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Leaving for college
(let's use Tom) Tom is a graduating senior this year. This past October I(16) develop strong feelings for Tom. The problem was that he had a college girlfriend. Well he ended up having strong feelings for me too. As the story goes...Tom asked me out. I said yes without realizing that he was still going out with his college gf. 2 days later he broke things of with her. about 3 weeks later i broke up with him cuz i was soo stressed out and i didnt know what i was thinking. I soon found out that he went back with his college gf two days after i broke things off. In January, i rekindled those feelings. We went on a ski trip with our school and i spent the WHOLE time with him. It was a lot of fun! Lately those feelings for him have been getting stronger each day. I regret my decision of breaking up with him to this day. The problem is that he's been acting the same way to me as he did right before he asked me out. All flirty and such stuff. We just had a banquet and his college gf went with him. I was soo depressed.. When ever he would dance with her, he would occasionally glance over at me. I'm not trying to break them up again...i just want him to know that i never lost those feelings...is that so bad...i mean hes graduating anyways..and i'm going to miss him SOO much! I'm soo lost these days...please help!
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You can't help your feelings, and it's not your fault you like him. However, he's caused you a lot of stress already. I can also tell you that he cheats on his girlfriend, and not just with you. If you end up going out with him, he'll end up cheating on you and causing this same feeling you have not, over and over, and to a greater degree.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
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