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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.


Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.


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14/f..I have to go to my dads everyother week end.. and I swear to by god that he trys his best to make me miserable he won't let me go any where with my friends unless i'm down on my knees crying and begging to go..he's sooo stubborn and it kills me.. I can't wait til I'm 18 so I won't have to go down there..What could I do to get him to let me go with my friends without begging? How could I get him not to let me go down there period! (link)
My dad passed away almost three years ago. I understand that your dad makes you upset, but he is your dad and family is very important. Especially, your parents.

I recommend talking to him about this, and explaining to him how you feel. I think maybe, once he begins to understand how you're feeling. He might stop this. Good luck!


Ok im 14/f and i never madeout with a guy before! a lot of guys want me to makeout with them, but im afraid ill be really bad at it. Is it true that your lips just go with his instinctavely? DO you guys have any tips for me?
Thanks!! (link)
Hi, I'm fourteen too. The best advice I can give you is if you do want to makeout, go ahead. But if you do not, don't do it just to please someone else. Always remember, that you never have to do anything that you're uncomfortable with.

It really comes naturally, even though I know it doesn't seem that way. Good luck!


ohkay well i want to lose 20 pounds..
1. how old do you have to be to buy diet pills?
2. what is the best and fastest working diet pills?


thankz (link)
First off, I want to say that diet pills are extremely dangerous to your health!

I recommend eating healthy, and excersize. It's all about being health!


Okay so I was looking at some sites and i don't want my mom to see what I have been looking at. When I start to type a letter in the link bar it drops down the sites that start with that letter, and I'm scared that she will see what I have been looking at and that would be extremely awkward. How do you delete different links? (link)
Yes, all you have to do is click "tools" and then click on "internet options." Then, click "clear history" and it's all deleted.


I think Nicole Richie was anorexic, and thats how she lost all that weight right? Everyone says that like you gain all that weight back when you start eating but how come nicole didnt get heavy? thankssssss! (link)
Well, Nicole used to be kind of heavy, but she wasn't fat. She looked better then, than now. But I've heard that she has been trying to gain weight, and stay healthy. So I commend her, for getting help!


Is it true that dance dance revolution will make you lose weight? (link)
No, that's not true, ha ha. But you can however, lose weight for dancing in general, and by healthy eating and excerise.


Hey! Um, how do you know if someone excepts you or denies you as a friend in myspace from a Myspace friend request? Thanks :) (link)
Yes, all you have to do is go to your pending requests, and you should see it there.


im 17/f and my skin on my eyes is really dark especailly on my under eyes. i heard of hylexin cream but i dont know of it works ive also tried stuff by avon and vita k but it doesnt seem to be working, i asked my doctor but she said its normal and "its looks pretty" so she wont help me. i want to try hylexin but its 99$ so i dont want to waste my money has anyone used it? can anybody else help me. anything will be helpful (link)
CG (CoverGirl) Smoothers Concealer $2-$4. It's great for covering dark circles, and it's dermatologist tested, so it's healthy for your skin.


Every night I cry so hard because I get so hurt from having my boyfriend talk to other girls. Yes, I've talked to him about it, and he says they're all friends. I believe him, I just don't know how to stop being jealous. I get so stressed, and I'm just tired of crying and being hurt all the time. Please help me. (link)
The key to a relationship is -- trust. If you don't have trust, you have nothing. I think you have to learn to trust your boyfriend, until you are really proven otherwise.

Like, us girls or at least a lot of us have guy friends, that are strictly friends, and then our boyfriends get jealous, right? It's really the same thing, at least pretty much.

So just try trusting him more, and not letting it bother you when he talks to other girls. Or get to know the girls that he's talking to, let them become friends. Then, you might see that they really are just friends, and are nice girls.

I kind of felt this way once, but I didn't really get upset about it. But now all of those girls are like my best friends, and I know there's nothing going on between them.


what do i do if my best friend is going out with my exboyfriend? (link)
That's an absolute don't, you never date your friends' ex... ever. Since I'm sure you already know this, and are really looking for some advice -- I'm here to help, lol.

I would talk to your friend about how this makes you feel, and listen to what she has to say. I don't really think that your friend, is really doing this intentionally to hurt you. She might really like, and care about this guy.

Either way, hear her out. Then, I think you have to take it from there. If you still want to be her friend, or not.

Good luck!


Does anyone know of any good diet pills that I could try besides stackers?? (link)
I just want to say that diet pills, are not healthy for you!

I recommend a healthy balanced diet, and proper excercise.


Okay I know you will probably say i'm to young!!!!!! But I know i'm ready for sex so what's the big deal???????? (link)
The big deal IS sex! Once you lose your virginity, it's gone... forever. Plus, there are lots of things that can go wrong. You can get pregnant, even with protection -- it can happen. You can get AIDS, STD's, and many other sexually transmitted deceases, that can kill you.

And if you're ready, then why are you asking all of us on advicenators about it? I recommend taking this quiz anyway.

http://quiz.ivillage.com/seventeen/tests/20060928_sex.htm


its all the guys are into in 7th grade. I am at 13 year old female size 34 A. I am very slender and tall (5'4) or so. I want bigger boobs. How can I get them without pills or anything.

*I dont need advice on all that self consicous crud.k?

*And I dont want to have to stuff my bra.

Is there any special food that helps or something. (link)
Don't worry, pills won't help you and neither will food. I recommend a padded bra, Victoria's Secret has one that makes you a cup bigger.


how can i completely delete my myspace account? (link)
Go into your "Account Settings," and click "Change Account Settings" page, then click the "Cancel Account"


is there any way that you can find out who an "unknown" caller is? (link)
No, I don't think that's possible.


how does this question get deleted:

does stretching burn fat?

what is wrong with that ? (link)
#1 G to "Your Questions" then click "Delete."

#2 No, but some simple workouts do. Like, the ones found on www.seventeen.com

#3 Nothing.


Ok soo I have really frizzy, poufy hair that I hate, so I recently bought a Chi. I really like my hair straight, but the only problem is that my Chi makes my hair really, really flat. It pretty much just sucks the volume out of my hair. I was just wondering if anyone knew how I can get my hair straight but keep some volume?

Thanksss =] (link)
I recommend John Frieda's Frizz Ease line. It's for of course, frizzy hair, and it doesn't make your hair poofy at all.

If you still want your hair straightened, I recommend at straightening iron.


can you wear color contacts even if you don't need regular contacts?

if so, where can you get them and which are the best brand?

thanks so much.
(link)
Hi, I found this...

"Do I still need a prescription if I just want contacts to change my eye color?

Yes, you still need to be fitted for the lenses even if you don't need vision correction. This is because contact lenses are medical devices and wearing them can affect the health of your eyes."

If you still want them, I recommend Acuvue -- http://www.acuvue.com/acuvue_colours.htm


So I'm a pretty good piano player and I'd really like some newer songs to play. I'm interested in almost everything. I plan on buying Mandy Moore's Only Hope (most likely the easy version) and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for more music like that? (link)
Sarah McLachlan's "Angel" is beautiful.


hi everyone,

does anyone know a site where you can download music videos and tv shows ABSOLUTLEY FREE. i know you can with limewire but i want to put the Music Videos and TV Shows on my iPod. please help!

thank you!

--oakley (link)
I'm almost positive, that you can do that with Warez.

www.warez.com




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