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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Thank you very much!
♥ Krissy

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Hello all~
Thank you for taking the time to read and answer this. I wanted to know if there are any cool websites that can give me cool poems, away messages, random facts, or anything worthwhile. I am on the computer a lot and would like to find sites that are new to explore. Thank You Very MucH!!! 15/f

http://www.holliesquotes.com/ - Great place for quotes and poems. http://avatarhell.com/avatars/Animals.html - Awesome site for icons.
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This may sound like a dumb question but how do you know when your truely in LOVE?

You're always thinking about him, you always want to be around him, you always want to be with him, you always want to be talking to him, you'll dream about him, when he's around you can't help but smile, you'll tell your friends all about him, you'll think he's the best guy ever and there will never be anyone else, when he's not around you miss him, when he is around you don't want him to go away, etc.
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My webcam comes out a little blurry, is it just my cam or can i fix that..

It's probably your cam. A lot of cams are blurry. Mine used to be like that, until I found out the the lends moves. Try and see if yours does that. If it does, just turn it till it's clear.
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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?

Don't flirt with other guys, you do have a boyfriend. Place yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if he was flirting with another girl? Everytime you feel like your flirting with a guy, switch the topic, or think about how you would feel if he was doing this to you. Maybe once you realize how he feels, you'll stop the flirting.
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I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?

Talk to people. If you see someone that looks interesting, go up to them and start up a converstation. Always be there for them, smile and be happy as much as you can. People will start coming to you, once they realize your a very friendly person.
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I Bought some sunglasses, and I want to put a small heart decal on the lower corner! anyone know where to get this decal??

thanks in advance!!

You can find them at, Wal-mart or Zellers. I even saw them at the Dollar Store (if you have one of those where you live.) You could also get them at Shoppers.
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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

I don't think anything is wrong with that at all. If you guys are in love, you can't help who you fall for. Even if they are black, white, big, small, tall, or short. You can't help your feelings for someone. So, nothing is wrong with getting married to a man of a different race. If you don't think it's a big deal, you shouldn't care what others think.
♥ Krissy

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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f

I think he's confused about his feelings towards you. He's probably liking you, but he's just not sure yet. Give him a little time and I'm sure he'll come around. While you're waiting, look for signs that will show if he likes you or not, example: He'll make loads of eye-contact, he'll come out of no where and start talking to you, he'll say/do sweet things for you, he'll smile at you for no reason, he'll have that "look" on his face when he's around you, he'll always be trying to make you laugh by joking around, etc.
♥ Krissy

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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.

He's not scared of you or anything like that, he's probably just a little shy. Is he the same age as you? When guys are younger, they're really shy around girls that they like. It's not wrong for the girl to call her boyfriend everytime. Maybe once in a while he could call you. Maybe he would feel more comfortable talking to you in person. But, believe me. Once he gets to know you and you guys start talking a lot, he'll get out of his shyness and will feel more comfortable around you. You just have to give him sometime, but he'll come around.
♥ Krissy

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ok theres this boy lets just call him johnny. well lately me and johnny have been talking and its like a friendship thing but lately as i have been talking to him i ve begun to like him as more than a friend but theres a problem earlier this month he had a crush on my cousin and see my cousin doesnt like him shes in a relationship and has been for 2 yrs. but johnny hints that he still likes her and i dont know if i could compete with her or if it would be alright for me to go out with him after him and my cousin have had some "history"
Can someone help me please!!

It's totally alright to go for this boy. Your cousin is in a relationship for two years now, I don't think anything would happen between her and this boy. I also think they don't have any type of "history". History would be them having a relationship and memories from that, which they did not have a relationship, so they don't have any history together. You should go for this boy, you never know what may happen. Hint to him that you're crushing on him. Maybe he feels the same way.
♥ Krissy

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My friend Bethany likes the guy that I'm absolutley head over heels in love with..I cant keep my mind off the kid and I just Love him.. Should I get with him? or should I just try to forget him?

Please I need help

Confused*

If your friend knows that you really love this kid, she should be the one to back off of him, because you did like this guy frist. If she ever trys to go out with him or date him, that just goes to show that she isn't a true friend. True friends aren't suppose to go for the guys their friends love/like. I think you should explain to your friend just how much you like the guy, and if she ever got with him, you'd be totally crushed. Maybe you could try getting with him. Start talking to him more. Get his phone number; call him. Get his e-mail address or screen name; talk to him there. This way, you'll get to know eachother a little more, and maybe you could hint to him that you have a huge crush on him. You could also just go for it and ask him to the movies or to hangout somewhere. Either way, go for the boy. You never know, things could work out perfectly and he could be the best boyfriend ever. And if you don't take a chance, you could be missing out on something really amazing.
♥ Krissy

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i have a friend and her parents have been divorced for a long time because her dad used to beat her mom and he beat her too but now she has a new step dad and ever since he's moved in with them she's been acting different...she's acting like she did when her father was still around i think her step dad might be hitting her and i don't know how to talk to her about it what should i do?

