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I'm Kelly. I'm 15. And I have experienced a lot in life. I love helping people, so i decided to get one of these a while back. I don't come on a lot, but maybe I will start more often. I also answer questions with honesty, and how i would work things out. I have delt with a lot, and i probably have had a problem similar to yours. So, why not give me a try, and hit me up with a question?! If you want to actually talk to me - feel free to IM me, to ask me a question or just to chat- I'm pretty much always on.

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ok im a 14 year old boy. i am id say about 3/4 done with puberty. the only thing i have yet to confirm about myself is the ability to ejaculate. i have seen porn movies and when guys go off its usually really milkly and white. when i masterbate and i have an orgasm its clear with little or no white. all the amount of sperm that comes out is not alot. is this normal? am i even having an ejaculation of sperm or is this just like a body fluid that my body is letting out? (btw i have yet to have a wet dream)

i think you are ejaculating but i cant be sure. im sorry, but really i have no clue besides that. you should prolly try asking a guy this question, or go to the doctors if your really worried. or you can try going to this site and hopefully it will help you. [ http://www.steadyhealth.com/Amount_of_cum_ejaculated_during_masterbating_t67820.html ] theres more topics on masterbating and stuff underneath. im sorry i couldnt help much, good luck.

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i have layers. but when i put my hair up all of the shorter pieces fall out. if you know what i mean. what can i do to stop this??

you can try using bobbypins, hairclips, hairspray, gel/mousse, have your pont tail higher or lower, or one of those rubber band things that go around your whole head [ i fotgot what theya re called - sorry !]. good luckk

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what do i do if i love you and u dont know me you sound really nice what do u think i should do??

I love you

well, since you dont know me - i think your not in love. thanks, but i highly doubt it. it takes more than a nice person to fall in love. but thanks ♥

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okk so ive asked you a few questons on here before and i felt like you really tried your best to answer them..sso thnx alott hun.!

your welcome hun. im here to help anytime you need :] ♥

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oops, sorry! no, actually i have really fair skin, the type that burns really easily.

oh okay, haha sorry. for clothes - BEST- soft neutrals and pastels, as well as muted colors with cool undertones. powder blue, dusty pink,mauve, lavender, plum, and pale yellow. WORST- intense, vivid hues. earth tones, black and orange. makeup- try light earth tones and soft pastels, such as blue and lavender to bring out your eyes. different shades of pink will look good on your eyes, cheeks and lips. keep your mascara to brown or brown/black. light, sheer lipstick adds a finishing touch =). peach is always a good choice for people with fair-skin, it looks natural and compliments/help out with your skin color. sorry about that. good luckk

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i have light brown hair and blue eyes. what colors do you think would look best on me and what color makeup should i be wearing? thankss!

well, you didnt say the color of your skin tone, but im guessing your tan [ i hope so! ], if im wrong then send me anotehr inbox message and ill tell you. MAKEUP- deep matter earth tones and jewel colors like hunter green, dark grey, beige and brown will accent and bring out your eyes. coral and plumb colors work good to accent your cheekbones. for lips - try emperimenting. Your skin tone is very versatile [ will work with alot] especially since your brunette, anything from pink to red will look great on you. top it off with lip gloss for extra staying power. bronzing powder dusted over your forehead, nose and cheeks will give you the ultimate sun-kissed look. CLOTHES - THE BEST- rich golden, spicy, and earthy colors. muted and rich warm colors, such as camel, beige, olive, orange, gold, dark brown, and grey. THE WORST- clear, bright colors. black and white, pastels, and blue tones.

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I'm 14 years old and I want to find a summer job. Any suggestions?

heres some ideas - offices, grocery stores, retail stores, restaurants, movie theaters, amusement parks, baseball parks, gas stations, caddying. you can also do a buncha stuff around your nieghborhood and stuff to get some extra green. sorry thats all i can think of now. its also different for every state, so check your state here [ http://www.youthrules.dol.gov/states.htm ] good luck and have a fun & safe summer.

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I'm thirteen years old and about to go into high school. i got into this really good private school, but its all girls. and i don't live in a city where there are all guy schools, its only co-ed. how can i keep my social life going? should i just forget about the school and put social stuff first? Please tell me some situations where i could meet guys!! From, lonely in Lake Forest

hun, dont worry ! im in the same situation, only mine a little different [ so i guess its not the same, but yah you know - haha ]. you should deffinitally go to the private school! those are always great oppertunities and if your smart enough to get in you shouldnt be brought down because you wont have as good of a social life. you can always try teen clubs, bowling alleys, arcades, lasertag places, parks & beaches, keeping in touch with your middle school buds, gyms, camps over the summer [ meet up with sdome hotties & have a summer fling- OW OW ! ], go to parties, go to a inline rollarblading place, and restraunts. good luck and good luck in that school - youll do great/!

