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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???

ibuprofen. take walks/exercise. DRINK WATER, believe it or not we learned in health class that drinking water relieves cramps because cramps are involuntary spasms of muscles, and the nutrients in water can help relieve the spasms. something like that, i don't know the details because i don't pay attention. but i know it should help somewhat!

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Ok so last weekend i hooked up with a girl at my friends house when his parents were outa town. she was hella cool, and actually had a sense of humor, and was hot. I mean it all went on for like hours on the couch, then moved to the bedroom, and i am pretty sure we both had hella fun. But she lives like 20 min away frum me (with no traffic) and we ahve talked for a , long time online before i actually met her, cuz she is good friends with my friend who parents were outa town. But i wanna hook up with ehr again, cuz like that ngiht was soo awesome, and i don't want it to be like all the otehr girls i've hooked up with, who like i barley talk to. well?

what exactly are you saying? that you want to hook up with her but you don't want a committed relationship? and when you say "i don't want it to be like all the otehr girls i've hooked up with" does that mean that you want it to be special with this girl? if so, then the distance thing really sucks (i'm sure you know that already) so i guess taking it to the next level is out of the question? well just to let you know in advanced, when you hook up with a girl, she'll probably think "omg he likes me!" and she'll probably wanna be boyfriend/girlfriend. so if you dont want that, dont lead her on. but if she doesnt care, just make plans with her. 20 mins away isnt that far away. if you talk to her online a lot well then you need to talk to her about the situation! ask her if she's still interested in hooking up again because she's OBVIOUSLY into you, or she wouldnt have hooked up with you the first time.

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I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to?

thats what i heard, but almost all of mine had an indian with a star. so i doubt it.

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This year i took honors science. It's hard as hell, i dont understand anything and i have to do a stupid science fair project! Last year i got all "A's" now Im getting a "C" in science. I've tried to get out of it but it wont work! Any suggestions for science fair, grade pull ups, or even to get out of it??? PLZ I'LL rate a 5 if u try- Except spike cause he dont help at all.

hey yeah i take honors biology and its really hard, my average is like a 67 when last year it was a 98. i suggest getting a tutor and seeing them a couple times a week because they DO help you. my advice is to study every night. take notes during class of EVERYTHING important that the teacher says. i know it sounds lame, but just do it cause it helps. study your notes every single nigh because it will keep your information fresh in your mind. if it is still way over your head, maybe you shouldnt be in the class =) hope i helped

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what do you girls use to get rid of pimples/acne, to wash ur face, lotion, what kind of foundation/cover-up/concealer? ps ... i dont have to much money and i would love to have clear skin by halloween! thanks gurlies!

if you are going to wear foundation, wash your face before you put in on, and wash it off when you come home from school, and wash your face before you go to bed. personally, i dont think theres anything wrong with wearing foundation or coverup, because it doesnt make me breakout any more. it actually helps sometimes. so thats why i think everyone is different. and i use st. ive's medicated apricot scrub. i love it, and it works really well.

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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?

if she really wants to date you, she wouldnt care about the movie. but if you want to make sure, don't ask her on another date after this and see if she insists on going out again. but i'm leaning on the side that she does dig you.

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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot??

i'd say no, girls usually don't think it's hawt. so wear pants, and grow out the hair. i'm surprised the guys arent making fun of you...?

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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss

Hey! I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION AT YOU! well yeah, i can make the honest assumption that he probably likes you! keep taking his bus, sit near him, make eye contact, all that stuff. you guys probably might not start talking right away so give it a few days or a couple weeks so he can loosen up! i dont think you should ask him to hang out right away, just talk first and see if he'll eventually make the first move, you know? as for me and the guy who likes me, we're hanging out tonight and the football game and the homecoming dance, so its easy for me. so yeah, definitely keep taking the bus and smile and talk to him! take it slow at first. let me know how it turns out. take care

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I am a female and was wonder if the nipple was the last part to develop on boobs i really weird question i know but my best friend is scared to tell ne one and shes very unconfident because of it and i dont know what to tell her and i didnt know what category to put this under pleeeeeeeeeeease answer
thanks

yep, i would say the nipple is the last part to develop. cause i think it gets bigger as your boobs get bigger but not until later. nothing to worry about, hope i helped.

