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Q: hey everyone, cheerleading just started for me,becuase we start in the summer, well were trying to find 3 songs to use for our competition dances. they can be ANY kind of music, well that is possible to do a dance that would be cute too and the song should be one to get us in a winning mood. well if anyone can give me ANY song suggestions it would ABSOLUTELY GREAT && APPRETIATED. thankss sooo much!!!

we will rock you- queen
hey mr. dj..- madonna
sweet dreams..- the eurithmics (annie linocks)
mickey- bewitched*
hollaback girl- stefani
rich girl- stefani
milkshake song- kelis
toxic- spears

good luck at your comp!!- :)

Q: MY girlfrend got grounded by her mom and now she cant go out with me. what do i do?

umm.. well you can always reschedule right? or do you mean like cant go out with you at all and cant even date you. in that case, try talking to her and maybe even her mom. it wouldnt be fair in that case. but if just for one night you can't go out with her, so what? maybe yall can just talk on the phone or online. im sorry bout that though =(

hope this helps- :)

Q: theres a song that goes like :

merry christmas i could care less..

who sings it and what is the name of the song?

hey yeah its by fall out boy and its yule shoot your eye out & you can read the rest of the lyrics at that site =D

http://server1.lyricsondemand.com/f/falloutboylyrics/yuleshootyoureyeoutlyrics.html

hope this helps- :)

Q: Ok my mom and dad are split and I see my dad every other weekend. I have a computer in my room at my father's place and from what I know no one but me uses it well I went looking in the address bar and found a porn site listed and I did not go on to one and I'm afraid if my father goes on my computer he will find it and think it was me! What do I do! please help!

If you go up to him and confront him first, I think it would be best. Just be like, "I saw that someone had looked at a pretty nasty website, and I was wondering if someone else has been on my computer because I didn't look at it!" Just tell him the truth, really. Since you truly are innocent, then he should see that. =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: what are some good songs that were popular in 1990-2000?

http://www.top40-charts.com/chart.php?cid=27&date=1997-07-07

^hey they have a list of alot of popular songs, and you can change the date that your looking for from 1997-2000.

hope this helps- :)

Q: OK, so today I start a volunteer job at a senior center. I'm excited, becus i get to play games with them and stuff like that. But I'm also nervous. What if they start talking to me, but I can't understand what they are saying? Some of them tend to make fun of newer people, so what if I'm bad at a game, and they make fun of me? I know they dont really mean it, but what do i say? 3 of my grandparents have died, and my gramma is still in her 60's. please help me, i'll rate 5's for anything, even if its just encouragement!

hey that's really cool that you're volunteering your time! just be nice to them. im sure they'll love having you just there with them. if they make fun of you, just go along with it and laught it off! lol. just say, yeah i'll get better! they probably will ask you about yourself, so you can tell them about your grandparents if you want =D

good luck!- :)

Q: Why do people like romantic themes in stories? It's not that I don't, I'm just curious, what do people find attractive about love stories?

people watching or reading love stories put themselves in the position of the main character. when all these lovely and amazing things happen to the character, the person feels happy, too. people love having good things happen to 'themselves' and they love seeing 'themselves' have the perfect romance filled with passion.

hope this helps- :)

Q: i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind

sure, why not? you probably enjoy having someone you can tell anything to without being judged by that someone. if you are okay with it, then keep doing what your doing. but, if you want more interaction with people, then try being friendly and open-minded. i bet you could meet someone with your same interests that doesn't judge you either =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: 1. What is pre cum?
2. When does it occur?
3. Why does it occur?

THanks!--please answer these ?!

websites would be good too!

1. its semen that contains sperm
2. when a guy is sexually arroused
3. when a guy comes to the point of being arroused enough, he will ejaculate and it is something that just occurs, you cannot really control it

hope this helps?- :)

Q: i think you give great advice! i added you as one of my favorites, if thats okay!

hey thanks so much! i really appreciate it and i added you to my list too =D

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Q: ok so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend its not like i need one but all of my friends have had atleast one everyone tells me that i dont make it odvious enough so how do i make it odvious in a way that doesnt seem needy or pathetic i also want some advice on how to flirt not just generic stuff but really in depth please help!!!

hey girlie there are TONS of websites on this kind of stuff so you can explore on your own:

http://www.gURL.com/
http://www.myjellybean.com/
http://www.beinggirl.com/
http://www.girlspace.com/

for sure i know myjellybean has really good in depth flirting tips =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: What does Hedonism mean? or What is it?...thanks!

1.Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses.
2.Philosophy. The ethical doctrine holding that only what is pleasant or has pleasant consequences is intrinsically good.
3.Psychology. The doctrine holding that behavior is motivated by the desire for pleasure and the avoidance of pain.

^ got it from http://www.dictionary.com/

you can go there for any other words your curious about =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: Everyday, my neck hurts really bad. Sometimes it hurts worst one day, and feels better the next. I've got into this really bad habit of cracking my neck. My neck cracks so loud that my dad was a room away, and he could hear it. I've talked to my doctor but she told me to keep cracking it and stretching it. But I'm not sure if cracking helps or hurts me. Do you think I have arthritis? I'm only 13! Does anyone else have neck/shoulder problems? What can I do about this?

hey it could be problems with your sleeping position or posture. make sure you have a good pillow that is not to high up that you are forcing your chin to your neck and not the other way around too.

also, when your sitting around, do you sit with your neck titled to the side or forward or anything. try to always keep your head up straight.

if those don't solve it, maybe your doctor can prescribe some kind of pain medicine.

hope this helps- :)

Q: ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

take a really nice long warm bath! it solves practically everything. also, when i get sore, i take advil with a coke or dr. pepper lol. im not sure if it really does anything to help but it makes me feel better? :P

hope this helps- :)

Q: What is Emo? I hear every1 saying it, but i am clueless.

its short for 'emotional'

hope this helps- :)

Q: j'ai juste voulu voir si quelqu'un parle le français ici, je l'apprends pour un crédit dans le collège, des bouts ? ? Merci,

Hé, je ne parle pas en fait le français. Mais, je peux utiliser ce traducteur pratique ! lol

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Q: I just found my husband's biological father for him a few months ago. They've talked on the phone a few times since then, but he lives in Canada, so it's expensive to talk. We don't really have any money to go visit him either, and we won't for a long time.

I've heard of organizations that help families meet each other after being apart for a long time. Something like they might help pay to fly my husband to see his father. Does anyone know about anything like this? Any information would be incredibly helpful.

Thanks!

hey your story sounds really cool and interesting! you know what, i bet if you emailed or sent in a letter to some talk show, theyd find a way for your husband to meet his dad and have it be on the tv show. like oprah does that kind of good feeling stuff all the time! sorry if it doesn't work =(

hope this helps & good luck- :)

Q: Okay so, I don't understand the whole way college works.

Your major is like..your main subject right?

But could you like do Graphic Design as your major and then do Photography too .. example?

Yeah, explain it all to me :P

hey yeah you should so go to an art institute like the one in chicago or fort lauderdale if your considering graphic design and photography! you could major in one of those and minor in the other OR you could be really advanced and be a double major and major in both of those subjects! you would have more job options =D

hope this helps- :)

Q: I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP.

wow thats really cool that your not gonna change for anyone! of course you will get a boyfriend! someday i promise. it may not be in high school, but you will. join some clubs at your school and you might meet some guys there with your same interests! some guy will eventually love your tomboy style and your personality.

hope this helps!- :)