I say / do to make this girl realise me and Tom are happy and in love? (I've heard her describe me as his 'rebound' loadsa times :'()
Thanx!
She's jelous. Plain and simple. Don't worry about her at all. Let her think what she wants to, as long as you know that you and Tom are great together, thats all that matters! But, the next time she does something lame, just tell her to stop being immature about it and grow up. If she responds, just walk away. Hope I helped! Good luck with tom.
-Brina
Me, always happy, always smiling..always good in school, always!! I tunred depressed. I mean I didn't really realize it until my school contacted my parents saying "she needs a therapist and probably anti-depressives" I know it sounds bad - but I used to look down on depressed people. Well, not look down on them, I felt sorry for them..because they go through stuff, but like I've been licing with my family (=HELL!) my whole life, and i still managed to be happy and have fun, so I figured "they're weak" kinda thing when they all got depressed..but now im there too. And i hate it, i hate the fact that im gonna look back ta these few years, ten years from now, and say "I hated highschool! i was miserable!" You don't understand, this has been my dream! Being a teenager i mean, i used to dream of reaching 16, having a boyfriend, lots of friends and parties..always fun, and it really looked like that was gonna happen since my whole life ive lived happily, lots of friends, lots of admirers, always good in school..and so on. SO WHAT THE HECK? This is what I've come to. I hate myself..because I know I'll walk out of this school a year from now saying "Thank G0D im out! & I'm never coming back!" And I know I wont come if there's ever a class reunion, and i completely HATE it.
Please help me, cheer me up, give me advice, do anything you can, please!
thank you so much!
Just because you've been diagnosed with depression doesn't mean that this takes over your life, and you don't feel the same way as you used to. Your making a mountain out of a mole hill as my 8th grade english teacher used to always say. One of my siblings and one of my parents has depression. They've always had it in a way, but, that doesn't keep them from thinking, or being who they want to be. So, you have depression, big deal, you can still be happy and want to fullfill your dreams. The best way I can cheer you up, is to let you know your not the only one that feels the way you do. Your very confused with all of this. It doesn't make you less of a fantastic person just because you have depression. You hate the fact that you dont want to go to a renunion? You hate the fact that you dont want to...but, evidently you do right? So just do what you want to do. If you think about it badly, it doesnt necissarily mean its from your depression. Being depressed isnt a weakness, its a challenge that you can overcome. Yes, maybe you do need meds, but, you need to find loving friends who will be their for you during the hard times. Hope I helped. If you need any JOKES to cheer you up, let me know and I'll send you tons, because I'm skilled with the funnyness :)
-Brina
I had quite a sexually active life when I was younger. I broke my virginity at 13 and went on humping anyone I could get my hands on.(Of course, I only have sexual relations with women of my liking. This is not shallow hal here.)
Anyways, the problem came about a few months ago when I finally settled down and got myself into a serious relationship. At first, the sex was its usual. Then, after a few months, I didn't want to do it anymore. I can't seem to get it up for her. I try to avoid sex and it's seems kinda depressing. But here's the thing. I can get it up for any other chick, not for her. -___-
In short, I dont want to break up with her, I just don't want to have sex with her.
Well, this could mean that she means a lot to you,than other girls do. So, in a way, its good that you two don't have sex because you should create a strong bond first. You can always change your ways of having sex if thats what you want. You dont need to break up with her because of the whole sex thing. Try to overcome it. Let her know how you feel about the situation. Hope I helped. Good luck, with um, your area. haha.
-Brina
ok so ive liked this kid named Randy ever since the 7thgrade and he never knew it b.c he was a grade higher then me now iam a 9th grader and he's in my french class. we grew a big friend ship like OMG u have no i dea how great the friendship was. yeh so then my friends told him that i liked him and then we became even more closer. but now i have a bf and he's everything i ever wanted but ever since he found out about my bf we've been fighting lateley. and i think i still may like Randy. so give my advice he's killing me.
Hmm, this situation sucks, because you can really only choose one guy. These feelings you have for Randy seem really strong, but the problem is you have a boyfriend. If you think that you and Randy should try being together, then I say go for it. But, don't expect your boyfriend to still be their if it doesn't. Randy is probably just upset that you have a boyfriend, because he thought you two were on your way to something more then your friendship. So, I say follow your heart. Your current boyfriends heart might be hurt inthe process though. But, whatevers best for you. Good Luck, hope I Hhelped!
