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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


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okay well i have old beanie baby and pokemon cards left from about 8 years ago when they were very popular and now i no longer want them. i want to sell them on ebay but am i better off selling them now or waiting a few years. is the value of them going to go up or down in the next 5, 10, 20 years?

Like everybody said, sell the Pokemon cards on eBay before they totally go out of value. They really don`t cost that much right now, so just try & sell the rare ones that you have or any ones that you think are the MOST popular. Keep the beanie bears for another 5 years & try and sell them on eBay. You don't want to wait so long before they won`t be even worth a friggen penny. =) I love beanie babys.

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OK theres this guy who i like and i didnt noe he had a girl friend till he told me she broke up with him . well i rele like him and i wanted to tell him that but i dont noe if he still likes that girl . well i want to tell him i like him still but over aol . How do i tell him i dont want to just say " i like u " how do i tell him that i lkie him ?? Please help !!
Thanks .

Hmm..well i don`t have any other way for you to tell him .. But you should just start flirting with him online & then simply just tell him. It`ll get right to the point && cause less confusion. Get what i`m sayin ?? Lol well anyways, how long ago did him && his girlfriend break up ?? If it was just like 2 days ago or something like that, then you might want to wait before he actually gets over her because then he`ll have to say that he still has feelings for his ex && you`ll get hurt. So maybe just wait a little. And then flirt with him on aim && then just tell him that you like him. Sorry if I didn`t help much.

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My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
Austin and I are like best friends. So does she think I'm a cow too? How can she look down on all these girls who aren't even all that fat and not look down on me?

Obviously she`s not looking down on you. She`s just teasing girls who are fat because she was once fat & she`s proud that she lost weight. But she`s a little bitch for doing that. No offense, but she`s shallow. You guys are best friends, so I highly doubt she`ll be calling you fat behind your back or even in front of you. She probably isn`t calling you a cow because she actually knows you..You know?? Well maybe you should just ask her the same question that you asked us. ♥

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say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do?

No don`t worry so much about it. You CAN NOT get pregnant. I'm positivly sure that a sperm can`t go through 3 layers of clothing. ♥

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I am as flat as my back. I have no boobs. I wear a padded bra, but I have no boobs! Is there a kind of bra that will make me look bigger? I'm short and not as develpoed... I develop slower then others. Will they get bigger? THANK YOU SO MUCH!

No, there's nothing that will make them look bigger. Just wear the padded one for now, even if you don't have boobs. They'll grow from time to time. Just wait. ♥

P.S- Don`t wear a bra and then stuff tissues in them. That's called stuffing and if people find out you`ll be so embarrassed it's ridiculous. People can tell..Just a little advice for that. ♥

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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?

Most guys don't care, just as long as they get some. But guys like it when it's shaved. But not all of them. ♥

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How can you tell if one of your contacts is torn? As soon as possible would be appreciated. Thanks!

They'll be a little tear & it should hurt when you have them on. Contacts can't have creases either. ♥

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I was wonder where can i got to find books on drivers ed. like you know when u got to go to driving school what are some books that i can look at first and where can i get them n may the title of the books. Please and thank you!

If you go to the DMV of your state, you can pick up a free book there. ♥

http://www.dmv.org/

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OK so to get rid of stretch marks, whats that stuff called? And whats the brand, and where can i get it? Thanks in advance

You can't really get rid of stretch marks(maybe you can, but i haven't heard of anything.) There's this thing called Cocoa Butter to make them less visable. You can get this ANYWHERE. Wal*greens, Rite Aid, Long Drugs, K-Mart,Wal*mart. Anywhere. ♥

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What do the numbers after a person's name mean in the bible?

ex- Mark 16:16

The first 16 is the chapter, and the second 16 is the verse.

