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Ok one of my best friends best friend went out with this guy for about 3 months and they broke up about 2 weeks ago. While they were going out I started to like him a little more, and now since they have broken up I like him ALOT. But the problem is I havent ever really talked to him before. He is in 1 of my classes, how do I get him to notice me? Then just a couple of days ago I just found out my best friend likes him and she is the "it" girl of the school like all of the guys like her and everything. And she knows that I like him. Knowing her she is probably ganna ask him out sometime and he is probably going to say yes. what do I do about that too...anyways He is tall cury hair fast runner and hott ( kinda like an abercrombie or some type of modle) lol and I am short blonde blue eyes and ya. Well I would really like some help! thx a bunch!! I rate high*
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well beat her to it! lol jk, but if you want him to notice you, sit next to him and maybe ask him for help on the homework in the class, or see what hes doing on the weekend, ask him to go to the movies, kinda like a date thing but its like a casual hang out type a thing, he sounds like a cutie, but if that girl knows that you like him i hope that she wont ask him out, because if she knows that rude of one of your best friends to do that to you, well.. try talking to him in class bring up something about that class ask him questions, that should work, good luck! x0


i've been hanging out with the druggies and gangstas at my school. my best friend which is none of those got mad at me because shes going to think im going to do drugs or change my style. i was always hanging out with the gangstas though so shes mostly worried about the druggies. she makes fun of some of my friends and i act like i dont like them but i really do. i dont want her worring about me and who i hang out with but its sorta hard. i've always been the one getting in trouble or bending the rules but shes never really seen that side of me because i act like a totally diff. person around her. what should i tell her so she can stop telling me who to hang out with? and make her stop talking about my friends???

thanx (link)
ok i know where your coming from, i got alot of friends who do drugs and who are gangstas, but their my friends, and i'm not a gangsta and i dont do drugs. you gotta tell your friend not to worry about you, you can make your own decisions and hopefully you wont make a bad one becoming one of them and thinking that you will still have her as a friend, just tell her that their your friends if she makes fun of you, b/c that hurts you too if someone makes fun of them. x0


Sorry about the lenth. Anyways, my boyfriend and me started having sex last Augest. (i'm 17/f) and my mom found out a couple of monthes after, and she found out we weren't using condoms and such ... anyways, ever since she keeps blackmailing me. If I don't do this for her or kiss her ass for the rest of my life she'll tell his parents everything ... and he'll get sent away. We love each other to death, but if we were seperated I don't know what I would do. This blackmail stuff is really getting to me ... i get all stressed out by it and depressed. Really depressed. Please help, i rate high (link)
your 17 your old enough to make your own decisions, and if you guys have sex, its your business not your moms, but the least you could do is use condoms, just protect yourself, but anyways, if you guys dont wnat to its your decision but hopefully your mom will knock it off because thats what usually little brothers/sisters do when they find out something about you, not your mom!


What is the #1 thing a man can do to make himself more attractive?

What is generally the least attractive thing about a man? (link)
def his look, usually a guys look will get your attention and if a guy can do that hes def hott or you think something like that, the least is if hes an ass, always talks about himself and not really interested in anything you say. thats what i think x0


okay well i wanna have a bday party but my mom said i couldn't have it at my house so where are some good places to have a bday party when im a grl and im turnin 14...thanks! (link)
for some odd reason alot of people have been having their parties at a hotel, ive never been to a hotel party b4, but everyone says that their fun, or you could go to lazer tag, those are always fun, ice skating since its the winter.. hmm bowling? or like in a banquet hall with food. x0 Renee


i am very gassy. I know I know, it sounds so gross, and i am alwyas so embaressed about it , but i dont know what to do. I alwyas get gas everywhere i go, at the mall, at the movies at school and even at home! Its not what im eating because i eat very healthy. And my mom says its stress, but i know its not becase besides the gas, im happier than i have ever been. And also its not silent gas, and its very smelly. I ALWAYS get so red when i have gas on the bus or in class, and everyone looks at me. I don know what to do , i have tried medicines and stuff but theuy never seem to work! help!!! (link)
take gas x or something that will give you gas at night, so that in school you wont have any gas. i would think that should work. x0 Renee


