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Q: I got my hair cut about 2 weeks ago and i hate it. my hair used to be really long but now its like sholder length and thats to short for me. I also have these really anyoing angles in my hair too. Is there anyway to make my hair grow faster and even out my angles? thanks in advance!
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Well, there may be products out there to mayeb help the growth, but I'm not so sure those always work. What I would do is make sure I keep my hair healthy, clean, and undamaged, and just wait for it to grow out. Then, when you think it's time, go get your hair all one length.
Jess♥
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Q: When a girl shaves her pubes, do they shave it ALL off? Or just the sides? Whats most common?
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I think the majority of girls shave or wax all of it off. Like someone else said, it's just a preferance thing most of the time. There;s different styles (if you will), like, the bikini or whatever. Whatever you feel most comfortable. But if I were you, I'd shave it all off. You don't othe nastiness surrounding the shaved area.
Jess♥
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Q: this is a little weird, but what percentage of people do you think shave "down there"? would you suggest it
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I'm not sure there's a percentage, or at least that I'm familiar with. I think at least a quarter, maybe even half. I don't think it's a bad thing to do at all, just make sure your careful and when you're done, change the blade.
Jess♥
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Q: I have chocolate, and you know how you can talk with the phone open or closed? does anyone know how to close the phone during a conversation without hanging up?
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Change the setting options. Go to your menu, go to settings and tools, and then go to Call settings. And then go to End call, and change it.
Jess♥
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Q: Is it wierd to call a guy babe? cause i was talking to him online(nd we were flirting, he's really hot and i plan on hooking up with him), and he was like, g2g love you, and i didnt know what to say so i was like, ttyl babe.
is that wierd?
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Nope, not wierd at all. I call my guy friends online babe too.
Jess♥
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Q: I'm 14 and wear I 34A...I will consider it small for my age, but I'm curious, am I done growing? What can I do to see that I am done? Someone said you rub them and see if they are around? Thanks!
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You're not done growing yet, first of all.
Now, rubbing them won't do anything, secondly.
Jess♥
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Q: Ok, if I just have sex with another guy, but end up not enjoying it, am I still bisexual for having sex with another guy? Also, is having sex with another guy the only way to really know if I am bisexual or not? Thanks.
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Well, other people may consider you bi. I really don't have an opinion on that honestly. But, I think it depends on the way you feel. Do you like girls? Do you like guys? Do you like both? Just because you have sex with a guy doesn't mean you necessarily are one, I guess. It just matters on what gender you have feelings for.
Jess♥
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Q: I gave my boyfriend a handjob and when he cummed, it got on my hands and on his hands too. Then my boyfriend fingered me. Could I get pregnant from this?
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Yes, there's a chance.
Jess♥
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Q: Hey im 13 and a boy i really want to have sex
so much and alot of kids at school have hade sex already and i want to.wut do i do?
also with this how can i make sure nobody sees us if we do have sex?
where can i have sex?
helm plz im a beginer plz help
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You're too young!! Ahhhh. First off, you ARE too young. Second off, you don't have to do something just because everybody else is "doing it". You may think that, but that's not all that it is in reality. Thirdly, there's CONSEQUENCES. There's consequences for every action, good or bad. STD's, pregnancy, AIDS. There's just so much more risk than there is just for the pleasure or I should say, pressure.
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/guys/virginity.html
Jess♥
P.S. It's your own personal choice. Choose wisely.
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Q: one of my friends may be on the verge of killing herself
She won't tell me what's wrong with her ... she's ignoring my calls and when she answers, she hangs up.
On myspace, she reads my messages but wont reply
she was happy at school and is all depressed now...
anything I could do to squeeze the truth outta her?
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If she's already ignoring you and everything, I think it's time you stop trying to help her yourself and get her parents' help or seek other medical attention. There's a suicide hotline. I'm not telling you this to be rude, all I'm saying is sometimes friends can only help so much. Trust me, I've BEEN in your situation, and I know it's hard to be in that position. But if you really care fir her, do the right thing, and get her help from an adult or doctor.
Jess♥
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Q: I always get embarrassed, well not so much embarrassed but i just go red all the time even when someone is takling to me, and my friend always mensions it to me a cocky way " ha ha your going red!"
what can i do to stop myself going red?
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Well, maybe you get a little bit anxious. I'm not sure there's really a way to make it go away, but I would do is just practice being confident and what not. Smile! :] If your friend keeps it up, next time you talk to him/her when you guys are alone, just tell him/her that you don't appreciate it. If they don't get the hint, obviously they don't respect you.
Jess♥
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Q: Can someone please give me the lyrics to "life's a song" by patrick park? thank youu
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I'll answer the question for you, but next time, use google.
