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he's interested but won't ask me out!
There is this guy from work who has been showing an interest in me for months now, but hasn't asked me out. I know that he isn't married and as far as I know he's single.
Well I know he likes me because he always walks by my department and he'll stare at me. He also will come up to talk to me all the time about random things, sometimes he makes up excuses to talk to me. He is an assistant manager at the store I work at. Even my supervisor thinks he likes me because I guess he used to ask her who was closing, and if she said me he would smile, but if it was someone else he would sigh and go "ohhh', in a disapointed voice. He even came up to me one night and flat out asked me if I was single, so that is what made me know for sure he was interest. So a couple of months ago I made a flirty pass at him, something I've never done. His reaction was that his face lit up like a Xmas tree, and then he got this love sick look. But then he looked embarrased and took off. The day after he couldn't look me in the eye and looked guilty of something (maybe that I saw his true feelings for me). Then he started coming up to me more but was treating me more like a friend, because he flirts with all the ladies but I think he wants me to take him more seriously. I also noticed that two of his male friends who also work at the store were being a lot nicer to me than they normally are, so I think he had been talking about me. About two weeks ago I got a makeover and he couldn't take his eyes off me, and now he stares at me more than ever and is coming up to me more, and he actually was a real flirt to me one night!. But he still has not asked me out! What do you guys think is going on?
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Hi. well i dont think that women should be too agressive with men . i think if you're into him then you should just ask him out for like coffee or what not. see how that goes . to me he sounds like a flirt if a man wants to do something he will do it . then again some men are shy so be subtle and make a move . Good Luck
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He needs to build himself up to asking you out, and if you don't see it happening anytime soon, then you need to ask him out.
When he comes up to talk, ask him when his shift ends, & if you guys end around the same time, go catch a movie or maybe get some dinner together. He obviously won't budge, so push him a little.
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Ask him out!!
Just for coffee at lunch, or a quick drink after work, something really casual and then he'll be more likely to ask you out on a serious date.
Who knows, the coffee/quick drink might turn into a serious date!!
He's probably unsure that you like him, even though you made a pass at him, because he's so flirty...
This will be a sure sign!!
Have fun and good luck! xxx
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