ever since i was a baby ive had really blue eyes, and now i want to emphasize them. everyone thinks theyre really pretty, will wearing like, teal colored clothes emphasize them? (link)
i like my eyes, their like a hazel then sometimes their green, to bring them out i wear kinda dark colors, people say that it makes them stand out, some say lighter colors, but i would say darker colors! x0 =)


i just got out of this relationship with a guy i dated for a really long time. he broke up with me because we get into little fights. we both still love eachother, but he's afraid to hurt me because of little things. he thinks i'm hurt bc i cry, but i cry bc i don't want to break up. i really want him back, and he says he still loves me. what can i do to convince him that we should be together? i've tried to get over him, i play volleyball n i let my anger out on that, n i write poems n hang out w/ friends, but nothing works! please help me! i donno what to do! =( (link)
i cry all the time in front of my bf even if over the LITTLEST things, because i'm afraid of loosing him too. wait until he comes around again, hell realize that you guys were meant to be, and hopefully you guys wont have these little fights anymore because they all add up and look what happened, try not to get upset about little things. if he still likes you, maybe hes giving you both a break to clear things up, maybe there wont be any fights the next time around. x0 hope you guys work everything out.


hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO (link)
i would say go out with him if i were you, because how many chances are you going to get with chris? like seriously, i think you should look at this and think that its a good thing that he might ask you out, bc in the end i know you'll regret it if you say no. trust me hun. i think you should take your chance and go out with him, and most likely you guys will still be really good friends if you guys ever broke up. x0


Okay my boyfriend is SO pissed off at me. He got so mad at me and he said he wasnt mad anymore but then he was lyk "FUCK U!" n hung up on me =(...what should i do? Im NOT gonna dump him because thats stupid...i love him and i wanna make this work. What should i do to make it up to him? IM me on oOPassion kissez if you need the full story. Thanks.. (link)
give your bf some time, whenever i feel theres a slightest tension between me and my bf on the phone or anything, i just let it go and give him time until hes all better and not mad anymore, dont call him, he'll probably get even madder at that and would be annoyed (trust me ive learned) and let him call you back until hes not mad anymore, that should work, hopefully hes not THAT mad at you! x0


Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning? (link)
i would think this happens to you when you go to school usually, cuz yea i'm like that all the time before school, b/c no one wants to go to school, and usually when your looking forward to something that day youll feel good and usually not that tired. thats how i am, like if i know that img oing shopping after school with all my friends, i look forward to it, so give yourself something to look forward to that day and it should help boost you up throughout the day. x0


O.K- My dog (Millie Light) keeps pooping on the floor and I literally clean up poop 6 times a day! Is this just plain diaria? Is this normal? Please Help!
P.S- I'm cleaning up poop as we speak!
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
its normal, well my dog did the same exact thing, until it was potty trained. thats the only reaon why i dont like puppies, they stink up the whole house, meanies! x0 once it gets potty trained, itll be fine.


do girls cum? (link)
its not like the guys when they cum, its like watery stuff? its fluid stuff that comes from your vag. x0


is your pubic hair the same colour as your hair?
ex: if you blond is your pubic hair blond? (link)
no it only happens usually if you got red hair, you usually get red pubes, its kinda funny tho.. but mostly pubic hair is usually black. x0


Is there anyone here from MAssachusetts, in the norfolk county area that could tell me where i can find indoor batting cages? (link)
im not from massachusetts but i do think if you search on a search engine you should find a list of batting cages around the area you said in your search. hope that helps x0


Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now..march 10 will be a year..and for his bday i got him a chain and braclet for christmass i got him cologn really exspensive cologne...noww one year is coming and so is Valentines day and he always gets me something relaly nice*gold necklace....ring ect.*
what can i get him?! idea's any one please!!