-Brina
Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do?
Don't have sex because thats what he wants. Evidently, he's not a good guy for you if he only wants to have sex with you and doesnt want to have a relationship with you. What you should do is obvious, tell him to like you for your personality and that you don't just want to be with him because all he wants is sex. Its good that you say no, you shouldnt have to keep a guy around by having sex with him. usually I say follow your heart, but this isnt the guy for you. He isnt Respecting you, which is something nowadays that a lot of guys don't do for girls. Your not ruining anything by saying no, your doing what you feel is right! Good Luck hun,hope i helped!
-Brina
im not moving far, just down the street.
Im still going to the same school and all
but the thing is, the boy i love lives in my neighborhood.
And that kinda makes it easier for us to hangout
and now he has a girlfriends so now its even more in doubt.
Im gonna miss him alot , i mean ill still see him at school but things will be kinda different.
I wanna know if hes gonna miss me at all, what should I do to find out.. without asking him ??
Well, the best way to find out is asking him in a joking way. Just nudge him with your elbow jokingly and say "So, you gunna miss me when I move down the street?" He'll probably say yes, and if he does, let him know you still want to hang out with him still. Thats the best way I think. GOod Luck, Hope I helped!
-Brina
how do you freak dance? i'm 15 female
You just start going all crazy, Doing silly dancemoves like the funky chicken and stuff. Everyone should freak dance, its so much fun. Just go crazy and do anything you want. Hope I helped! Have fun at homecoming!
-Brina
what should i wear and how should i do my hair tomorrow for my boyfriend to at least take a second look, and maybe comment about how i look ? show i wear my hair up or down, curly, straight, wavy?long sleeved/short sleeved/tank top +sweatshirt/polo/v-cut? HELLP.
Your boyfriend should notice little things that you change. Wear something bright! Sometimes guys usually do notice different things about us girls, but they don't tell us. He probably notices the little things that you do, like changing your hair, or eye shadow color, or even your clothing style, but they dont know wether to tell you or not. Your boyfriend hopefully sees you, and not how your dress or how your hair is. He should see your heart. I know, thats corny, but its true.
:)
-Brina
ok im 13 and im a female and im horney and i feel like that ALOT! any time i see somthig thats...... yeah... i feel like that! is that normel and iv NEVER had sex soooo whats rong with me?
Nothing's wrong with you. Like the other answer you recieved, your hormones are just a bit crazy at this point. You don't need to have sex because of this though, just chill, and hopefully your"hornyness" will sort of go away.Hope I helped!
-Brina
I don't know what I did, or why she reacted this way.. Like an hour ago, my mom stormed out of the house, crying.. freaking out..
I can understand why she had a breakdown, but I don't know why she said what she did, and acted that way. My grandfather, her dad, passed away just about a week and a half ago. Because of this, it has put her behind in school, to become a nurse. There are other factors, but those two seem to be most stressful at this point.
The trigger was my father not filling up the dog's water dish. (Let me say that they have been married for over 20 years, and out of my 17 years of being alive, I have never seen them hug.) I was in my room and heard her screaming bloody murder. I went out in the other room to see her crying, screaming, and nearly tripping on herself. My brother and my father were just standing there as she was on her rant. Basically she said she doesn't want us in her life, and grabbed the keys to her car, and she's been gone ever since.
I guess my question is, what do I do?
To be honest, I'm scared. She has her attitude, but she has always managed to keep her cool.. This is the first time she's acted this way..
And advice would be greatly appriciated and loved.
At this point, nothing right now. Your mother is deffinitly going through some hard times, her father dieing could be the main cause of this. Something might have happened that you might not know about, when she comes home, just try to be there for her. Ask if you can make her something to eat, or get her something to drink. Just try to make her feel appreciated, get her flowers or something. Get your father to take her out to dinner. Hopefully she'll be back soon, if she isn't then you need to have your dad do something about it, lke go looking for her. Good Luck! Hope everything turns out well.
-Brina