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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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hey i was wondering how do i stop getting messages to approve comments on my myspace?

Go into your account settings & click spam. You'll see the options to get it to stop, and then you choose it.

Then you click save. I know how it feels to have to do that bullshit. I have never had to approve my comments ever, and then I randomly had to. I'm assuming that's the case with you as well.

does anybody know what kinda smirnoff this isssss i keep seeinq it?

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=97315318

thankssssss (=

It's probably fake.

If you are unhapply married and you find a girl that maked you happy and you know that you want to be with them you want them in your life. why do you stay with your wife when you know that you are not happy at all.

and when the girl is trying to move on because she knows that you are never going to leave your wife why don't you just back off.

and maybe my friend kar wouldn't cry so much.
i know then why dosen't she back off well how can you when there is a baby involed.

i think that if you are going to get married make sure you are in love, i know that sometimed it doesn't work out but don't invole anyone else untill its over for sure.

Next time you post something on here, actually ask a question. You're just ranting here. If you want to rant, then get a LiveJournal, but don't do it here. This site is for people with actual problems who need actual help.

my boyfriend says that he wants to have more foreplay because we usually just go right at it. now i am all for that but i dont know what to do? any suggestions?

There's always oral sex, or you could role play.

my best friend used to be in our group but then she left us for all these gothic kids. she denys being gothic. today at school she wore all black and dark purple. her friend started talking to me and he was sayin ew omg shes so gothic and she cuts why are you her friend. i was so embarassed i looked at her and her other friend just stared at me and he said why are you acting so happy! and her friends do kinda give me chills in this class ther was her 2 guys and a girl of her friends. she never usually takes any shit from people shed stand up for her self and her friends usually do to. but she sat there peeking smiling. after class she said o what a friend to me and i thought she was talking about me. was this like a setup? we were talking yesterday about our old group and she sounded kinda mad. she said i act like i dont know her at school. could she have told her friends. im still in it but i feel like an outcast with out her. but she seems so much happier around these friends. whats with her always being with guys well and girls and what happened im just confused? her friends accept me and she keeps me safe if im around them i have a soft heart shes a great friend but what am i? well im 14 girl shes 13..girl lol shes been my best friend my whole entire life but i gues i do tell my other friend their my best friends..

People like you upset me. You think that just because your friend gets new friends & they're not like you that they're weird, creepy or even insane. Honestly, you need to grow up. Just because your friend has new friends that are different doesn't mean anything. Instead of judging her friends by what they wear & how they act, why don't you get to know them? You could be judging the nicest kids in the world but instead you're acting like a stuck-up little bitch just because she ditched your ass, and I honestly see why.

So here's what you do. You get your head out of your ass, look past people's differences, talk to your friend, be nice to her friends & find some common ground with them.

AH! 15/f...I have this guy that I FELL IN LOVE WITH at the beginning of the year. Just infatuated though, lol. I never talk to him. Because I'm too shy. But I really really really like him. And he always makes eye contact with me and smiles.

So yesterday, my friend comes online and tells me "I'm going to make it happen for you and [his name]. for sure. I got your back ;) I can make the connection between you two because you both are my friend"
And, of course, anyone would get SUPER excited. And I was. But now I'm beginning to doubt this. Has anyone on here ever been set up by a friend to be with a guy? I really want to be with him. It's like killing me inside. Self-confidence is a big issue here though. I'm not ugly, but I don't know how to look at myself/what to see in myself from the side. I don't know what guys think of me.

How can I better the chance of this working out? =( Thanks so much in advance.

My friend has set me up with a ton of guys, and most of the relationships have actually worked. I've only had 2 serious relationships, but I had some for a few months [2-3] that were because of my friend.

Honestly, you should trust your friend with this & the fact that it'll work. She knows your good qualities [the ones you don't see] & she can brag about them to him, and she can do the same thing for him. Trust your friend. She said she has your back, so believe her. She does.

so. my boyfriend was just over. i gave him head and he came in my mouth and i swallowed. im not sure if i got it all off. then we layed there for like 5-10 minutes and then we sort of had sex. without a condom. like he didnt really gon in. at all to say the least. well im guessing the head was in but thats it. im positive. i didnt feel anything. is there a chance that i could be pregnant???i just got off my period less than a week ago im guessing. is there a chance i could be pregnant?!

please give me accurate information. i have no clue when i would be able to get pregnant during the month?!

thank you soooo much!

