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What ages do most people with Cerebral Palsy die??

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It depends on how bad it is. They can die whenever normal people do. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I have a girlfriend.I also have an ex.I went to the movies with ex.I still have fellings for my ex.Well any ways I went to the movies with my ex
and two of her friends.I thuogh we was not going to any thing because i have a girlfriend.So i did not do any thing with her for the first 30 mins of the movie.For some reason we started holding hands then 45 mins into the movie we stated to make out and now i have mixed emotions
I want to be with my girlfriend.I love my girlfriend.I also love my ex.now i dont no weather to break up with my girlfriend to go out with my ex or stay with my girlfriend.Please help me

Don't go out with your ex. If I was your gf and you went out with her, I'd be like, heartbroken. Just stay with your gf. And maybe, later on, if you break up with her, you can go out with your ex, but not right now. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I haven't been myself lately. And I don't know why. Ugh, I just feel like.. I'm not here, or something.. you know? My friends have noticed, my family... even this lady I take karate with asked me today if I was okay. I can't figure this out. Could I be depressed? I mean, I'm happy about a lot of things. But my life just seems so empty. Like it's missing something.. I donno. Maybe I'm just always tired. I DO need more sleep. And more exercise. Maybe that's why I haven't been myself... I donno.. What do u all think?? Help!!

Omg, I'm exactly like that. Sometimes I wonder if I'm depressed, but I'm really not, because I'm always happy when I'm with friends and stuff. So I don't think you're depressed. It's weird, cuz I feel like something's missing too, but I just can't figure it out. Try talking to your mom about it. Maybe she can help you figure stuff out. You could be stressed out, or maybe you want a bf, like I do, lol. Idk, hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Okay this is a question for guys and girls. im a 15 year old girl and i like this kid and he said that he likes me to but he doesn't want a girlfriend. im confused though cause we have like 45 min conversations on the phone and talk alot. what does that all mean?

He might've just gotten out of a bad relationship, or is just too busy for a gf right now. Just give him time, and he'll ask you out eventually. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I am in 7th grade and am guy-hopeless. I get all shy around guys! Any advice?

Just wear an outfit that you look hott in and just pretend like you're talking to a good friend. Don't worry, the more you talk to a guy, the easier it gets. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ok, about a week or two ago i was at my friends birthday party. there was about 15 or so people there. we were all in her basement dancing and eating ext. her parents keep all the food on shelves down there and their alcohol too. well a few people decided to put some rum in a few of the soda cans. we hadnt known her parents marked those bottles. we all got busted at about 3 am ish. as soon as i found out her parents knew and they were going to tell our parents i was so upset. i didnt even have any. my parents were talking to me about it because they wanted to know what was going on. i told them that it was all lauras fault and she was drinking alot. it really wasnt but i was very very mad at her because i thought she was going to go out with the guy i like because he likes her and i thought she might like him too. now my parents hate her and im not ever allowed to see her again because they think shes a "bad influence" on me. how do i get my parents to forgive laura and like her again and let me be friends with her again??

There's not a whole lot you can do to change your parent's minds. My mom thinks my friend is a bad influence, too, but I've just learned to accept it, I guess. Maybe ask Laura to do something nice for your parents, like bake cookies for them or something, to make them like her again. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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everybody tells me that i am very pretty. guys notice, but they are so hung up on the popular snobby girls. i hate it. its like all they want is to be popular. they don't even care about personality. what should i do!?!?!?! please help!
guys are wierd! i've already asked some people for help!! please help me asap!

You just have to talk to them a lot, so they notice your personality, too! And not just your looks. I hate when guys do that! Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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im not really good at dancing. i have school dances and such but i dont know how to dance. can someone tlel me any sites that show how to dance in hip hop or any movies that have great dance moves

Here's a good website I found on Google for ya: http://www.bustamove.com/cgi-bin/scripts/post_link.pl?p=hip_f&d=&b=935441471710
Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Ok, I have a friend, let's call him Nick. I went out with Nick August through September. Well, he broke up with me because he got into smoking, drinking, dipping, and stealing again and he didn't want me to get started and make me all freaked and stressed. Me and him always talk, well used to at least. Now the only time we talk basically is in the mornings at school for breakfast. Now he has this girlfriend, let's call her Samantha. She's a total whore and they've had sex 3 times that I know of and they've done some sexual things with eachother. When I was going out with Nick he was still a virgin, and now all the sudden hes doing all this stuff every day. He's obviously gotten well over me but I still like him a lot and no-one knows that I do. The very few times that we talk it's always Samantha this Samantha that. And everytime he says anything about her it breaks my heart but he has no idea. I just don't know what to do to get over him, I'm so confused and lost. Please give me some sort of an idea. Sorry that it's so long..

Well, you know you can't go out with him, so you're gonna have to just forget about him. (don't worry though, this happens a lot). You just have to start talking to other guys, and it'll get your mind off of him. Maybe even talk to him about it in the morning if you feel you need to. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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my computer has a porn virus and it says uninstall so i click it and it STILL pops up and it wont ever uninstall. so can any one help me to get rid of this disgusting porn virus

Well, I don't know if that's an icon or not, but I went in a chatroom and some guy sent me his pics. So I went to open the icon thing that was labeled pics and it wouldn't open. It would let me delete it either. So I made a new folder on my desktop, and put it in there. Then I put the folder in the recycle bin. Then you go in the recycle bin and delete it there too. Sorry if what you're talking about wasn't icon. Hope I helped though.
♥ Erin

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I hardly see my mom and she goes to work at 5:30 in th morning and if I don't say goodbye to her befor she leaves I cry for an hour! I don't usally cry but I have been lately but only if I don't say goodbye to her. What is wrong with me?! Am I a baby or is something else going on with me?Please help me!

