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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Okay so generally when, in your opinion, does it look okay to dating a senior? When i dated one back when i was a freshman, everyone called me a whore and called him a pedophile. Can only juniors date seniors or something? In high school, what is considered too young and too old? I just don't understand the age differences when people think it's acceptable.

THANKS :]

I don't see why a freshman couldn't date a senior or any type of upperclassmen.

People are going to badtalk you no matter what you do, so do what you want.

I'm kind of getting sick of listening to the same music over and over again on my iPod. So I'm looking for other bands/songs that I can listen to.

Would anyone care to suggest any good rock bands/songs? Anything similar to Fall Out Boy, Panic !at the Disco, Alice Nine, etc. would be great. The songs can be in any language.

Thanks in advance, I'll rate high for good suggestions.

I listen to a lot of Rock music, and I'd give you my MySpace, but it's private. I'm gonna copy & paste my music section.

#
30 seconds to mars.

A
astrea.
aiden.
army of freshmen.
avril lavigne.
anti-flag.
atreyu.
armor for sleep.
avenged sevenfold.
against me!
all time low.
anberlin.
afi.
a fading memory.
a kiss could be deadly.
a static lullaby.
a heartwell ending.
and then i turned seven.
alesana.

B
brand new.
breaking benjamin.
bloc party.
blameshift.
bayside.
blink 182.
bright eyes.
bless the fall.
bleed the dream.
boys like girls.

C
cute is what we aim for.
cobra starship.
closure in moscow.
classic addict.
cartel.
chiodos.
circa survive.
coheed & cambria
chevelle.
crossfade.

D
down to earth approach.
dance gavin dance.
dashboard confessional.

E
endless hallways.
envy on the coast.
escape the fate.
evanescence.
eighteen visions.

F.
flyleaf.
forever wings fold.
four years strong.
flux.
fall out boy.
four letter lie.
from first to last.

G
gwen stefani.
gym class heroes.
greeley estates.
gatsby's american dream.

H
hinder.
hit the lights.
hidden in plain view.
hellogoodbye.
head automatica.
hollywood undead.
heavy heavy low low.
him.
hawthorne heights.
hot hot heat.

I
i am ghost.

J
jack's mannequin.
jimmy eat world.

K
kill hannah.
kung fu girls.
kings to you.

L
lostprophets.
left to fall.
love me electric.
lily allen.
linkin park.

M
my chemical romance.
men women & children.
matchbook romance.
mayday parade.
millencolin.
motion city soundtrack.

N
new found glory

O
ok go.
oh no not stereo.

P
paramore.
powerspace.
plain white t's.
papa roach.
panic! at the disco.

Q
queens of the stoneage.
quietdrive.

R
remember tomorrow.
rise against.
resident hero.

S
senses fail.
saosin.
sum 41.
say anything.
sugarcult.
saves the day.
straylight run.
slipknot.
safety in rumors.
smile empty soul.
self against city.
silverstein.

T
taking back Sunday.
the red jumpsuit apparatus.
the used.
the matches.
three days grace.
third eye blind.
three doors down.
the all-american rejects.
the academy is...
the higher.
this providence.
the number twelve looks like you.
the fall of troy.
the postal service.
the hush sound.
the killers.
the sounds.
the almost.
the fray.
the fully down.
thursday.
thrice.
the bled.
take the crown.
the junior varsity.
the receiving end of sirens.
the wild stallions.
the faint.
the black dahlia murder.
the click five.
the raconteurs.

U
underoath.
urgency.

V
vanna.

well i know you have to have an ID to get into clubs and buy drinks and everything, but is it a special ID or is it just your drivers license?

It can be your driver's license.

does anyone know what website she got her haedline picture from? i like it and idk whee to get it. i cant really ask her because i dont know her, shes 1 of my friends, friends, friends. thnx so much.

heres the thing

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=118639114

thnx.

She probably got it from Tinypic or Photobucket.

ok i like always wear a sweat shirt even when it's really hott cause i dont know why but i dont feel comfortably not wearing a sweat shirt and i just dont wanna wear sweatshirts when it's hott anymore and stuff so yeah just help please

Just wear a tshirt you really like. What's the point of buying nice clothes if you're going to hide them?