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Hey, ok im 14/f n i have brown eyes and brown hair and my complexion is fair. I was wondering what color clothes look best for me and what color make-up would be best for me?

thanks

for clothes - the BEST- soft neutrals and pastels, as well as muted colors with cool undertones. powder/light blue, dusty pink, lavender, plum, and pale yellow. the WORST- intense, vivid hues. earth tones. black and orange. for makeup - skinned, sheer colors look best on you. apply light earth tones and soft pastels, such as blue and lavender to accent your eyes. different shades of pink will look good on your eyes, cheeks and lips. keep your mascara to brown or brown/black. light, sheer lipstick adds a finishing touch. peach is always a good choice for fair-skinned girls, it looks natural and compliments your skin and eye color.

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Hello,
For night make-up how shoul you apply eyeliner(black) around the entire eye..or just one lid or what?

Websites are great but I need pictures too lol.

Thanks--

its kinda hard to explain because i dont know EXACTLY how you want it.. so heres a couple sites, hopefully, its what you were looking for.
[ http://www.ehow.com/how_157_apply-eyeliner.html ] < good steps.
[ http://www.wildaboutmakeup.com/how-to-apply-eye-liner.html ] < good site with pictures.
good luck and have fun, !

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does anyone have any good workout songs? that are like upbeat and fun.. thanks for the help. if you name 5 or more then an automatic 5.

1,2 step : ciara
workout plan : kanye west
pon de replay : rihana
pump it : black eyed peas
hot : missy elliot
jump around : house of pain
hey mama : black eyed peas
survivor : destinys child
dirrty : christina aguleira
thong song : sisco
physical : olivia newton john
lets get loud - jlo
can you keep up :
oh mickey [ your so fine ] : blondie
good warm up/ jock jams : nba
hoop there it is : nba
milk shake : kelis
come into our room : clinic
just push play : aerosmith
shake your bon bon : ricky martin
she bang : ricky martin
lets get it started : black eyed peas

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15/F Virginia. ok well i have these two best friends, kate and sarah and before i met them they were like best friends and now us three have become really close. we usually hang out every weekend, but sometimes they do stuff without me. like today sarah is at the mall with her mom, and im sure she invited kate, but she wont even answer her phone when i call. and yesterday we couldnt hang out because i had lacrosse and she said oh well we can hang out tomorrow so then now i just feel like she ditched me, and if i ask her about it she would be like we had no plans. so i dont no what to do. so can i have some advice on what to do... and like i want to hear something other than get better friends. because im not going too, but this kind of thing just happens once in a whilee. k thankss byee

first off, who ever said that you need to bet better friends, was right. but they were also wrong. by saying that you need new friends they are saying completley forget about kate and sarah. and they were wrong because i know how hard it is to go though and deal with. believe me, im in that position right now. because you had lax, they cant reaslly blame that. and by saying we had no plans is also the truth. maybe next time she goes to the mall with her mom and [ your assuming ] kate come too. be like, hey i was thinkning about coming to the mall with my mom and just meet them up there, on "accident". i knwo its hard to understand but soemtimes i bet they just want some sarah and kate time, and rememebr how things used to be without you in the picture. im sure they are a lot better off with you with them, but sometimes you just need to remember the old days. haha.if it really gets to the point where you cant take it anymore and really need to tell them it bugs them- then maybe email her or leave her a message or something. of corse you can go off and meet new people, become friend and get new people to hang with, but in no means should you repalce them. because you dont want to. your friendship with them is importnat, and you have to fight for it. just dont give up.

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How can I boost my matabilisum or however you spell it

besides all the things that have already been said, you can add spiced to your foods like salsa and peppers. im not sure exactly why, but they help boost it.

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I am 12 years old, and have gotten all of the signs for getting my period. I have been getting a white/clear discharge for almost two years now. I 've gotten cramps, realized that i cried for no reason, i have everything, and i dont know why i didnt get it yet. i am very confused.

you shouldnt worry. its completely normal, but since you have been getting all the signs, you should be expecting a visit from "aunt flow" soon. once you get your period, youll want to give it back! dont worry so much, it will come, just give it some time, im sure it will happen soon. if you have any other questions, then leave one in my inbox babe.

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ok i think i like thisguy but im not sure. i can't deside. im going to his baseball gametonight then were hanging out after at my x's game and watchin my x play. what do i do? how do i know if i really like him?

this is all up to you. if when yuor around him, you get those warm fuzzies in your tummy, then you like him. you may just think of him as a friend though. try flirting with him and see how it goes. see if you get those feelings and he returns them or if you feel awkward with that. if you really liek him, then you will just know. you will not be able to take your eyes off him, and you will laugh even if he says something stupid. just be yourself. and see how you feel around him. if he asks you out [ if he is interested ], then just maybe tell him you dont like him enough to be his girlfirend yet, and that you wanna get to know him more. that will buy you more time to figure if you like him like that or not, and its the [ semi ] truth. have fun with it, and just go with the flow. good luckk and if you need anything else - leave one in the inbox.

