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I LIKE A GUY
I think i submitted this alreday but im not sure if it went through so here goess..
this week ive been real depressed because i have not had the chance to walk up to my crush and talk to him. Ive never done anything before and ive heard he hasnt but i think he has. anyways, today at school he was in my lunch and i tapped him on the shoulder and talked to him!!!!! right when i was saying lets hangout this weekend, he said call me. and then he even picked out saturday to hang out! soo im gonna call him tomorrow and hopefully itll be just us two. I have texted him in the past an dcalled him for plans over the weekends but we havnt had plans in a while. Ive hung out with him before too. Also, i NEVVER see him at school, today was a lucky day causeuz he had a sub and got to skip class. how can i try to see him more? how can i tell that he likes me? can i make it a little more obvious that i like him? how can i be a little more outgoing and mroe aggressive? also if miraculously he does wanna kiss, how do i do it!!? haha if these plans dont work out should i be worried? i get so upset bout this stuff that i cry and cry over it. its all i think about and hes all i think about please help me! should i suggest the movies? or wat should i do? i may be getting my hopes up cuz this is too good to be true. hes a lil shy too. wat r some good converstaions starters? flirty ones not the kind that are like wat do you like to do?..none of that please
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congrats on talking to him! if you are both interested in each other [ which it does sound like, to me ] then you will make time for eachother. maybe do a sport together over the summer, or when you know hes going to the movies or mall - ACCIDENTLY run into him there. remember, school is almost over - so that wont be an issue for long.. for finding out if he likes you.. check out these two sites [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ] and [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ]. those give plenty of tips/hints to see if a guy likes you. if he is sending you some/all of those signals, most likely hes diggin you.
if you want to be more obvious that you like him, smile&look at him and into his eyes, FLIRT WITH HIM, have a sence of humor, dont be clingy - but dont be too lienent, and just be yourself.
try to gain some to your confidence level. be proud of who you are, and dont be scared to be a complete dork around him. you want him to like you for you, not for some shy fake girl because thats how you are with him.
if he wants to kiss, then kiss. maybe just start with a peck and let it get more intence. be relaxed, and let things happen. if you think too much, you will seem like a bad kisser. it will happen if its meant to. but dont push it to happen. i suggest going to this site [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ]. it has LOTS of tips on how to kiss, and a buncha different ways and how to keep things going if the time does come.
if the plans dont work out, then just make new ones. if he keep making excuses or if hes not up to the idea, then im sorry, but he prolly isnt interested in you as more than a friend.
movies are always a good place to have a first date. not a lot of talking but yet, at the end you will have something to talk about. a couple other "first date ideas" are lunch or coffee, or going to the zoo. try to stick to something tahts between 2and 3 1/2 hours. thats a good time, not to long but yet long enough to show your interested.
conversation is always a problem with shy people, especially on the first date. remember to actually listen to the answers. dont be like "uh huh, mmhmm, cool, yah" be like "oh really, i never woulda guessed you liekd that." or whatever. go to this site, it has lotsa convo starters for you taht are good, [ [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) ]. good luck hun ! and have fun. be yourself as well
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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