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i dont want to be used
i have liked this boy for almost five years. he has always liked me too, but he is a player. he talks to my best friend a lottt and he is currently talking to 2 other girls that i know of. it just sucks because i like him so much, i really do. im infatuated with him and i always have been. i NEVER get crushes, either. he tells my other friend that he thinks i am way prettier than my best friend and he always tries to talk to me but i jsut avoid it because i don't want to be used. if i like him, should i give him a chance even if i know he isnt so trusthworthy?
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im in an extremely similar situation right now, where my best friend just broke up with this kid that she really likes, that i also like. he likes me too. whenever shes not around, he talks to me alll the time and flirts like crazy, and then when shes around, i could just as well not exisist. he talks bad about her to me, and talks bad about me to her, and of course we defend eachother and tell eachother what he says. neither of us will give him a chance, because of this. he broke up with her multiple times before because of other girls. so, my advice would be not to give him a chance right now, until he kind of settles down, becuase if hes a player, chances are he wouldnt just stay with you. that doesnt mean later on you shouldnt, becuase people do chance.
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Even though it's hard, you're going to have to let go of him. Or there's a good chance you'll end up getting hurt in the end. I think it would be okay to be his friend and what not, but I don't think it would be the best to expect to go out with him, because if you do, you're just asking for trouble. I've been in a situation kind of like yours, and that's why I'm telling you not to be overly-obsessed with him.
Jess♥
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Well if he doesn't have a girlfriend then he can talk and hang out with whoever he wants. I mean he is single. So if he likes you and you like him go for it, maybe he will turn out to be a great boyfriend. I think that you should give him a chance.
If he does have a girlfriend, well thats a different story. But I am assuming that he doesn't because if he did and you wanted to go out with him, then you would be helping him cheat. That would not be good. lol but if thats the case then I would definatley not date him because then he would almost deffinatley cheat on you.
Hope I helped,
Nicole x0x0
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