If you find the book of Mark in the bible, you'll see a 16 next to the name, that's the chapter, then where they tell the stories, you'll see that they have little numbers next to the sentences, that's the verse. So that'll be Mark 16:16. Hope i didn't confuse you. But if you need me to explain it to you, then drop on in the inbox. ♥

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hey!
have you ever throught about opening up a chatroom where people can talk to other people directly? i think that this would really make a brilliant site to an awsome site. hope to hear from you soon? lucee xx

Good idea. But we already have one,darling. ♥

http://www.advicenators.com/chat.php

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So lately I've been hanging out with my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about a year now and he's starting to get pretty confortible with me. I mean I love him to death. We're both 14 by the way. But-- sometimes he tells me things I don't need to know and I mean, it's nice that he can be himself around me, but he goes too far. And sometimes its just downright embarassing being with him, but I stick with him because I love him. All the guys think it's cool the things he does but most girls think it's just odd. I don't know what to do ... help!

You just have to deal with it. You love him so you have to love what he does/says also. Understand that this guy loves being around you & where he can be himself. But if your getting really annoyed by this then confront him. Tell him that you just didn't really need to know that or he shouldn't have told you that. ♥

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well i like this guy n yes i am gay. hes a senior i like him alot a realy realy lot. n he is gay n my only problem is im a freshman. n we talk sometimes not often but we have alot in common. i need to know if i should bother asking him out. n e help would b wicked good.

thnx

Not just yet. You have to be friends first. Talk to him more then you can. Ask him to hang out with you. You just HAVE to be friends first because if you guys just hardley talk & you just go up to him & ask him out, then that'll just be plain akward. I say become really good friends first and then ask him out. ♥

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Recently my sister got a game for her PS2 that let's you sing. I've played it a few times and it got kind of addicting. I've done really good on it and I think I actually kind of have a good voice. My parents and sistre and brother say I have a good voice and so do the rest of my extended family. I think it needs some work. But now I was thinking about it and I want to get someones opinion who will be honest with em about it that's not like in my family or one of my friends. Can anyone tell me where to find someone who won't try not to hurt my feelings and just be plain honest? EVen anyone on here?

Try and sing infront of a friend whos very honest. My friend Kellie sings to me all the time when she wants me to be honest & i'll give her a total honest answer. She sings really good,too. If you want you can IM me at RiPPEDjEANSzxO & just sing in the microphone thingy, or email me. My emial is hcoisxlove@yahoo.com . I'll be honest. =) But just try and sing infront of your teacher WHO HAS TIME or just infront of a very honest friend. Or a group of friends at lunch so you can get all of their opinions. ♥

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My friend is a crybaby. I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, or freakishly blunt, but come on. The girl is thirteen years old, and she burst into tears when these two kids in my class wanted to see her yearbook. ALSO, she takes everything WAY too seriously. Every time anyone tries to offer helpful criticism, she gets all mad and starts talking shit about you to other people.

My question to you is...What do I do about this? Should I be friends with someone who is so...out of control? And what can I possibly say to her?

Omg how weird, my friend Kristen is just exactly LIKE THAT! She cried when me & my friend Katie stole her pencil as a joke & she couldn't find it & ugh..it was just a mess ♥. I realize from being friends with her that she's just very sensitive. You should just really talk to her about why does she cry for the simpilest things. My friend has her parents divorced & she took it really hard & i don't think she's over it. She just doesn't seem confident since people always walked out of her life..alot. Be friends with her but confront her. Tell her that your here for her. When you confront her don't put your tone of voice into someone whos willing to argue. Just say "Hey, not to insult you or anything, but why did you cry when _____?, I mean, it wasn't a big deal.". And just talk to her. ♥

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How can you get pictures from a cell phone on a computer ?



