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Q: what is an orgasm?

googles always a good tool to use to answer questions ;]

The highest point of sexual excitement,marked by strong feelings of pleasure and normally ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions within the female; commonly referred to as the "climax."

♥ danielle

Q: how do you change the margins in Microsoft Word? they need to be one inch and i don't know how to change it. thanks!

im not really good at explaining things too well so i found these websites that would help :

http://office.microsoft.com/en-us/word/HP052292751033.aspx

http://wordprocessing.about.com/od/businesscareers/l/blmargins.htm

♥ danielle

Q: i like this kid.
who i met at the movies.
i think hes interested in me.
because trust me.
he has a gf.
he says that they are going thro relationship problems.
and stuff.
so idk. he goes to another school. but i really like his personality.
advice .. like.. idk.

if that isnt enough just comment and tell me and i can add additional informattion =]. thankss

Happened to me before too.You can be friends with him like talk on the phone,or through myspace or something like that but i wouldnt suggest hanging out with him because it will just kind of make things a bit worse.Its never a good thing to get in the way of a relationship it will cause alot of drama and cause major problems.Try finding a new guy to go after theres plenty more cute fish in the sea that arent taken :D hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: does anyone know the song by toby keith that goes something like this...

"we'd still be together but she left me. i got mad about it, but it never did upset me. she'll remember me until the day that she forgets me. we'd still be together, but she left me"

i heard that song once and i never figured out the title. and i teach dance class and i was interested in that song to make up a dance to.

please help (:

its called "she left me"

these are the lyircs if you want them:
http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/keith-toby/she-left-me-15921.html

♥ danielle

Q: Ok so I got a lot of new clothes but I have a problem. My school has a dress code and I got this REALLY nice top that I really want to wear but I need something to go under it. Its a red top that is like a tank top but it only has one sleve. What I mean is it starts on the left hand shoulder and the neckline curves down so it ends under my arm. What can I put under it? Something that will look good...

a red or black cami would look cute under it.i woudlnt put anything under it that would show too much like those shirts that go up around your neck or like a v-neck,plus sometimes they dont really look right and bunch up under your shirt.So try wearing a thin material so id say the best bet is the cami.

♥ danielle

Q: sorry this is so long
well my best friend is a guy.
lets call him fred. fred &&
lets call me sally.
well anyways hes like my BEST FRIEND.
he is so amazing, and we talk everynight on the computer for like 8 hours
we say I LOVE YOU SO FU**ING much! or like I LOVE YOU. or like holy sh*t i love you.
well you get the point, but always at the end of the i love yous we add [[in a best friend kinda way]]
anways, we are always in eachothers away messages. like SALLYS MY BEST FRIEND or something like fred is amazing
ect.ect.
we are sometimes shy around eachother at school, but we talk to eachother all the time too? its kind of werid.
we have a class together and we always look foward to it. and we are both like failing it, but we have so much fun.
we text, we talk on the phone.
im 2 in his top friends.
oh and this girl jessica, he like loved, and she loves him. but not love love.
but she got very mad at him for talking to me. and like said whatever have her
and he told her like we arnt dateing ect ect.. and even if we were she would has nothing to do about it.
idk
he always sticks up for me, and seems like he talks for me any chance he can.
and we sit RIGHT next to eachother sometimes at lunch
well i kinda am crushing on him right now.
he got out of a reltion ship with my friend a few months ago
but she told me to go for him.
soo
but what are some ways for him to fall for me.. without me telling him i like him while he doesnt.
whats some good ideas to flirt ect ect.
im sorry this is so long
thank you xoxo

aw thats soo cute :]

You could while your talking to him if he says something funny touch his arm while your laughing find any excuse to touch him lol ask him if he wants to hang out it dosent have to be just you too if you dont want it too invite both of your group of friends and for example if you go to the movies say "i want to sit next to fred" jokingly.When you talk to him always do eye contact and smile alot.Give him plenty of compliments like "oh i like your shirt today its a nice color on you" something like that.You could also say when your talking to him if he says something funny laugh and say "oh fred your so cute".If you need anymore advice jsut leave one in my inbox.And hun,you cant make anyone "fall in love with you" love just happens by itself,besides i dont really think you need to make him like you because from what youve said i think he likes you :D

♥ danielle

Q: Alright, so I love my boyfriend very VERY much.. and I know that if I ask him if he wants to have sex, he'll say yes. Now, I want to and all, and I'm ready.. Buuuut.. I'm wondering about other people's opinion on having sex at a young age. I'm 15, he's 16, we're both virgins.. and we've been going out for 3 months, but we've known and liked each other for a year. We were best friends during all that time, and even if he weren't my boyfriend, I think I would have still had sex with him because we're just very close like that.

