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i've been going out with this one guy for about 5 months now. well hes a virgin and i'm not. we've been close to having sex a few times but he never has a condom. then one day we were talking about doing it and then he kind of chickened out. well i agreed with him we should wait a while. but then i got scared cause all my friends were having sex and they were all saying how they thought they might get pregnant. i didn't want that to happen if me and my boyfriend had sex so i told him i wanted to wait till college or maybe even out of college. and he was more then happy with that decision. but now i want to have sex with him and i've told him that. i want to have sex but i'm scared. he just says okay. i want to have sex with him soo bad. how can i get him in the mood for it again? please help (link)
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What I hate the most is when teenagers start growing up too fast. You know why there's so many pregnant teens out there? Because they think they can handle whatever comes at them. You're right to be scared, things can happen that you can't reverse. A pregnancy being one of them. It's okay to not have sex, and I liked when you said you told him you wanted to wait until at least college. And the fact that you keep going back and forth on the subject as you are, might show that you shouldn't go through with it just yet. Everyone's going to want to have sex every once in a while, you're going to want him really bad, and he's going to want you. But remember how you felt when you didn't want to...is there still some feelings of whatever you were feeling?
Since I haven't actually answered your question yet... When it comes to your guy, you need to talk to him. Despite stereotypes, some guys would rather wait. Discuss what you've been feeling with him and ask his opinion or his stand on the subject. He'll let you know if he agrees with you or not, ask him to be honest.
Also... Are y'all doing other things than sex? You can still do things with each other without going all the way and it will help you get over the "I have to have sex". Plus there's no worries about pregnancies :)
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ok well i was just cleaning my bathroom and well i accidently sprayed my razor with the spray and just rinsed it off and didnt think much of it until a few minutes later when i decided to take a bath and shave my downstairs and my legs and well now i have bad irritation and what do i do to get rid of it :(
iput lotion on is there anything else??? (link)
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Ouch, not such a good idea, haha [it'll be okayy]
Just try some of these:
-aloe vera or tea tree oil creams and sprays
-Apply 1 percent hydrocortisone cream to the area with the irritation [but not everyday, just once]
-Cold compress [cold wet towel/washcloth]
*If razor burn or bumps/irritation/rash don't seem to heal in a few days, or if they look infected, go visit your doctor. Pus, increased swelling, heat in the area or throbbing are clues that infection is now the problem [immediate treatment*
Good luckk and throw out the razor haha
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so im goin out with this pretty kool kid named mike, and he is really funny and super cute. But my X-boyfriend still has feeling for me, and i think i still like him.
what should i do? (link)
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If you still have feelings for your ex I really wouldn't start to commit to anyone else unless you are completley sure getting back together with your ex is not an option.
Stay with the guy who makes you happy and won't treat you like a piece of meat.
You and your ex will always have a special place in eachothers hearts but maybe you should try staying together with Mike for a while to see if you like him better and if Mike makes you forget about your ex, than stick with Mike, because he obviously fills your life and makes you happy.
Good luckk and have funn ;]
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15/f
I have to walk in heels by the 8th of February. I have no clue how!!! Once I tried and I twisted my ankle. help???
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Okay, heel-toe, heel-toe. Don't stomp and what i did was practice on my carpet in my room, since it is cushiony and can hold your heel in, and then when I got good at walking on the carpet, I switched to hardwood floors and practiced there, and all you have to do is be graceful. Don't stomp your feet, and if it is your first time in heels, get the ones with straps for better support and then move onto no straps.
Practice makes perfect, just keep your balance and that's really all you can do.
Hope my technique works :]
[I became a pro in a matter of days haha, well not a pro but yuh know :)]
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well, its not really a question for me but just in general
what do you do when you don't feel like working (ie hw) but you have to? (link)
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okay, i no exactaly how you feel! You could:
~Do a little at a time
~Tell yourself a time that is 100% the time you are going to at least start working
~force yourself to work, no matter how hard...TRUST me I absolutely HATE forcing myself to work, but once my thumb hits the power button...i get work...and finish...i feel SOOOOOO good...and you will too
~Come up with a plan...make sure when you make up your mind to start working...you have all the materials you need with you. Go to your room, and make sure to bring a snack! (and drink) when you have all the materials to work with you, instead of around your house, you will not be side-tracked by other people/things.
~Talk to yourself (i know its wierd) but say to yourself...okay we HAVE to get this done RIGHT now...then we can_______.
~Reward yourself when you are done...if you want to go bike riding for example, when you are all done, go reward yourself with the...treat...haha
~Okay...this is wierd....but if your parents are the type that are usually bugging you to do your assignments, or study when you have a test or quiz that they know about...tell them about your assignment. Say, "Okay, i should probably go do__________ right now." This will not only show them that you are being responsible, but it will also push you to keep working on your hw.