You say life is a dream where we can't say what we mean
Maybe just some roadside scene that we're driving past
There's no telling where we'll be in a day or in a week
And there's no promises of peace or of happiness
Well is this why you cling to every little thing
And polverize and derrange all your senses
Maybe life is a song but you're scared to song along
Until the very ending
Oh, it's time to let go of everything we used to know
Ideas that strengthen who we've been
It's time to cut ties that won't ever free our minds
From the chains and shackles that they're in
Oh, tell me what good is saying that you're free
In a dark and storming sea
You're chained to your history, you're surely sinking fast
You say that you know that the good Lord's in control
He's gonna bless and keep your tired and oh so restless soul
But at the end of the day when every price has been paid
You're gonna rise and sit beside him on some old seat of gold
And won't you tell me why you live like you're afraid to die
You'll die like you're afraid to go
Oh, it's time to let go of everything we used to know
Ideas that strengthen who we've been
It's time to cut ties that won't ever free our minds
From chains and shackles that they're in
From the chains and shackles that they're in
Well life is a dream 'cause we're all walking in our sleep
You could see us stand in lines like we're dead upon our feet
And we build our house of cards and then we wait for it to fall
Always forget how strange it is just to be alive at all
Jess♥
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Q: I really like this boy and hes blanking me out of his life, what do i do?
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Well, the answer is simple. You say he's basically taking you out of his life. I know it's hard to just stop liking someone,but I guess you don't have to-just don't expect to ever be with him. But, seriously, if they won't waste their time on you, it's really a waste of your time to try to be with them.
Jess♥
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Q: i love my guinea pig. (it's like a hamster.) but i think i love her more than just like a pet. i know it's weird, but she really understands me. i can tell her anything. it's like we're made for each other or something. i need her. sometimes i cry because i know i can't REALLY be with her. i've just given up on dating all together, because i love my guinea pig. what can i do about these feelings? is this weird?
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Well, it sounds to me like because you're fed up with well, human, relationships, you look to your pet for companionship. I don't think it's wrong to say, "oh, I love her", you know, I say that about my dogs. Although I'm not sure I mean it so seriously. I think your "relationship" with her reflects with what you're dealing with. And I'm not saying it's wrong to talk to her or whatever, because sometimes we all just need to let it all out. But, what I would really suggest is finding someone who will listen, and who will help you talk things out. Again, I think companionship has a major thing to do with the whole situation.
Jess♥
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Q: does masterbating make u lose weight?
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As far as I know, no it doesn't.
Jess♥
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Q: -Trim Spa:
All I want to know is, does it work? And how fast if it does?
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Well, it's almost like all other diet pills. It makes your metabolism go faster, so you're motivated and what not. But here's the part most people miss: participation required. Which means you still have to diet and exercise, along with taking the pills. So, depending on the speed at which you do all of the above, that's how fast you'll see results.
Jess♥
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Q: hii
does anyone know any good music video sites (like just to watch music videos) besides www.musicvideos.com ? like maybe a bigger selection?
thaaanks
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There's always
music.aol.com
I'm not sure they'll have a HUGE selection, but they usually have recent videos and what not.
Jess♥
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Q: I have this friend, let's call her V. I think she's really hilarious and overall a really fun and a good friend. But pretty much everyone in my class hates her because she's annoying. I wouldn't think this is a big problem, but my bf says the reason he doesn't talk to me at school is I'm always with her and we've pretty much broken up because of this. Also, some kids from my class have gotten grudges against me and pretty much everyone just hates me because I'm her friend.
What, oh what should I do? Should I stop being her friend?
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I think that if you're REALLY good friends with her, it doesn't matter what other people think or say. But if she's just a decent friend, just try to pry away from her slowly.
Jess♥
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Q: i have liked this boy for almost five years. he has always liked me too, but he is a player. he talks to my best friend a lottt and he is currently talking to 2 other girls that i know of. it just sucks because i like him so much, i really do. im infatuated with him and i always have been. i NEVER get crushes, either. he tells my other friend that he thinks i am way prettier than my best friend and he always tries to talk to me but i jsut avoid it because i don't want to be used. if i like him, should i give him a chance even if i know he isnt so trusthworthy?
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Even though it's hard, you're going to have to let go of him. Or there's a good chance you'll end up getting hurt in the end. I think it would be okay to be his friend and what not, but I don't think it would be the best to expect to go out with him, because if you do, you're just asking for trouble. I've been in a situation kind of like yours, and that's why I'm telling you not to be overly-obsessed with him.
Jess♥
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Q: Ok I just want to know some stuff about drinking:
how do people pass out from it?
Drinking how much is ok?
why do people pee in their pants when they're drunk?
and what does a hang over feel like and how do you know that it's a hangover?
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People pass out usually when they "binge drink", or drink a lot of alcohol.
How much to drink depends on your body weight.
People who pee their pants is like someone else said, some lose control of bodily functions, and I'm pretty sure sometimes it depends if you've had anything to eat before you started drinking.
Hangovers are the WORST. Especially when you binge drink. I've been down that road before, and they are seriously not fun to have. You'll know when it's a hangover. The whole day after for me was that everything was super loud, no matter what volume level the noise was on. I got dizzy spells, and it made me have a headache and feel very tired. You could have similar effects, or some that are a little different.
Jess♥
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bio
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:
I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45704
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