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15/F Virginia. ok well i have these two best friends, kate and sarah and before i met them they were like best friends and now us three have become really close. we usually hang out every weekend, but sometimes they do stuff without me. like today sarah is at the mall with her mom, and im sure she invited kate, but she wont even answer her phone when i call. and yesterday we couldnt hang out because i had lacrosse and she said oh well we can hang out tomorrow so then now i just feel like she ditched me, and if i ask her about it she would be like we had no plans. so i dont no what to do. so can i have some advice on what to do... and like i want to hear something other than get better friends. because im not going too, but this kind of thing just happens once in a whilee. k thankss byee<3
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i would still talk to her, just let her know how you are feeling. be like, i know we didn't have set plans .. but i just feel like you kind of ditched me.
i think that would be the best thing to do, she'll understand.
best of luck ♥
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first off, who ever said that you need to bet better friends, was right. but they were also wrong. by saying that you need new friends they are saying completley forget about kate and sarah. and they were wrong because i know how hard it is to go though and deal with. believe me, im in that position right now. because you had lax, they cant reaslly blame that. and by saying we had no plans is also the truth. maybe next time she goes to the mall with her mom and [ your assuming ] kate come too. be like, hey i was thinkning about coming to the mall with my mom and just meet them up there, on "accident". i knwo its hard to understand but soemtimes i bet they just want some sarah and kate time, and rememebr how things used to be without you in the picture. im sure they are a lot better off with you with them, but sometimes you just need to remember the old days. haha.if it really gets to the point where you cant take it anymore and really need to tell them it bugs them- then maybe email her or leave her a message or something. of corse you can go off and meet new people, become friend and get new people to hang with, but in no means should you repalce them. because you dont want to. your friendship with them is importnat, and you have to fight for it. just dont give up.
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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