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bisexual question
Ok, if I just have sex with another guy, but end up not enjoying it, am I still bisexual for having sex with another guy? Also, is having sex with another guy the only way to really know if I am bisexual or not? Thanks.
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Ok. I have had this problem. Sorta! Lol. This is just my opinion. There is no real ANSWER to this. The answer lies within yourself and how you truly feel. I would say that if you make out with a guy or have sex with a guy, then, yes it could help you to find out if you are truly bisexual or not. Ya know? It almost has to becuase you either are into guys or not and it would force you to find that out. However, even if you do enjoy it, I don't think that means you are bisexual AUTOMATICALLY! It just means you like THAT guy enough to have sex or make out with him. See, I have made out with quite a few girls and yes, I enjoyed it. However, I would never date a girl even though there is attraction there. So, that means im not truly Bisexual. See what im saying? Thats just how I feel about it and kissing girls helped me find that out. I can do things with girl, just could never commit to one. So, I encourage you to explore this option and then think about how it made you feel and how you truly feel about this issue all together. But, just kissing or even having sex with a guy isnt going to MEAN your gay or bisexual. Best of luck! *Smiles*.
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I wouldn't be in such a hurry to box myself in if I were you. It sounds like you are just experimenting and exploring your sexuality, and that's fine. You don't need to have a label! Just go with what's natural to you, and what you enjoy the most. Even 'straight' people are attracted to the opposite sex on occasion, but if it's not something you really connected with and you couldn't see yourself having a relationship with another guy whereas you enjoy sex and relationships with girls, you're probably just a straight guy who's a bit more open and comfortable with his sexuality than most. Don't stress about it!
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Maybe, you can't tell. Bisexuality isn't just about physical attraction. If you like him in a romantic way, or any other guy in a romantic way, and you also like girls like that, then you know that you are bisexual. You don't need to have sex to know. I'm sure that even just hooking up with one could tell you. But not always, because you know how sometimes you hook up with someone of the opposite sex and you hate it?
But having sex with another guy could make people think that you are bisexual, so I wouldn't do it if I didn't want to go through that.
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it doesn't really deppend on if you enjoyed it or not it deppends more on WHY you did or didn't enjoy it. being bi mostly depends on what you think is attractive... so if you're turned on by guys and girls you're most likely bi... but you could have not enjoyed the sex because he wasn't good... it hurt, you weren't in the mood, or maybe you just weren't attracted to HIM.
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Well, other people may consider you bi. I really don't have an opinion on that honestly. But, I think it depends on the way you feel. Do you like girls? Do you like guys? Do you like both? Just because you have sex with a guy doesn't mean you necessarily are one, I guess. It just matters on what gender you have feelings for.
Jess♥
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