GoOd LuCk!!! ps. sometimes its okay to take a mini brake!
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we are doing lil abner for a musical theater class, and we're putting it on at the end of the year. i was cast as MoonBeam Mcswine and i'm not sure if she does a whole lot. could someone tell me if she sings? or how big her part is? (link)
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http://www.ibdb.com/ProductionSongs.aspx?ShowNo=5363&ProdNo=2585
Moonbeam Mcswine doesn't sing any songs, but she plays a dominant [good sized, not too much, not too little] role and talks ALOT...ALOT.
Good luk and havee funn
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Okay, I'm writing a story and I'm stuck because I'm basically a hermit so I don't know these things.
The story is about 2 teenagers who go out, but aren't supposed to because they're from two different groups. The boy goes to a private school and the girl goes to a public school.
Anyway they're skipping school to go on their first date, where should it be?
Of course I'm not going to ask what should happen, as it is my story and up to me. But I need a bit of a push of where the location should be so I can make up a story behind it.
It can be anywhere, it doesn't even have to make sense. Thanks a lot! (link)
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at a beach :] and they can like eat at the beach and swim and watch the sunset and kiss and go in the water goofing around with eachother, and then head on over to the board walk :]
Havee funn
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Hey sweetie it's me again! Haha!
Well TJ did ask me out yesterday over the phone.
(I said yes, of course!)
Well his brother Johnathan(SP?) told me at our morning recess in the gym that the reason TJ asked me out was because he called him a "wimp, chicken, (EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT THIS IS EXACT QUOTE) and a pussy."
Now Johnathan lies.A lot.
So I didn't believe him, I just slapped his leg and we laughed at it.
I thouhgt ' Okay he's pulling my chain.'
But as today went on I started thinking, ' What if he's serious!?'
I got checked out and since TJ goes to a highschool and (He's a yeah older then me by the way) I'm in my final year of middle school, I only see him on the bus, usually anyway.
Well I'm gonna call later today and I have NO IDEA what to say or do! HELP! (link)
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Yeah, Johnathan is definetly lying to you. Definetly.
and that is SO GREAT that TJ asked you out! I knew he would and I'm sooo happy for the both of you, immensly happy!
When you call him, just be like, "Yeah, Johnathan told me he was calling you a wimp, so you asked me out, is that the only reason you asked me out?" [but of course it isn't true, that's only if you wanna ask him if it was true...which is very doubtfuul considering the boys goo goo ga ga all over you haha] but if youi do ask him that, say it likes its a laughing matter or a joke, nothing heavy.
And when you speak to him [your loverboyy haha], just be cool about it, and relax, he seems like a cool guy and will honestly tell you the truth.
YOU ARE SOO LUCKY! ahhh, you have to update me more often :] and have fun with TJ!
your friend,
Courtney [a.k.a understatementoftheyearx3]
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So, I have the hardest time swallowing pills. It's weird, I use to be able to. But for some reason now I just can't do it. I know it's all in my head and I think I'll choke or something. Any advice? (link)
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So many people have this problem! Its nothing to fret about...you could:
~Cut the pill in half and take them in little pieces
~(all my friends do this one) Eat something, like something like fruit, or anyone of your favorite foods, put the pill in your mouth and then take a bite of food. Dont think about the pill being in your mouth,and just chew and swallow regularly.
~if you are taking a pill that has powder in it, pull it apart, and poor the powder in yogurt,or ice cream, or on something like a banana and take a bite.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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Does anyone know any good programs for editing video (aside from Windows Movie Maker) that include basic functions like cutting video, putting some together, etc.? It must support AVI format and run on Windows XP. Thanks. (link)
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Adobe Premiere Pro 2.0
Best I have ever used.
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im relly unconfident kids on the bus make fun of me and say shuut up you boobless bitch and some times i come home crying and every one in my family have boobs except for me and my mom she got implants i dont know what to do im crying right now please help me. i dont even fit in an a cup :( (link)
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People can be jerks.
I know how you feel because I have small breats, I HARDLY fill an A, and my friends make fun of me everyday for it. I get really upset about it, but there really is nothing you can do, but rememeber, what you see is what you get.
Try getting a push up bra or a padded one to make the illusion that you have bigger boobs than you really do.
My sister had boobs and I don't. My mom has boobs and I don't. It sucks being compared to them [my sister is the same age as me, 15] and being made fun of really knocks me down a few pegs.
If they are making fun of you because of something you don't have control over, let it go. They don't know how it feels, put yourself in their shoes, they are just shallow assholes with no sense of humor. They are gonna grow up to be the ugliest people in the world [inside and out] so don't worry, you already outshine them.
Good luckk and feel better, you are beautiful.