Nobody knows when you're most likely to get pregnant except a doctor & you. Honestly though, there's always a chance. You had unprotected sex, and whether he went in or not, his penis was near your vagina & there's still a chance of pregnancy.

If you miss your period, get a test.

Is there any way to make a black eye go away faster?

Ice it. If that doesn't work as fast as you need it to, there's always coverup.

okay so im going to a FOB concert in october and im not sure about what to wear.
we are going to be like right in front of the stage, so i guess i need something comfortable :D

thankss

Wear a t-shirt & capris. Maybe some converse. Bring a hoodie in case it's cold after the concert, but you probably won't need it because since you're in front of the stage, you'll get hot.

I love audrina's dress in the hills the frist time she goes to meet justin bobby haha. Here is a pic of it, http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e27/tuffpup961/audrina.jpg

Does anyone know where i can find a similar one, not too expensive please

Try looking for it at stores like Express, H&M or Charlotte Russe. Maybe even Guess.

15/f
This guy tells me, "You got a lot prettier from last year."
I think (and say), "What the heck?"
He says, "I'm just kidding. You couldn't get any prettier than you are now."

What am I supposed to think about that?

-Signed,
Extremely offended/glad?

Truthfully, you shouldn't be offended simply because he complimented you. He basically said that you were pretty last year, but you got prettier meaning that your looks got more bold & flattering.

Honestly, you should be happy - not offended because he really did mean well. So, you're supposed to think highly of it.

do some jamacans speak french or am i thinking of a totally different country?

Some Jamaicans do speak French, but it's a very rare thing. Most Jamaicans speak English.

However, I think you're thinking of Haiti. My boyfriend is Haitian [& also Puerto Rican]. He doesn't speak the language but his father does. It's a form of French called Pattuea that Haitians speak, so yes - you're thinking of Haiti, not Jamaica.

whenever i put up an away message i go to my screen name and look at my info just to check it, but when i do that it says the "No Information Provided" as my away message. what's wrong? its not my computer cause it does the same thing for my other computer and its not my screen name because it does it for my sisters and brothers too. are there any aim experts out there that can help me please?

What version of AIM are you using?

If you're using AIM Express, then your problem should be obvious. However, if you're using a new version like AIM 6.0, then you may need to uninstall it & then reinstall it & see if that works.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=513162

I was the girl who asked that question. I guess you could say that I'm naturally 'flirty', and I'm really nice to people, and I'm nice to the guy that I was talking to in that convo. My question is, (obviously I'm oblivious to the fact that he's a freak), but how can you tell from just that convo? I know that I'm leading him on, and making him want more, but I don't know to stop..

You just tell him that you're not really interested. Once you let him know that, the flirting just might stop.

why do I get out of breath

You didn't really give examples as to things that might make you that way...

Update your question & I'll update my answer.

im 13 ive never even used a tampon :X and i know people who are having friggen sex at my age ... any tips on how to put in a tampon without it hurting? and when to take it out and stuff

All the directions on how to insert & take out a tampon are on the box. Even how long to have it in.

It's okay to be 13 & have never used a tampon. I'm 16, almost 17 & I've only used a tampon once.

Me and this guy Blaine have been talking for a while now. We've kissed a lot but nothing more. We hang out and talk on the phone all the time. He's really cool and nice and everything but I don't know if I would want him as my boyfriend. He likes me a ton and we have so much fun hanging out, but the thing is I like his best friend Mark better. Here's the only problem..My best friend is talking to Mark. I just wish me and her could switch guys! HELP! I don't know what to do..

If your friend likes Mark, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be willing to "switch guys." Honestly, if you really didn't like Blaine, then you shouldn't have kissed him all those times you did. By doing that, you're only making him think you're interested in a relationship - even though you're really not.

What you need to do is be honest with Blaine, tell your friend how you feel about Mark & see what happens. If Blaine & your friend don't wanna talk to you anymore, I could honestly see why. Don't make any type of moves on Mark because then you'd be a horrible friend. =)

on some of people's myspace pics there's a caption that says sum1 owns that pic wat does that mean
Example: go to this site
http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e151/hip9314/untitled-1.jpg

Sometimes people on MySpace let their MySpace friends claim their favorite pictures & "own it."

That's basically all it means.

does taking a bunch of advils enhance the effects of alcohol?

Yeah, it does.

I suggest you don't try it.

is discharge like the eggs coming out?
I'm not trying to sound stupid, but i cant like figure out what it is.

Nope.

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