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You have to send your pictures to your email. That's what I do. ♥

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latley my friend has been being like weird n mean to be see we were talking online n heres what we said
friend: what did you get on your report card in lang!?!?
me: a B
friend: cool
me: yeha hbu?
friend: i dont wanna tell you cause then you will be like woah!! and other stuff
me: ok

------sometimes i say like oh you smarty pants but she shouldn't take it seriously you know im just kidding

-deal with this one is that we are like best friends n i dont think she likes but cuase she kinda like that kinda person you just wont tell them that they dont like them n i dont sit at her table for lunchi sit with my other school friends n then since we just had a new quater i planned on moving to my other school friend table
but now shes moving with three other girls i wanted to sit with n then now they are leaving me sit with the girls i dont like at the table b the friend michelle would have to move with me nif i did n theres no other room anywhere
friend: well we can ony have you or mivhelle not both
friend: cause we have 9
me: yeah
friend: werent you all excitied to go to their table
me: i guess you can say that
friend: ohh ok
--my great aunt REALLY died n she lived in new york so yeah n i had to go to the funneral n wake n then we had a volleyball game n i was saying that i planned on wuting cause its taking up too much itme

friend: did your great aut really die or is it just an excuse?
me: why would i make up an excuse?
friend: i was jw cause your away message last night was call if u wanna hang tomrrow
me: yeah when i'm done with the wake or before

tell me if this is mean or not

No..it's not mean.

Honestly, no offense or anything, but i couldn't understand HALF of what the hell you were talking about because of your really bad typing skills. Practice please..It'll make me NOT have a headache..♥

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does anybody know any sites that i could find music for an xanga ? ... i rate high ! and answer this a.s.a.p thanks ! ...

www.xanga.com/music_galore

Works greatttttt.. ♥

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i weigh about 150 pounds and i want to weigh about 120 or 110 by the summer so i can wear cute bathingsuits and stuff. how can i do this. i play basketball and softball and for softball we have winter workouts and we run alot. but what else can i do , my problem areas are my butt,stomach,arms, and thighs. please help ill rate 5's!!!

I have a few work-outs to tone your butt & thighs =). I don't care/know if your going to use these, but they actually might help you out a little bit.

♥Bent-Knee Crossover(tones butt & thighs)♥

1)Kneel on all fours with your hands under your shoulders and knees under your hips,with your abs pulled up and in toward your spine.
2)Bend your right leg at a 9O-degree angle and slowly life it until your thigh is parallel to the floor.
3)Keeping your right leg bent, slowly lower your right knee to the outside of your left leg. It's okay if your knee doesn't touch the floor.
4)Raise your right leg back across your left, straightening it as you raise it, until your leg is extended behind your butt, parallel to the floor. Pause,then return to the starting position.

♥One-legged bridge(tones butt & hips)♥
1)Lie on your back with your knees bent and your heels about a foot in front of your butt, with your arms at your sides,palms down. Raise your right knee toward your chest.
2)Pull your abs up and in toward your spine and squeeze your butt muscles as you slowly raise your pelvis toward the ceiling until your left knee,hip,and shoulder form a straight line. Pause your two seconds, then,using your butt muscles, slowly lower your pelvis toward the floor,keeping your right knee raised. *Do 3 sets of 8-10, then switch sides*


I don't know if your going to do these steps, but if you need anymore just leave a question in my inbox.

ALSO EAT HEALTHY. TRY NOT TO EAT SUGAR & FLOUR UNTIL SUMMER. MY FRIEND TRIED IT & SHE LOSE ALOT OF WEIGHT. ♥

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alright well.. my hair is pretty straight medium length i guess. i was wondering what products or what can i use to make my hair wavy? besides braiding it; any ideas? thank youu hun ♥

What you should buy is a one inch curling iron, or you can also buy heating curlers that cost around $2O-$3O at Target. I have those heating curlers & they work great, they leave my curls full & bouncy. I put mine on and sleep with them over night. =) If you decide to buy the curling iron, it might be a little bit more difficult. Some of them will stay, some of them will come apart. That's why you hairspray them. NOT ALOT. Just a little bit to keep them in shape. Try using Got2b curl-vacious curled up spray (at drugstores.)

For a scrunchy hair look, try using Finesse Beautiful Volume Mousse($3 at drugstores). After you get in the shower, mousse your hair when it's damp/wet. If you have a diffuser, use it. ♥

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