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Q: Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

you can wear tights, shorts or regular underwear under the skirt. or you can wear jeans with a skirt if it looks good. just wear whatever you want...

Q: i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?

please help. i rate!

tell her that itz your hair and your choice on what you want to do with your hair. and that itz not her hair. also tell her that u feel sick when u get hot.

Q: I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?

cover girl and clinique are great

Q: I like 2 guys and i dont know what to do because i dont know which one i like more! what should i do?

before going to sleep think of the 2 guys and compare them both. compare what you like and don't like about each guy. then u will have ure answer

Q: Ok I am new so just bare with me here... There is a boy at my school that I like but doesn't like me back. He wants to keep our friendship but he doesn't know it hurts me so much. And just today he asked out my friend. Please help me. Oh I am 13 and so is he.

i think that you should just move on. he obviously isn't the one for you. but don't worry there are plenty of other guys that you will meet later on. everyone goes through heartbreak so stay strong. xoxo peachgirly

Q: hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him?

I think that you should wait and see what happens next. he may like you or maybe he is just being nice and friendly. i had the same situation and it turned out that the guy likes me as just a friend. Guys can be confusing at times. but don't give up cuz he may have a crush on you. good luck!

Q: Does anyone have or had scoliosis? and had to have surgery?? if so what was it like? thanks!

well, i have scoliosis and have 2 curves on my spine but it sort of got a lil bit better from sitting up straight and not slouching. but i still have to have checkups once in a while but for me itz not that serious yet to have surgery. this girl i knew had surgery on her spine and said that it wasn't that bad. so don't worry your not alone. xoxo peACHGIRLY

Q: here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!

no, itz not a bad thing if you haven't gotten your period yet at 14. every girl gets it at different ages. so don't worry.

Q: Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

I think that you should go out with Chris cuz who knows he could be the one for you and you haven't went out with him yet. and if you go out with Steven again you may get your heart broken again and just break up again. also don't go with what your friends think i mean itz your decision. and think this over compare steven and chris on what you like and don't like about both of them and you will get your answer. xoxo Peachgirly

Q: I am an 8th grader and my boyfriend is a 7th grader. I really like him but i want to know what i should do when i go to high school and my boyfriend is still in middle school. Should i break up with him or should i keep the relationship and see him on the weekends?

i think that you should keep the relationship going and still see him on the weekends. but if you find someone else that is better in high school since you'll meet a lot of people then you should probably dump him.

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i like the first one it looks really cute.

Q: Can anyone give me step by step instructions on how to make home-ade brownies. Please include ingrediants. Thanks.

1 cup sugar
3/4 cup flour
1 stick margarine, softened
5 Tablespoons cocoa
1/2 tsp. salt
2 eggs
1 Tablespoon vanilla

Mix all the ingredients. Spread batter in a greased 8x8" pan. Bake at 350 degrees F for 30 minutes

Q: okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..

no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!

OMG!!!! thats horrible!!!You should report this to the police and this guy needs to be in jail. i mean he took something that is important to u. tell a trusted adult or someone who is close to you. call RAINN for confidental counseling 24/7 if you've been raped 1-800-656-hope. or go to this site http://www.rainn.org/counseling.html
i hope things go well for you.

Q: me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?

no thats a good thing if you two never fight.

Q: Everytime I fight with someone I start shaking, is this normal?

yes, itz normal so don't worry. :)

Q: um this sounds kind of dumb... but are big heads a turn-off or like a bad quality that would turn a guy away from a girl... my heads pretty big and i hate it but theres nothing i can do.. its a big deal to me but is it a big deal to other people.. what do you think, any advice?

having a big head isn't a big deal at all and no one would really care and if they did they are jerks. always love and accept yourself.

Q: ok im 13 and i wanna no should i care what people think? theres a guy i really like and he asked me out but he's like a 7! i need answers!

You shouldn't care what other people think. if you really like him and he likes you you should just go for it. if ppl start making comments just ignore them.

Q: i live in a warm tropical country and i was wondering what perfume would still smell great after about 4 hours in humid weather? something fresh and clean, and will not smell sour later on =) thanks

ralph lauren,J.Lo,lacome(miracle),tommy hilfiger(true star),Britney Spears(curious),chanel,Clinique, or the one liv tyler is advertising.

Q: Ok, there is this guy in my class. I really really like him, cuz hes a good guy and stuff. But each time I try to talk to him he just looks at me and turns red and acts like he doesnt even know me. Does he like me or does he just hate me?

Sounds like he likes you. i think that maybe he is just really shy and scared to talk to you. i guess if hes not gonna do anything after a while you should make the move by talking to him. Good luck!

Q: there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me?

I think that he just doesn't want his friends and other people to know and maybe hes just embarassed. and you don't need to be the Paris Hilton type to get the guy and he may like you because you are normal and he find you attractive. He shouldn't care on what other people would think because if he really liked you then he wouldn't care on what other people think and hes being stupid.You should dump him if he keeps doing this and itz upsetting you. Good luck!

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