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I`m Desiree

Known as Dez

i`m 17 years old

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On the home page of Advicenators it shows a person's picture and they are the Featured Advice Columnist. My question is, how do I be the featured advice columnist?

Its randomly choosen..So you can`t do much about it..

♥Dez

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Is it better for me to condition (moisturize) my hair while it is wet or dry?

Do it after you you wash it with shampoo..Maybe leave it in for a little bit [5 minutes or so]..

My little sister uses this Queen Haleen stuff you can buy at Sally`s Beauty Supply && its like $$3.00 && leave it on overnight or a couple hours with a shower cap on && it does real good..

♥Dez

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okay well theres this guy. well actually hes my ex. and i mean me and him were together for like a month and then i broke up with him.. but i had soo much going on then and thats why i broke up with him.. well now like everything reminds me of him.. and i cant seem to get over him.. i know i made tha mistake for breakin up with him, and i regret that every single day.. now every time i see him i want him bak.. but i dont know how he feels. and i dont even know if he has a grlfriend..

please help me i dont know what to do.. i want him bak but i know that i cant just tell him "oh i like u again" and i dont even see him that often now..

im soo confused.. and without him i feel soo incomplete.. i really do think he was the one, and i screwed it up..

How about telling him you`d like to hang out sometime..?

Tell him you didn`t stop like him mention what was going on at the time && thats why you had to break up with him not that you wanted too or anything..

Even if he does have a girlfriend you guys can be friends ya know? then if something happens to his girlfriend you`ll be right be by his side as a friend && then maybe you guys can get back together but please don`t like ruin his relationship with his girlfriend [Thats if he has one]

You might want to find out if he has a girlfriend before actually trying to get back with him tho..

hope i helped..

♥Dez

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What is the average amount of days to have your period?

Usually 3-10 days..

Everybody is different..

♥Dez

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14/f.. I had sex with my boyfreind about 3 or 4 weeks ago and the condom broke!! I took 3 pregnency tests without my parents knowing and they were all positve!! so i think i'm pregent how could i tell my parents? HELP
I'll rate 5

Tell mom first && let her tell your dad..

You shouldn`t wait too long but you need to figure out what to do..

Maybe go to the doctor first too double double check..

Most likely the test is right tho,Very rarely are they wrong..

♥Dez

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i am a fourteen year old female and my family needs some money.

do you have any possible jobs? my mom said no cutting grass bc she siad i'd have to supply the lawn mower and well I can't take it around town.
any suggestins are greatly appreciated.

-Babysit
-Fast Food resturant
-Grocery Store
-Washing hair at a Salon
-Cleaning houses
-Washing && walking dogs
-Cleaning churches
-If any theme/amusement parks are near
♥Dez

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i usually either straighten, scrunch, where up, where down, do a half ponytail, with my hair.

i think it's getting boring :[ lol. any how-to styles or sites that have some new stuff for hair? mine is about one inch past my shoulders. thx for any help

I think twisties are so cute on short hair..
[You twist half your hair,Its really not that hard to do,You twist it to the scalp && put a rubber band at the end..]

Then curls are always cute too,Curl it with curlers..

♥Dez

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This sounds like a stupid question but is there any way to make your hair grow faster?




Cutting your dead ends makes your hair grow fast && take some vitamins..

♥Dez

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I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

I`m very sorry to hear this && it must be hard to be in the middle of this..

I suggest you mentioning this to her parents WITHOUT your friend knowing..Tell the parents you`d like for your friend not to know they know from you..

Maybe mention this to a counselor at school if you guys go the same school..&& they`ll tell her parents..

Hope i helped if you need more advice please ask!

Sorry again ♥Dez

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After you stop using a acne product, will acne come back? Or, will it stay away. Thanks.

Most likely it would..♥Dez

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would it be safe for a kid to go on the low carb diet?

I would think it depends on your weight && height..If your over weight then i don`t see why it would be a bad idea.. Maybe ask your doctor..

♥Dez

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What does "friends with benefits" mean

Its just a friend that you basically use for like kissing && things like that but your not girlfriend && boyfriend,So basically No strings attached type thing..

♥Dez

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I love this guy but I don't think he likes me because of the music I listen to now (( emo, rock, etc. )) He is my exboyfriend but when I dated him last year, I was really preppy and loved rap...what should I do?

Thats sounds really stupid for him to possibly not like you because of music you like..

If he doesn`t like you for a stupid reason like that then you probably shouldn`t be interested in such a shallow guy..

Maybe ask him if he likes you && if not why..Talk to him..

♥Dez

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Does anybody know any games to play on a trampoline me and my friends get so bored on the trampoline so if you have a game name it and tell me how to play thanks

gb.

Wrestling is always fun..

Marco Polo like the pool game..

Crack the egg..[Where somebody lays with there knees in there chest && wraps there arms around there legs && that person is in the middle while everbody else jumps until the person cracks]

I use to play these games when i was little && had a trampoline..

Have fun!! Sorry if they was kind of kiddie but they could be fun for any age..

♥Dez

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what clothes are the hottest?? i am a male!!

Well depends on what kind of clothing you like..

Most guys i know wear=Ecko,G-unit,Dickies && White/Black Tees..

But also i noticed more in the suburbs guys wear Hollister,Abercrombie && clothing similar to that && also Polos..

Depending on what kind of style your looking for..

Hope i helped some..If you need more advice please ask!!

♥Dez

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is it bad to give a guy head if you have cuts in your mouth? bc someone told me you werent supposed to and well like i accidentally bit the inside of my cheek and it bled and welll im hanging out with my boyfrind tongiht so i was jw?

No its defiantly not a good idea to give him head jf you have a open sore inside or around your mouth..

Maybe wait til its healed..

♥Dez

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is it a turn off if girls dont shave?

Shaving what??

If your talking about the vagina area then possibly no..Some like it shaved some don`t && some don`t care..

If you have like really hairy legs then i would hope you`d shave them but if you don`t think they need to be then don`t shave them..

If your talking about underarms then like i said if their hairy then i think anybody would find that a turn off..

But for good hygene i would hope you would..&& also its your decision but i`m assuming your talking about the vagina area..

Hope i helped.. if you have questions please ask..

♥Dez

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today in school a boy asked me if i had a PO? and i didnt know wat to say so i said do u have 1? and he said yes..any ideas waht it is? its not anything to do with like cops or paroll officers or any of that im sure.

I use to call my old Probation Officer my P.O..

Its just slang or short for it..

WHy not ask to see what he means it he brings it up again..

♥Dez

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every morning after having sex, i have spotting. (slight bleeding). i'm 16 f. is this normal? i can' talk to my parents about it

Its not normal if its not like the first few times you`ve had sex..

If it continues to do that i suggest consulting a doctor..You can go to planned parenthood without a parent..Just tell them you have no insurance && they`ll decide something reasonable..

♥Dez

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What does it mean to be circumsized?

Its takin a layer of skin off that covers the head of a males penis..

It keeps from gettin bacteria in it..Its for hygenic reasons or maybe even religous reasons..

They do this when most boys are babys..Its just basically extra skin..

♥Dez

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