I'm thirteen years old and about to go into high school. i got into this really good private school, but its all girls. and i don't live in a city where there are all guy schools, its only co-ed. how can i keep my social life going? should i just forget about the school and put social stuff first? Please tell me some situations where i could meet guys!! From, lonely in Lake Forest
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday May 20 2006, 6:03 pm: I go to an all girls high school and i remember being all worried about meeting guys too. it's not going to ruin your social life! go to mixers/dances with your friends and meet some guys there, hang out with the guys from your grade school, get involved in actvities that involve both genders- theater, coed soccer, church groups - and meet guys there. when you meet other girls, if they throw parties, you'll meet some guys they know and some of their friends. it's not impossible to meet guys. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
xoxDaneCookRox answered Saturday May 20 2006, 6:00 pm: You should think of school before boys. You will still meet new guys. You will make friends who know guys and you can meet them and then those guys will know more guys and it was all be okay. But also reamaber your gonna be in high school. The workis harder you wont have as much time to think about al that. And you deff. sdont wanna slack off in your frreshman year. I pretty much did that htis year and it horrable.
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Saturday May 20 2006, 5:49 pm: If you got a chance to go to this private school, I would take it. Education, (unfortunately), comes first in this country, and when your ready to go off to college, you'll be thankful to have that private school on your resume. Now, for staying in touch with guys: Most girls schools have dances where you need to bring guys, that way, it'll motivate you to stay in touch. Also, make friends that go to public high schools and spend time with them on the weekends as well. They'll have guy friends, that you'll get to know, and become friends with as well. Plus, when you go to an all girls school, most of the girls there will want to go "guy scouting" on the weekends and you'll find plenty of guys when your out. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
btw -- Look on the brightside, you never have to worry about having a bad hair day or anything like that when there are no boys at your school. There's no one to impress. Talk about a nice break. =] [ CiNdYLoUwHoO's advice column | Ask CiNdYLoUwHoO A Question ]
Christine1993 answered Saturday May 20 2006, 5:17 pm: ok ... so your thirteen... and your about to go to highschool. well i have to say boys are cute... you know what im sayin' lol. anyway. I think you should put your education before a lot of stuff, especially social life. Of course, there will probably be a dance that girls will bring their boyfriends to a dance, so go to that private school, and you can probably, go to that other co-ed school after school and hangout, go around to the park, act like your cool, you will meet a boy cause if those other girls have boys on their arms, then you will too cause if u think about it they are going to the private school, but they still have boys, so just .. wait, one WILL come soon. oh and about social life, get friend's digits (phone numbers) and talk to them and stuff. just cuase your gone doesnt mean you still can't be friends and keep in touch. :) [ Christine1993's advice column | Ask Christine1993 A Question ]
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Saturday May 20 2006, 4:47 pm: hun, dont worry ! im in the same situation, only mine a little different [ so i guess its not the same, but yah you know - haha ]. you should deffinitally go to the private school! those are always great oppertunities and if your smart enough to get in you shouldnt be brought down because you wont have as good of a social life. you can always try teen clubs, bowling alleys, arcades, lasertag places, parks & beaches, keeping in touch with your middle school buds, gyms, camps over the summer [ meet up with sdome hotties & have a summer fling- OW OW ! ], go to parties, go to a inline rollarblading place, and restraunts. good luck and good luck in that school - youll do great/!
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