You need to talk to her about it. If you notice that she's really acting differently, ask her about it. Just explain to her that you are her friend, you were there for her and the past, and you'll be there for her now. If she wants to get something out of her, she can trust you with it. Maybe once she realizes you do care about her, she'll tell you. Since she had her real father beat on her, why don't you look for signs? Example: What did she act like when her real father hit her, and is she acting like that now that she has a step father? Remember, always be there for her no matter what and show her that she can trust you with anything.
♥ Krissy

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Me n this guy used to be very close, no we're in a big fight n i don't know what to do anymore. My bestfriend (brandy) and the guy (greg) were always good friends. now, i feel like i'm screwing up their friendship.. because i'm always with brandy and when greg walks by her, he never looks at her, because she's hanging out with me. what do you think i should do? it's not that brandy and greg are mad at eachother, they just don't talk to eachother while i'm around... and me and brandy are mostly always together during school. what do you think i should do about this all? sorry if it's confusing.

The best thing to do, is to leave them hangout with eachother. They shouldn't be ignoring eachother just because you and Greg are in a fight. Maybe sometimes at school, you could hangout with your other friends, so Greg and Brandy can hangout. Or maybe, Brandy can talk Greg into talking to you. That way, you'll stop fighting and you can all hangout once again.
♥ Krissy

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why is april 20th national pot day? kids got arrested at my school today and they had drug searches in the parking lot. i didn't know it was a "holiday" though until this past monday...what's so signifigant about the date? why is this national pot day? thanks!

That's crazy. My school didn't have any drug searches at all. I don't think it's a real "holiday", like as in Easters, Christmas, Boxing Day, etc. It just gives the "stoners" and others a reason to smoke weed on this day.
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well i have a mole on my cheek and i told my mom i wanna get it rmoved she said yea, but it depends on when the doctors say i can... does anybody know if theres a certain age you have to wait til to get something like that removed?

There's no certain age you have to be to remove a mole. You can do it at anytime you want to. Just go to the doctor and ask him/her about this procedure. I'm sure he/she will give you loads of information on this topic, then you can decide on if you want to get it done or not.
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I don't know what's wrong with me. All my life I NEVER shed any of hair on my head. Hardly any hairs were left in my combs and brushes. Now all the sudden my hair has been falling out. Not just pieces of damaged hair, I'm talking the ROOT and everything. there was tons of hairs on my school uniform today and all my friends had to pick them off. If I run my fingers thru my hair there's a whole bunch of full hairs in my hand. This is not normal, what could be wrong? (there's no change in my diet)

I shed a lot of hair also, but not as much as you said you did. It could be different for you because of the lenght/type of your hair. You could go to the hair dresser. Maybe they have some kind of product out that may help you with this problem.
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hey everyone. i am thinking about cutting my hair. my hair is kinda long. its right below my breasts. i want to cut it like jamie lynn spears in this picture.
http://www.tvtome.com/images/people/138/8/17-36657-sm.jpg

i am a brunette with almost black hair

I think that would look really nice, that is a very cute hair cut. Go for it! Change is good and your hair would probably look super cute. Maybe you could also style it cute. Flip it out to the side and such.
♥ Krissy

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I just got a boyfriend 2 days ago, but i havent had a b.f. in a while and i dont noe how to like act like his girlfriend and not just his friend. I only see him a few times a day, cus were not in many classes together, but i dont noe whut to do! Id appreciate anything! =] .. i rate high!

Best thing to do, is to be yourself around him. You don't want him falling for someone you're not. Also, always be there for him. If he's having a problem, be right by his side to talk about it with him. Make him laugh when you can, crack jokes or do something crazy, that would make he laugh. Always smile at him when ever you get the chance. When you see him in the hallway, going to his next class, give him a hug, etc.
♥ Krissy

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I have 1 friend that i really kool and popular and we like always hangout. I have another friend that isn't so kool, but i mean we are like really close. I think i'm spending too much time with my kool friend than I am with my other one. Are there any signs that that will let me know if i'm neglecting her too much? Pleeeeez give me some advice!!!!

Thanx,
Frendship Frenzy

She'd probably stop talking to you, would stop calling you, might stop hanging out with you, she wouldn't be doing a lot of things that she usually does when you're around. She'll probably tell you if she feels like she's getting left out and such. Maybe some weekend you could hangout with your "cool" friend, then hangout with your "cool and populor" friend the next weekend. Or, you could hangout with both of them at the same time. You never know, they could like eachother and you could all hangout when ever you would want.
♥ Krissy

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