My question is, what is your opinion though? Should we just do it now, in a year, when we're married.. and why? Thanks :)

I think you should wait a bit more.I know youve been best friends and liked each otehr for a year but youve only been with each other for 3 months and thats not a long time.Sex changes the relationship alot once you do it and its a big decision that you and your boyfriend have to make together.I would say wait another like 8 months i personally think 9 months to a year is when you should start thinking about having sex but thats just me.Its really whenever you think your ready and your both mature to handle whatever comes after it happens.Also,you should keep in mind if you end up getting pregnant are you going to be able to handle having and raising a child? you really need to think things through.But thats my opinion,its totally up to you on what you choose to do.Good Luck!

♥ danielle

Q:
For as long as I could remember, I've talked to myself (out loud). This may sound strange, but sometimes when I'm alone, I start having random conversations or debates. At times, I'll just start stating my thoughts out loud. I never, ever do these things around other people. In fact, no body would ever guess that I actually do talk to myself. I stop myself sometimes and wonder why I have such a habit.
I know that I'm a stable person, but I feel so
alone sometimes that I just start talking when no body is around. The thing is, that in the back of my mind, i understand what I am doing. I can bring myself to stop; it's not as though I have no control over this.
I feel like this is abnormal...but I really don't know. Is there anyone who has a similar habit? Or, is this even normal? Please only comment if you know about this. thanks

I acutally kind of get where your coming from.Im a sane personI think everyone pretty much talks to themselves they just dont admit it.I talk to myself sometimes like if i cant find something,or im upset about something or with someone ill say "why did she do that to me?" if one of my friends got me upset.I do it especially if i said something really stupid then ill say to myself "omg why did i say that?!that was soo stupid!" but i never talk to myself in public because that would just be crazy,i just do it when im alone,but i dont do it that much.So i can relate to you.Its kind of my habit too.I think its normal i mean hey you need to get your thoughts and problems together right? lol if you need anymore advice just leave one in my inbox ;]

♥ danielle

Q: when a person is in a coma, where do they stay the whole time?

Usually they stay in the hosptials intensive care unit.

♥ danielle

Q: my brother is 15 yrs old and still likes Spongebob! is there any possible reason for this and how can i get him to stop watching this show? i know that sounds mean, but seriously..

Whats wrong with spongebob? i love spongebob! its a good show i still watch it,its one of the few good cartoons that i actually liked.You cant tell someone not to watch something that they like watching.i tried to get my little brother to stop watching wrestling on tv but thats what he loves to watch so just leave your brother alone.(not trying to sound mean).Its just like how older people still like watching shows when they were kids.My 24 year old brother still watches the cartoon tom and jerry! its really not a big deal.

♥ danielle

Q: i just started dating this guy about 6 days ago and i dont like him anymore. the truth is i dont like him because hes like really fat and ugly. plus we never get to see eachother beacuse he lives about 45 minutes away from me. i want to break up with him but im not a mean person at all (although it does seem like it cus of the reason i sont like him) i dont know why i went out with him in the 1at place. ive only seem him once and i dont know when im gonna see him again. but i just need good reasons to break up with him without being mean. i need more than just we dont get to see eachother much but... i do feel bad by saying that so please dont make comments that are mean to me.. im not a mean person at all.

i was in this situation before.i went out with him for 2 weeks i wanted to break up with him the first day we started going out i pretty much jsut used him to make another guy jealous which i feel awful for doing but i was young and didnt know any better.Anyway,i think you just tell him that maybe its not such a good idea to go out because how you guys are just so far away and that it will be too hard for you guys to see each other alot and that your not really ready to handle a relationship just yet.Honesty is always the best way to go.You dont want to say too much because it will seem like you staged it and too rehearsed.The guy i mentioned to you about it was half a fib and half the truth, it was because of "my grades" thats why i dumped him and he didnt believe me.Guys dont like liars.So jsut tell him the truth (just not the part where you think hes fat and ugly because thats just plan mean) Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: im fifteen and havent had my first kiss
its really been bothering me.
but some of my other friends havent
had theres yet too .. and we just talk
about it occasionally and it make me
feel weird! because when i get my first
kiss how do i reacccct and stuff ..
haha this is so awkward.