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I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do?

its perfectly normal i feel the same way, i think everyone wants somebody

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Just out of interest..what is a preppy person?

someone who wears preppy clothes, i think.

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I have smallish shoulders, smallish hips, C-cup breasts, and a fairly undefined waist. I'm 5'4 and weigh 125 pounds, and have a small bone structure. What kind of styles of clothing would look best on me? Thanks!

i'd say, hmmmm... tight faded jeans. flared. and just plain shirts or whatever. and maybe some kind of coverup jacket would like nice, like a hooded one.

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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl-

okay well i wouldn't know. because i've never given head. but the only thing i can tell you is to not scrape it with your teeth because it hurts. thats what most guys say

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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 ..

i really couldnt say if i think he'll be okay or not, but at least we know that he WILL eventually wake up. i think that possible brain damage is the worst outcome? especially if he's in one of the best hospitals in jersey. every time i see shows on brain injuries on discovery heath channel, they usually turn out fine just with minor brain damage at the most. i'll keep your boyfriend in my prayers.

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out of the kindness of our hearts my husband and I opened the door of our home to my son and his wife. (Just til they get back on their feet) its been 2 years and they are still here!!! My son won't keep a job and is lazy!! He will cook every now and then. Both my husband and I work. my problem is HOW DO I GET THEM OUT OF MY HOUSE?? they have nowhere to go. ITs been 2 years and the daughter-in-law has her first time to wash a dish or sweep a floor. She does not cook or clean.Does only their laundry(I usually have to put it in the dryer-so I can use machine) they pay no rent, nothing on electric(they use a personal electric heater in winter and air conditioner in summer) or water (I pay for city water by the gallon)they eat out a lot and go to the movies all the time...I can't because I can't afford it. so what do I do? how can I tackfully get them to leave? any advise will be appreciated.

MAKE THEM PAY! it's insane and you need to put your foot down. my dad told me that he had to pay rent to live with his parents ever since he was 18. its nice of you to let them live with you, but if its getting out of control, you DO have the right to kick them out! i would. im sure its easier said than done, but i wouldnt want 2 lazy people living in my house!

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ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me!

you cant blame him. the reason why he's pushing you away is because hes probably afraid that he'll loose you too. he probably does love you, so i'd just be there for him at all times. he needs you!

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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!!

wow if he even has the nerve to break up with you at this really really really sad part of your life, then he is so LOW its unbelievable. maybe committing to just a friendship is the best thing to do right now. if he cheats on you hes not worth it!

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-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long n confusing)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. also...i asked him last night on-line what this girls name is and he said "marissa" and i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..and when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

its a big possibility that it could be you who he wants to ask out. thats probably why he keeps asking you questions about not getting turned down. but if he really does like this girl marissa and he wont take your advice by saying just be yourself, then tell him that you wont help him out anymore if hes going to be stubborn.

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Ok so I just came back from a guy friend's house. My other two friends, a girl and a boy, were there as well. We started off just playing dares, stupid things like kissing and stuff. Anyway, one thing led to another and we got more and more hyper and raunchy. We didn't have actual sex but we were trying to give the boys erections and things. Now I feel so so guilty because I have a boyfriend and Tom and Dan (the two boys) are his best friends. It wasn't anything serious and meaningful but I love my boyfriend and he gets so jealous if I put my arm round other guys and stuff. I don't know what to do.

well if your boyfriend does get mad at you, i can see why, cause it did get a little out of control. but i think that you should explain to him that it meant nothing, so on and so forth, AND have your guy friends explain to him AS WELL. it would be wrong for you to take all the blame for this. plus, shouldnt he be just as mad at his 2 best friends for doing it? so i think that all three of you have some explaining to do!

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OKay i just got home from skool and my friends are with me one of them lives right up the street before me!! so he wasn't dropped off i was the first one dropped off! then i found out that my other friend is going ova 2 his house! should i be mad about this? what should i do? i feel left out and unwanted and it's kinda of a stab in the back!! What do you think?

yeah thats definitely REALLY rude of them. If they were going to hang out behind your back, then they shouldnt have made it obvious in front of you. or maybe if the guy who was going over your friend's house (IF she's a girl) maybe they like eachother or something and didnt want you to know?

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