No, it's natural to want your mom when you're growing up, because that's usually when you need her the most. That sometimes happens to me, so don't worry, it's normal. Just talk to her about it, and I'm sure you'll both find a way to solve the problem. Like, maybe say good-bye before you go to bed, or get up at 5:30, say goodbye, then go back to bed/get ready for school. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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What should i do ? if people thought u were crazy or ur friend was crazy ? Because they cut there self? and tryed killing your self

Just ignore them. They just want a reaction. If you don't give them one, they'll get bored and shut up. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??

Nope, don't do it. You promised you wouldn't cheat. Think if he cheated on you, how would you feel? Besides, I think the guy online is just looking for sex. I mean, he's already talking about it. Just tell him you can't meet him, and say you have a bf and you just want to be friends. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I am freaking out after we finished sex ed and looked at pictures I started getting cravings and having dreams of having sex. (With guys) It felt so real and good. Does this make me sick? I also started getting craving to hump stuff around me. Am I a total sicko? I'm only 13 help!

You're normal. You're just growing up and getting more interested in guys. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I like this skater guy alot .We started hanging out at lunch alot now . And i talk to him about stuff .But he always tell's me .about the girl he likes. It annoys me ..so nad but i act like i care ..but i don't i like him. What should i do ?.I change when i'm by him i'm not me .My mo even said i've been changing latly, i'm rude nedetive, getin in trouble , wear more black but idk whe i'm with him ....i feel like notin really matterrs to me but him what souldi do ?? help

You should talk to him about it. I think he might like you, because some guys talk about other girls to make you feel like he doesn't like you, but they really do. Try not to be so negative about it though. Tell your friends about it, so they can cheer you up. Hang out with your friends, just go to the mall or something. It'll cheer you up. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Im 14 and i broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago. His best friend likes me alot and we went out before but broke up because i had to move but i moved back here again. An i like him extreamly alot also!! But my x boyfriend likes me sooo much and i dont like him and he knows that... So shuld i go out with his bestfriend even though my x likes me alot.. or shuld i just be single? Please help me =/

I think you should go out with his best friend, since you 2 really like each other. You don't like your ex, so don't go out with him. But since you don't want to ruin their friendship, ask his best friend if it's ok with your ex. If it's not, then I wouldn't go out with him, because you don't want to ruin their friendship. (put yourself in your ex's shoes) Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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What is anemic depression? And does anyone have or know wehere to get any info on it? Thanx! xoxo - KrIsSy*

Here's a website I found searching on Google for ya. http://jap.physiology.org/cgi/content/abstract/63/5/1942
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♥ Erin

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On my bus the older kids are mean to my best friend. They always steal her stuff. Like yesterday she had a gameboy with her and was playing sims and this kid stole it and wouldn't give it back until she gave him gum. She had to jump some seats to get it back. Then today she wouldn't give him gum again so he started stabbing her with a needle. He treatened to stab me with it if I didn't move so he could get inm our seat. They my best friend threw the gum out the window and he and his friends started cursing her off and trying to cut her with it. I want to find a way to help but I don't know how. What should I do?

You have to tell the busdriver, a teacher, or the principal. No one has the right to treat your friend like that. You're really sweet for trying to help your friend. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Theres this guy I like and he just tried asking out this girl whos a grade ahead of us but he got turned down(plus if she said yes, this guy in her grade and his friends would have beat up "my guy". Now, all through the year. Ever since August, this boy has been flirtin with me and acting like he seriously likes me. We talk on the phone, chill together at school. We're almost always around each other when we're not in classes we don't have together. And whenever we are around each other, we always end up talking about something and everyone else in our group just talks amongst themselves. Well, last night, me and him were talking on the phone and he asked me who I wanted to go out with in our school. And I said, "I don't know. I have someone in mind. He's cute and sweet and funny and nice and..." and he said "Come on, stop talkin about me" and I laughed. Then he said, "But you know, a lot of people have been coming up to me telling me that you like me" and I was like "Ok, well you know a lot of people have been comin up to me telling me you like me" and he said(in a sarcastic tone that means the same as "duh") "No, really?" and so I was like "Yea" and well, I'm just wondering what you all think. I'm thinking hes liking me but I'm not too sure and I don't want to tell him I like him. At least not yet. I plan on calling him tonight and talking about it a bit more but, in the meantime I'd really appreciate any advice you all might have for me. Thanks.

I think he really likes you. Everything he does and everything he said on the phone was just a desperate cry from him saying, "I love you! Date me!" Lol. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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My boyfriend live 1500 miles away. Weve been together what seems like forever, but its 8 months. We're so in love, even though its been a short time we really know each other and im close with his family. But everyone is like hes cheating on you. Hes a guy... I know hes a guy but im not stupid he did do stuff before me but not much and hes not like that. Hes so against cheating and would NEVER do that. But how do I get these people off my back? Even his losker room buddies say it. And I know they wouldnt know much bc he didnt really talk to them much. He never lied to me and I could easily find out. i know where he is at all times. Hes not cheating on me. How can I convince other people?

Tell them that you always know where he is, so if he was cheating on you, you would've known. If girls are saying that, maybe they're just jealous and trying to break you 2 up. But since the guys in the locker room are saying it too, I'm not really sure. Just ask him if he's cheating on you. If he says no, believe him. If you know he loves you, then you have no reason to worry. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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