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Long Distance


Question Posted Friday January 7 2005, 1:48 am

My boyfriend live 1500 miles away. Weve been together what seems like forever, but its 8 months. We're so in love, even though its been a short time we really know each other and im close with his family. But everyone is like hes cheating on you. Hes a guy... I know hes a guy but im not stupid he did do stuff before me but not much and hes not like that. Hes so against cheating and would NEVER do that. But how do I get these people off my back? Even his losker room buddies say it. And I know they wouldnt know much bc he didnt really talk to them much. He never lied to me and I could easily find out. i know where he is at all times. Hes not cheating on me. How can I convince other people?

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xXsExYgurlXx23 answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:56 pm:
Well tell them i know my bf and no one id gonna change that!! And if they have a prblem w/ it well tell them go suck off or replace the s w. a f anf there u go lol glad i could help!!

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earthlynomad answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:19 pm:
If you are certain he's being faithful, then continue to believe that, those people obviously are a) trying to protect/look out for you b) people who would cheat on their partners if seperated c) bored with their own lives and wanting to feed of yours.
Maybe a good way to clear the air would be to tell him what they are saying,in person so you can gauge his reaction. Then if he denies it and you believe him, you can tell your friends that you've challenged him, and trust him, that way they are left out of the equation!

Good luck.

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XxCarliexX94 answered Friday January 7 2005, 8:23 pm:
yeah he could are you that stupid you can't knwo every thing over a phone idoit

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Shortie8959 answered Friday January 7 2005, 4:02 pm:
Tell them that you always know where he is, so if he was cheating on you, you would've known. If girls are saying that, maybe they're just jealous and trying to break you 2 up. But since the guys in the locker room are saying it too, I'm not really sure. Just ask him if he's cheating on you. If he says no, believe him. If you know he loves you, then you have no reason to worry. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Tinkerbelle answered Friday January 7 2005, 3:37 pm:
You don't need to convince them. It's a relationship between you, and your boyfriend, not you, your boyfriend, and everyone at your school. So just ignore them and move on, they don't matter in this situation.

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:52 am:
Let them be that way, alot of people would think that becuaseit would seem like he would, but they dont know you sitation and they dont know you guys, only you do, so i dont know what you should tell him or anything becuase thats hard, but dont get sucked into them and just hav fun with your relationship and skrew what they say

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chaos answered Friday January 7 2005, 10:31 am:
You don't have to convince them of anything. Trusting him is all you need. It's very difficult to maintain a long distance relationship, but as long as you trust him and he you everything will be fine.

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Farren answered Friday January 7 2005, 9:29 am:
You can't, just another reason why long distance relationships suck, but who knows maybe yours is one of the few that works out in the end. Hope you can bear it hun.
-Farren

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Babigurl answered Friday January 7 2005, 4:17 am:
if your positive that he isnt just ignore what they say! who really cares whats they think? you kno him better then any of them do so how would they kno?
xO <3 *sara elaine

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evilenterprisesinc answered Friday January 7 2005, 2:13 am:
If you truly feel in your heart that he is NOT cheating.. then just ignore them people.. they dont know jack.. serious. just ignore them and they will stop.. u no.. say like "Woteva" or "Proove it!!!" hope this helps!!

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