Okay, I am know good at fashion, So I have come to my fellow Advicentors for help.
What looks better Blow drying your hair or Just letting it dry?

It depends what you want done to your hair. If you want a natural look, then just let it dry on it's own. If you want a more conformed, styled look, then blow dry it.

what are some really good tricks for giving head/blow jobs? im really good at givin deep throat so basically im up for anything.. i really wanna please my boyfriend more than i already am:] thanks

There is this guy from work who has been showing an interest in me for months now, but hasn't asked me out. I know that he isn't married and as far as I know he's single.
Well I know he likes me because he always walks by my department and he'll stare at me. He also will come up to talk to me all the time about random things, sometimes he makes up excuses to talk to me. He is an assistant manager at the store I work at. Even my supervisor thinks he likes me because I guess he used to ask her who was closing, and if she said me he would smile, but if it was someone else he would sigh and go "ohhh', in a disapointed voice. He even came up to me one night and flat out asked me if I was single, so that is what made me know for sure he was interest. So a couple of months ago I made a flirty pass at him, something I've never done. His reaction was that his face lit up like a Xmas tree, and then he got this love sick look. But then he looked embarrased and took off. The day after he couldn't look me in the eye and looked guilty of something (maybe that I saw his true feelings for me). Then he started coming up to me more but was treating me more like a friend, because he flirts with all the ladies but I think he wants me to take him more seriously. I also noticed that two of his male friends who also work at the store were being a lot nicer to me than they normally are, so I think he had been talking about me. About two weeks ago I got a makeover and he couldn't take his eyes off me, and now he stares at me more than ever and is coming up to me more, and he actually was a real flirt to me one night!. But he still has not asked me out! What do you guys think is going on?

He needs to build himself up to asking you out, and if you don't see it happening anytime soon, then you need to ask him out.

When he comes up to talk, ask him when his shift ends, & if you guys end around the same time, go catch a movie or maybe get some dinner together. He obviously won't budge, so push him a little.

If bald people work as chefs in a restaurant,do they have to wear hairnets?

No.

ok the songs like:
"i will always always hate you"
and it says that like a billion times then it goes
cause you got me a beamer
and at the end it goes:

"ima kick you in the balls daddy, i didnt wanna kick you there daddy, but you got me the beamer

name, artist??

Why you couldn't use Google I completely fail to comprehend.

I have a habit of biting my nails. I hate it because I really want pretty nails. I see all these other girls with long, pretty nail, but I just can't do it! I gotten my nails semi-long but then they break and I will just bite the others off. I have decided I don't want nails longer than the end of my finger because I think that is what would work best for me but right now they are for sure shorter than that. Does anyone have any ideas for how to quit biting my nails? I usually do it when I'm bored and don't even realized it until I have started tearing them. Also when I put nail polish on I usually won't bite them because of the taste and looks but I usually don't wear polish because doesn't it look bad to put polish on short nails? I don't want to attract attention to my ugly nails but if people don't really care than I could keep doing that.

My mom used to bite her nails when she was a kid. I, however, have never had that problem.

My mother told me that she quit her habit by buying this nail polish that tasted disgusting & it would make you stop biting your nails. But I've heard that some people got used to the taste. =[

She said that when the disgusting tasting nail polish didn't work, she used bubble gum. Whenever she felt like biting her nails, or thought she was going to, she popped a piece of gum into her mouth & it eventually worked. I guess you could try that.

If you don't want to do that, try getting your nails done. My cousin does that because she won't want to bite her nails if they're pretty. And it works pretty well for her, except for the fact she spends about 30 bucks every two weeks just to get her nails done.

I hope it helps!

I'm dating this guy,from what I know. And I was talking to him last night (since he lives in a another state) i guesss you can say his big on the drugs and stuff,and it really gets to me. So my friend that lives by him was telling me I should really do something about it,and I told her I couldn't because I don't want to loose him @ all. And I know he loves me because he tells me every single day,and he leaves me nice long sweet comments,and so he came on he was sweet and then he signed off and he came back on and he was high. And like he said some 'jackass' stuff to me. but i knew he was high because his brother wouldn't let him back on untill he wasn't high,so i talked to his brother and he told me he thinks its better for me and him to take a break because maybe it would help him with the drugs,so when my bf came on he prombly had a little buzz, and he told me maybe its a good idea but he doesnt want to. any help? because like i feel like soo horriable about it,last night i was in tears.

