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when should i give up?
ok, i have been with this guy for a while, and the only time i ever see him happy is when we are together, and our mutual friends say the same thing, but he keeps pushing me away, his mom died in his arms 3 years ago and he was really close to her, some one told me it sounds like he loves me cuz he doesnt wanna lose me. does anyone have any ideas???? please help me!
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Personally, I think he's pushing you away because he does't want to lose you. He's trying not to get too close because he's afraid of abandonment. Usually people who go through such dramatic experiences like losing a parent most likely become this way. It will eventually heal, however, he may struggle with this problem throughout his entire life and possibly even adult hood. Tell him about your feelings and let him know that you support him 100%. Best of luck.
xoxo
//hannah
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It's very simple actually. His fear of abandonment makes it difficult for him to be vulnerable to you. It will heal in time. Just make sure to let him know you love him and you will support him whenever. Even randomly blurting such positive things out to a person can really have a good effect.
Time heals all wounds, dear.
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He might be in some small way pushing you away cuz he knows you will not always be there. But at the same time he might be feeling like you will and perhaps he is confused.just be there for him and tell him how much he means to you and maybe things will work out better:)Good luck to you and the things that you do.
-Lisa
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aww thats so sad! Maybe he pushes you away because he is afraid of getting too close to someone then losing them just like what happend with his mom. Just tell him that you will be there and he will not lose you no matter what. Hope I helped!!
xoxo chels
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i think he loves u but he has alot of things on hiss mind jsut give him some time and try not to get to0 close so he will feel that u respect his feelings. i hope evrything goes good with yall go0d luck hope i helped out some
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you cant blame him. the reason why he's pushing you away is because hes probably afraid that he'll loose you too. he probably does love you, so i'd just be there for him at all times. he needs you!
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maybe it's because he's afraid to get to close to you that if u go away he thinks he'll have no one! make sure he knows that you'll always be there for him. He's only pushing away from you because he is scared if he gets to close to someone again then he'll lose them!! let him kno you care!!
*BeSs*
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it LoOksz tO me LikE this guy reaLLy likez yOu. Give hima chance to have that relatiOnship wit yOu that makez him feel Like he`sz LovEd back. i thinK If yOu reaLLy caRe fOr him..you shOuld qive him that love!!-Tiffany
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hey..well you should talk to him about it..maybe he just needs his room..you know some of his own thinking space..ask him about it..and just give him some time...thats a really big loss..well good luck wit it ...you naw mean?
--PinoyBoi
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