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is it weird if you wear shorts (like spandex) under a really short dress during a dance or not? im going to a dance next weekend and i have a mini skirt im wearing so i dont want to moon anyone but my sister told me that it was weird so is it or not (link)
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No, its not wierd. My friend did that when she went to a dance, BUT it wasn't like a bright color, it was tan and it didnt show because it was shorter than her skirt. So when you get the spandex, make sure they aren't sticking out or you will look...awkward. yuh know?
Havee funn
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If you had to choose a tampon, what would it be? lmao. sorry! But is tampax pearl really good? Because i'm thinking about switching. If i just started my period and tampax sport doesn't work because i'm leaking PEARL! would it be good? (link)
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Tampax pearl all the way.
But if that doesnt help your leaking problem, pick one that is cardboard or a thicker tampon, and you'll be good to go.
Much luckk
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Ok, Theres this boy who really likes me and he's like me for a while. We'll call him Christian. I've kind of started liking him back, and decided to go to our school's snowball dance with him, and i think we're going to have a really great time there together. After snowball however, my one friend is throwing a party and inviting 3-4 girls over. Her friend who is a guy across the street is also inviting a couple guys, but Christian isn't going.
The only problem is, my one frien dis gonna have like beer and stuff which i am fine with, but they were all planning on getting with their boyfriends and make out and stuff. i really want to go to the party, even though there is no way i woudl even consider making out with any of the guys since Christian won't be there.
He already knows that i'm going and about the drinking and stuff, and about the other guys, but not that all my other friends are planning to do stuff. My question is what should i do
1. Tell him about it, and risk him not wanting me to go,or being hurt or something(i really want to go and swear i wouldn't do anything)
2.Not tell him about it and go anyway. There would be absolutely no way he would find out, and once again, there is no way that i would do anything, i just wanted to have a good time
What would you do in this situation.?? (link)
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If I were you, I would tell Christian because it's not like you are actually gonna participate in the making out. He should trust you enough and believe you when you say you won't do anything to hurt him. He probably won't mind, just let him know about it and see what he thinks.
Have funn
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16/f. i just turned 16 and i'm a female..and sophomore. from grades 3-9th i used to be one of the smartest kids in my school(s). I would always get As and get upset over any Cs or even Bs that i had.
this year, i got caught too much...with boys and attention seeking. instead of doing my homework, i would worry over looking pretty and losing weight for the next day. over the past 3 months...there has been a decline in grades/and ability to tell myself to actually do some schoolwork. (still, my grades arent THAT bad..its not like I'm failing. I'm managing to keep Bs and Cs in all my classes)
But I want this to change. I finally got a bf (after so many years...my first one) and i really want to get straight As again. I guess...the computer plays a major role in this. I spend too much time on it, during which, instead, i could be doing my homework. I've also completely let go of the subjects that I hate. I just didnt care. My "teenage depression" stage has passed by.
I really want to change. Does anyone have any advice on where to start? :) (link)
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Yeah, I'm 15/f and trying to get back on track won't be easy, you need complete dedication to doing this.
1. since you are content with your boyfriend and arent looking for attention from other guys but him, that's one thing you don't have to worry about or stress over.
2. since you are obviously still smart, just listen in class, make an agenda and write down your homework.
3. when you get home from school get started on your homeowrk immediatley so you don't get distracted and go on the computer, because you can get your homework out of the way quicker.
4. It's good that you admit the computer is a really big issue that is contributing to your procastinating, so now you know what the big promblem is.
But don't overwhelm yourself, hang out with your bf, watch TV, unwind, relax, listen to music, give yourself a 1/2 hour on the computer and you'll be good to go. [keep a schedule or agenda to keep you organized]
Good luck and hope I helpedd
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ok well i have literally no breasts like not even an a cup and i dont think they will ever grow but do guys really seriously care if you don't because now i am going to never want to get naked infront of a guy because it seems to be their obsession. is there any way i can help myself get over this? (link)
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Uhm, join the club. I'm not even an A cup, but I'm not completley flat, but it sucks.....a lot. I can totally relate, everywhere I look it's big boobs and guys staring at them.
And I'm not a guy, but yeah, they do care and it SUCKS. But, I haven't found that special person [guy] who will love me just the way I am, but I'm sure you will, actaully, I'm 100% sure someone will love you, all of you, no breasts or tons of 'em.
And seriously, if you don't feel comfortable with your future boyfriend, and you feel he will judge you and not like you if he sees you naked, then don't be with him because you should wait for the guy who just wants to be with you, and not care about big boobs. yuh know?
I'm kinda over the fact that I have very small breasts, but I don't wear push-ups or anything just because I feel insecure, what you see is what you get, yuh know? So, my advice is to just be who you are, hold your head high, and if you believe you look hot, everyone else will believe it too.
Good luckk :]
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Okay, I'm writing a story and I'm stuck because I'm basically a hermit so I don't know these things.