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Ok, so there is this guy that I really like and he knows that I like him and about 5 or 6 months ago I asked him out and he said that he would think about it and he never gave me an answer. Recently he told his friends that i was ugly and he would never go out with me. So now I want to get over him. How can I do that?

here, go to this site. i know getting over someone sucks and is hard, but dont worry. it will happen and you will move on. he sounds like a real jerk [ im sorry, but he does ] and i think [actually, i know ] you deserve better than that, and you knwo that. you shouldnt have to go through with dealing like someone like that. to get over him, you cant just want you. your have to feel like you NEED too. do those things that you used to love to do, but lost the time or whatever. hang with the people who really care about you, and love you for you. [ http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2006/if-20060324p426-breakup.php ] good luck & if you need any more help, leave on in my inbox.

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I think i submitted this alreday but im not sure if it went through so here goess..

this week ive been real depressed because i have not had the chance to walk up to my crush and talk to him. Ive never done anything before and ive heard he hasnt but i think he has. anyways, today at school he was in my lunch and i tapped him on the shoulder and talked to him!!!!! right when i was saying lets hangout this weekend, he said call me. and then he even picked out saturday to hang out! soo im gonna call him tomorrow and hopefully itll be just us two. I have texted him in the past an dcalled him for plans over the weekends but we havnt had plans in a while. Ive hung out with him before too. Also, i NEVVER see him at school, today was a lucky day causeuz he had a sub and got to skip class. how can i try to see him more? how can i tell that he likes me? can i make it a little more obvious that i like him? how can i be a little more outgoing and mroe aggressive? also if miraculously he does wanna kiss, how do i do it!!? haha if these plans dont work out should i be worried? i get so upset bout this stuff that i cry and cry over it. its all i think about and hes all i think about please help me! should i suggest the movies? or wat should i do? i may be getting my hopes up cuz this is too good to be true. hes a lil shy too. wat r some good converstaions starters? flirty ones not the kind that are like wat do you like to do?..none of that please

congrats on talking to him! if you are both interested in each other [ which it does sound like, to me ] then you will make time for eachother. maybe do a sport together over the summer, or when you know hes going to the movies or mall - ACCIDENTLY run into him there. remember, school is almost over - so that wont be an issue for long.. for finding out if he likes you.. check out these two sites [ http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you ] and [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/doeshe.html ]. those give plenty of tips/hints to see if a guy likes you. if he is sending you some/all of those signals, most likely hes diggin you.
if you want to be more obvious that you like him, smile&look at him and into his eyes, FLIRT WITH HIM, have a sence of humor, dont be clingy - but dont be too lienent, and just be yourself.
try to gain some to your confidence level. be proud of who you are, and dont be scared to be a complete dork around him. you want him to like you for you, not for some shy fake girl because thats how you are with him.
if he wants to kiss, then kiss. maybe just start with a peck and let it get more intence. be relaxed, and let things happen. if you think too much, you will seem like a bad kisser. it will happen if its meant to. but dont push it to happen. i suggest going to this site [ http://www.kissingbooth.com/how_to_kiss.htm ]. it has LOTS of tips on how to kiss, and a buncha different ways and how to keep things going if the time does come.
if the plans dont work out, then just make new ones. if he keep making excuses or if hes not up to the idea, then im sorry, but he prolly isnt interested in you as more than a friend.
movies are always a good place to have a first date. not a lot of talking but yet, at the end you will have something to talk about. a couple other "first date ideas" are lunch or coffee, or going to the zoo. try to stick to something tahts between 2and 3 1/2 hours. thats a good time, not to long but yet long enough to show your interested.
conversation is always a problem with shy people, especially on the first date. remember to actually listen to the answers. dont be like "uh huh, mmhmm, cool, yah" be like "oh really, i never woulda guessed you liekd that." or whatever. go to this site, it has lotsa convo starters for you taht are good, [ http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/convo.html ]. good luck hun ! and have fun. be yourself as well

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ok so ive seen on my friend myspaces cute icons. i foudn them online, but i dono how to put them onto my myspace profile.
so if u can help me that woudl be great thank!

you have to upload the pictures on a site to get a code. heres some sites you can use..
photobucket.com,
tinypic.com ,
imageshack.us ,
imagehostingonline.com ,
picturetrail.com ,
imagehosting.us .
after you upload the picture and get the code, you put it anywhere you what in your myspace profile. about me, interests, whatever&where-ever!

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is www.download.com a completely safe and free site to download from??

yes, it is. go for itt =)
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Just after I sent you that last message she tells me to get an account on okcupid.com a dating site I did and I filled out all the info and it says we are 98.6%atch to be with each other 41% friend and 0%hate
I am so excited O thanks for the other advice it was really good

ohh YAY :] congrats. maybe you should tell her what you got. be like wow, i guess were meant to be [ but kinda say it in a joking way, or if its online do the smiley with the tounge. that way, its not THAT obvious your digging her, but its not like your not. and she might be like haha but she is really gonna be thinking about what you said. ] okay, well tell me how things work out, and if you need anything else - im here. good luckkk

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