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gift certificates are perfect, so that he can pick out what he really wants if you dont know! or you could buy him a sweatshirt or something, a video game if he likes those, but wow a gold necklace and you guys havent been together for a year! lucky! haha me and my bf have been together for over a year and zip, nada, nothing! well like clothes but nothing expensive like that! x0 gift certificates are good!


Well I had a dog and it died because someone poised it and it was sooo hard and i am 13 and a female and my mom wont let me get another dog and i really really want one. How can i conviece her that i want a dog????? What do i have 2 do 2 show her that I am responsible enough so that i can have a dog and that i can take really good care if it??????????????? Please dont delete this. Thanx alot.
oxoxox,
C.S. (link)
show her that your responsible, show her tests, clean, do homework, and ask her if she needs any help with anything (they love that!) that should work, it worked for me! i hope you get that dog! i love puppies! x0 Renee


hey. i hope that you can help me. one of my best friends and i have been in an on-going fight for more than 2 weeks. ive been apologizing, and it doesnt seem to be changing anything. she always finds a reason to be mad at me. idk whats going on. shes been spreading rumors about me, too. and threatened to have people jump me! weve been best friends for almost 9 years. should i just forget that she ever existed, or should i keep begging for her forgiveness?
*Katie (link)
ditch her, seriously, if anything most of the time you got NOTHING to apoligize for, for instance, me and my friends were hanging out one night and in the morning i went home and later that same night i left them, they called me up making fun of me saying they hate me, and i have nothing to apoligize for, so i'm not going to do anything about it, we have been friends like ever since i moved here, for like 11 years.. and now this?! and if they hate you so what its their loss not yours, and when they say that their going to jump you, their not actually going to do it.. out of everyone who says it only like 2% not even actually do that, their just trying to scare you. stop begging for her forgiveness, if they really want to be friends with you you shouldnt have to beg them, find some new friends who actually are considerate of you and like you. x0 i hope things work out.


i am 15 / female ok ever since the beginning of school there has been this cutie named dan in my class. Well i had a boyfriend and he was just a friend towards me. I broke up with my boyfriend and me and dan got a little closer and than i started dating this other boy. His name is Matthew. Well i made a promise with dan than when me and matt break up i would look into going out with him. 2 months later me and matt broke up and i was really up set even tho i dumped him. i went back out with matt the next day realizing i made a big mistake, but dan got tired of waiting so he gave up on me. :( well i dumped matt thursday before new years and i decided i would go out with dan but dan was pissed at me and sayd no we are just friends and i cried because i realized i lost both guys and matt already had a new g.f i cried and cried and threw up like 3 times realizing how much i miss matthew and all the fun time we had together and my friends have been asking him to go back out with me but he goes out with melissa now soo. What should i do matt and me are still friends and i want to go back out with him bbut i want dan to be my friend like he was before.. (link)
imagine if you were dan.. he waited two months for you, and gave up, how would u liek it if you waited for someone and you knew that you could get someone else without waiting, you get what i mean, your going to have to wait until dan talks to you again because i dont think you have anything to explain to him, you wasted his time, sry hun. but still be friends with matt and keep being friends with him, if you guys go out, dont make another mistake, think beore you do something, i duno what else to say but i dont think it was right carring like 2 guys and expecting him to wait that long for you. x0 Renee


I love this guy so much. His name is Ryan and he lives in Florida, I live in Texas. We talk to each other on the internet and on the phone and we've gotten in alot of fights and he would tell me sweet things like "Molly, you're so perfect I love you" and my friends tell me not to feed off of his words but I can't help it! He's in love with another girl but she lives far away too. I love him sooooo much and I'm in love with him but it's stupid cause I haven't even met him. And I know he doesn't love me back. Please help! (link)
online dating is kinda iffy, your in love with what hes saying, i dont think that hes being himself, that guy is probably like 30, dont risk anything, dont plan on meeting him, theres all that bad talk about internet dating and once they go meet them, their dead. if he doesnt' love you back why dont you find someone who lives around you that you woudl get along better without any fights. x0 Renee




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