The story is about 2 teenagers who go out, but aren't supposed to because they're from two different groups. The boy goes to a private school and the girl goes to a public school.
Anyway they're skipping school to go on their first date, where should it be?
Of course I'm not going to ask what should happen, as it is my story and up to me. But I need a bit of a push of where the location should be so I can make up a story behind it.
It can be anywhere, it doesn't even have to make sense. Thanks a lot! (link)
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id make it a park.
i think that would be the bestt
plus you can make it all cute and like they kiss on the swings or something like that :)
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okay so i out a plastic bag over a toothbrush that vibrates and stick it up my vagina.
will it hurt my vagina?
like is it bad for it? (link)
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You will know if you are hurting your vagina.
Like..if you stick it way to deep or something.
No the plastic bag part...I dont think you should use one as it could be dirty.You could use a condom as well.
If you are about to use a little bag, make sure its clean first.
Interesting patent...
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If you had to choose a tampon, what would it be? lmao. sorry! But is tampax pearl really good? Because i'm thinking about switching. If i just started my period and tampax sport doesn't work because i'm leaking PEARL! would it be good? (link)
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i would say any cardboard. most tampons are the same once they are in. the process of course can be less uncomfortable with plastic gliders, but they will never help stop our problems with landfills. cardboards will decompose, and thats why i choose themm
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ok, well here's what i'm confused about.
i'm 18 and a girl. i'm senior and in love with this guy so much. his name's Vinny. well we've known each other since last year. he was in my english class. we never nearly talked at all. but in the middle of the year towards the end we started talking alot getting to know each other a bit. :)
and i had a majorily crush on him. until one day i saw him with a girl making out in the hallway. so i figured he had a gf and he did.
now it's senior year and he is two of my classes. english again and food class. we talk alot in enlgish he flirts with me a bit i flirt back. but i can't tell which is which like.
he plays with my hair, he gives me kissy faces i can't explain tat though ahah, he asks for gum all the time and i give it to him. ahh, i always have gum with me, dont know y i do but i care.
he even asked me one time either on monday or tuesday he asked me who did i like.
he wanted to find out but i kept playing with him and saying i like someone else. then he says do you like him or him or him, he was namin the guys in my classroom. so i said no i like someone and you should know. that is a clue saying i like him. but apperatnly he didn't get it. but one time he almost got mad when i told him i liked someone but he didn't know i like him.
so i asked him dont worry i like you and he was like i hate you but we joke around alot so i know he doesn't mean that because at the end we both laugh about it.
then he was like i always wonder why "nick" this other kid i'm friends with hates you. and i laugh so hard about it saying because i always bitch at him and its true Vinny knows that to.
but i couldn't tell why he even asked me that. he never does. and plus we have so much in common we dont hang out much at all never out side of school but during only.
i even touch him sometimes like on his arm or be like oh vinny your so funny ahah. but i mean i know it seemed that i flirt with him.
but like i said that boy is so hard to figure out wether or not he likes me.
because one thing is he had a girlfriend for four years and they broke up. it's been two month now. and if i tell him it would be hard for me because i know how hard it was for him that HIS girlfriend of four years broke up with him.
so my question to you. i like him so much i get so nervous around him sometimes but i'm so comfortable around him. its like when we talk we talk nonestop aha. so what do i do? how can i tell if he really likes me, one thing is i know he mite not even be interst in be but that's something else. the other thing is should i tell him my feelings? if so how? he's only in two of my classes. sometimes it's hard to talk to him alone. people are usually around him most of the time.
please help me, what should i do. he's so cute and i just want to be with him so much, he means so much to me. i can't stop thinking about him. i'm not going to lose or forget about him. i want to try.
SOOOORRRRRYYY FOR THE LONGEST MESSAGE EVER!!!!! very sorry. i so apprcate your help so much.
THANK YOU. (link)
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UHM HELLO?! He does really like you! It's the most obvious thing in the world, even you just telling me bits and pieces about it, I know that he likes you, so that part you don't have to worry about. BUt what you should do is maybe give him some more time to get over his girlfriend, I mean it was a 4 year relationship...that's long. You could even hang out after school, so he knows that you want to be more than just in school friends, and why not start from there? Let the relationship progress form that point on. Let him lead and you follow, or if you really can't bare the thought without him, go for it yourself, and after a little bit, tell him how you feel because that is really important to move onto the next step in building a relationship with him. And tell him how you feel outside of school, not inside, because if you can't get him alone all to yourself inside of school, then you will for sure have his full attention outside of school.
Since you feel so deeply about him, just say something to him, if he can't take a hint, then just tell him be like, "Vinny, I feel really comfortable around you and your so fun, I want to be more than friends..." Or something like that, but you get the jist of it right?
Good luck and I hope everything works out between you two.
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