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I don't know, I just need some sort of an answer
Ok, I have a friend, let's call him Nick. I went out with Nick August through September. Well, he broke up with me because he got into smoking, drinking, dipping, and stealing again and he didn't want me to get started and make me all freaked and stressed. Me and him always talk, well used to at least. Now the only time we talk basically is in the mornings at school for breakfast. Now he has this girlfriend, let's call her Samantha. She's a total whore and they've had sex 3 times that I know of and they've done some sexual things with eachother. When I was going out with Nick he was still a virgin, and now all the sudden hes doing all this stuff every day. He's obviously gotten well over me but I still like him a lot and no-one knows that I do. The very few times that we talk it's always Samantha this Samantha that. And everytime he says anything about her it breaks my heart but he has no idea. I just don't know what to do to get over him, I'm so confused and lost. Please give me some sort of an idea. Sorry that it's so long..
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The reason why you still like him is because you WERE going out with him and believe me, it's totally normal. If he doesn't love you, he's moved on to other girls. The reason why he's having sex with this one girl is because she's badder and a whore, you're not and trust me, thats a good thing. You don't need to be a whore just so guys will like you. Stay yourself, O.K? Samantha obviously doesn't know who she's dealing with. I mean, you'r e obviously an intelligant young lady who know her way around guys hearts. Listen to yours. O.K? What do YOU think YOU should do? Move on! Go to other guys. He may not love you but make him jealous. He'll come around when he pays that whore and she'll break up with him and he'll be lonely wishing he had you but you'll be long gone with another guy! It all works out, I promise.
He is an idiot. If he wants girls like samantha, he's not worth it at all. You need to influence him that you are moved on so he'll think that you don't love him anymore and he'll want you back but it's up 2 u whether you take ihm back! theres plaenty more fish in the sea, sweetie! Hope i helped and best of luck!!!!!!
~~~Kayla~~~
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maybe he had a really hard time when you guyz broke up so he is trying to influense you into thinking hes moved on who knows maybe you both have the same feelings for eachother. Try talking to him and maybe youll get the answer your looking for
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Well, I am very very sorry. There is probably a reason he is acting like this. If you care about him, you need to find a good time where you two could be alone and talk about it. He sounds like he is a good person going through something he just can't deal with. Right now, he may just need a friend, which you could perfectly be.
Lots of Luck and best wishes for your friend,
Ann
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Well, you know you can't go out with him, so you're gonna have to just forget about him. (don't worry though, this happens a lot). You just have to start talking to other guys, and it'll get your mind off of him. Maybe even talk to him about it in the morning if you feel you need to. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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