If you're not into drugs & dislike the fact that your boyfriend is, then I suggest you dump him. He's more commited to getting high than he is to the relationship. Leave his ass.

i rate this website ok

Okay?

Congratulations?

M/13

Is it weird that when im around my freinds im really fun and wild but when im with like "popular kids" i am really shy i dont know why but ive been like that for a while and i really want to break out of my shell kinda when im around thoose type ok kids. I mean i have already gotten alot of crap about moving back and wearing "emo cloths" or whatever there stereotyping my clothing. Its not just like what people are sating gets said behind my back they come up to me and call me agothic emo cutter or whatever. Now i dont know what to do about it. i was thinking of just going up to the and telling them off but that might not be the greatest thing to do since its the begging of the year and all. Lately school hasn't been getting any easeir and with all the drama that goes aorund i dont know if i can take it any longer any advice helps =)

Let's face it, the kids in highschool & junior high can be assholes about the littlest things & make your life hell. The object of the game though - don't let them get to you. The stuff they'll say will hurt & pierce you, but if you show no emotion & ignore it, they'll eventually get tired of making fun of someone who doesn't respond.

To tell you the truth, wear whatever you want, hang out with who you want & if people are going to stereotype you, then they're the robots & they need to grow the fuck up. By not responding or letting this bother you, you're already a step ahead, and you're already more mature than them. You're grown up, let's see if they can try to do that too.

I swallowed(sp) a safety pin in class on friday it was closed do you think I should see a doctor. And do you think it will open in my body? Thanx for the advice. And I'm serious no joke.

I've never answered a question like this before, but I would see a doctor if I were you.

I'm thinking they met tell you to let it come out of your body naturally, & just to not worry about it. Your stomach acid might have destroyed it as well, but I don't really know.

Try to see a doctor & see what they tell you. But why'd you swallow it in the first place? o.O

I used to like this guy. Lets call him B. I stopped liking him ever since I realized how much of a jerk he was.

This was our convo on AIM:

him (7:59:31 PM): be my new princess
me (7:59:18 PM): maybe
him (8:00:14 PM): please
him (8:00:17 PM): i'll be good!
me (8:00:11 PM): hmm
him(8:01:16 PM): pleeeeeeease
me (8:01:22 PM): we'll see
him (8:02:05 PM): please
him (8:03:18 PM): what do i have to do to make you my princess?
me (8:03:23 PM): be good
PHM1248 (8:03:56 PM): how so?
me (8:03:34 PM): why do you want me to be your princess? :P
him (8:04:06 PM): because
him (8:04:10 PM): you are princess material
me (8:03:49 PM): whats that supposed to mean
him(8:04:22 PM): it means
him(8:04:25 PM): your a keeper
me (8:04:07 PM): aww
him (8:04:41 PM): its true!
me (8:05:44 PM): :]
him (8:06:22 PM): pleaase
me (8:05:58 PM): maybe
me (8:05:59 PM): we'll see
him (8:06:43 PM): if im good
me(8:06:21 PM): stop asking
him (8:07:19): new topic
me: yes please
him: ummm... ily?
me: no you don't
him: thats it your getting a hug on monday

Does he still like me?

Yeah.

But he sounds freaky.

But he likes my best friend and i keep giving him advice trying to get him to stop liking her but i am not for sure if he likes me or not.

i need advice quickly

please help me

If he likes your best friend, don't you think it's wrong of you to try & steal the spotlight from her? I think you need to back off. He likes who he likes, and if it isn't you, then that's a shame.

He likes your best friend, so he obviously doesn't like you. Let's grow up.

Can you cry underwater?

Yes.

If nobody buys a ticket to a movie do they still show it?

No.

how do u start an essay about yourself

It all depends on the type of essay. If it's an autobiography type of essay, start with "I" unless your teacher directs you not to. If the essay is in third person, start with your name & then keep going.

It all depends what type of essay it is, & the directions you were given on how to write it. I would talk over some ideas with your teacher to see what he/she would recommend.

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