Aww i love when i talked to my friends dreaming about our first kisses :] Dont worry,your still young i know people who havent had their first kisses until they were 19! so you have plenty of time trust me.And i know many people say it "jsut comes natually" but honestly its the truth,i remember my first kiss it was on halloween and i was nervous because i was worried that wouldnt know what to do or how to react but i realized i was just thinking way too much into it and it just..happened.It wasent a dreamy kiss but it wasent bad kiss either,its weird its like your born to know how to kiss or something lol But dont worry youll fine a great guy to spend your special moment with soon :D

♥ danielle

Q: 15/f

Recently I've noticed that I've been receiving a lot more male attention than I used to. At first I thought that it was because I was a lot more flirtatious, but yesterday a really hot guy started talking to me before I even said anything. I lost some weight and I look pretty good, but I was wearing a huge down jacket, so this guy could only see my face, which has been described as pretty in a different way. So did I suddenly get better looking or am I releasing a different vibe? I don't get it.

Same thing happened to me actually,its weird i know.I think its because since you were a little bit younger you might have been a little "chubby" and since youve said youve lost some weight guys have seemed to notice how much older you look and that your not how you used to look say 2 or 3 years ago.Im guessing since youve lost some weight your a bit more confident now and that good.Maybe guys are seeing that also.Id say whatever your doing now,just keep doing it ;] lol

♥ danielle

Q: okay, it's thursday. i'm having a huge party on friday, which is tommorow. I woke up this morning with an EXCRUCIATING sore throat.

is there any hope for me? how do i get rid of it and fast?

Ah! i just got over one a few days ago,but to get rid of it you shoudl drink alot of green tea with honey and try not too talk soo much or two loudly.Halls fruit breezers work well too plus they taste amazing.Try also using those throat sprays for your throat it numbs it and then relieves the pain mine went away in about 2 days.Try also gargling watr with salt in it it really does help.I found some websites that have other remedies.Hope i could help & remember to get plenty of rest! i think youll be fine ;]

http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Get-Rid-of-a-Sore-Throat?&id=415771
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-a-Sore-Throat
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070119163439AApIFRQ&show=7

♥ danielle

Q: hi well my boyfriend and i have bin togteher for more then a year now and i would like to make this valentines day special because last year he was teriblly sick and it was not such a great valentines day, i am short on cash but i will manage anyone have any tips?

Aw,well you could make him something.Like a mixed cd off all the songs that you both like and if you guys have "a song" you coudl put it on the cd.You could make a cute picture frame with a picture of you and him in it.You could also Make him a romantic card or poem about how much you love him and write in it all the things you love about him and maybe write in there some inside jokes you both have.You can make him dinner with all the foods he likes and just pop in his favorite movie and watch it.You can make him a memory box filled with pictures,romantic poems,and little things that remind him of what you guys did together or some of your memorable dates.This website also has some ideas you can do: http://scripts.lovingyou.com/mdb/search.cgi?mdb=ideas&cat=vday

Happy Valentines Day!

♥ danielle

Q: ok so im a big dancer.. and i need hair supplies does anyone know any like good hair spray and hairgel brands thats not too expensive. thanks.

For the hairspray i got these reviews from a website:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061116123920AAWSThq

For the gel,if you have a dollar store that lives around you then i would suggest getting gel from there (i know from a dollar store) but it actually works.I use LA looks gel it has different levels of holding power 1-10 i usually go for an 8 or 9.That sells for about 4 or 5 dollars.Bedhead works pretty well also.If you need anymore suggestions just leave one in my inbox.

♥ danielle

Q: when you are grinding with a guy, where do you put your hands? or what do you do with them?

if your grinding with him with your back facing him then you would want to put your hands on his hips and if you want you can kinda move them up and down a little bit.If your facing him you could put one of your hands on his hip or shoulder while your other hands liek i cant really explain it too well but like grooving to the music i guee you could say? haha like its in the air? i cant really explain it its much better with a picture or you coudl also put both your hands on his shoulders.I hope my tips helped you! good luck and have fun! ;]

♥ danielle

Q: I was reading up on it online, and I was wondering if anyone has had any experiences with it. How effective is it?

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

im soo sorry i thought you meant birth control pill!

http://www.fwhc.org/abortion/medical-ab.htm
http://www.ru486.com/topics/articles/article_92.asp
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070123071059AAtMNJ2

try asking your local doctor too,sorry for the mishap.

♥ danielle

jeez chill im sorry i just saw "pill" and i didnt see the abortion part i know theres a difference sorry it was an honest mistake.

Q: in the naked brother's band show, why did they replace cole (the "cheerio" guy in the movie) with some other kid called qaasaim or whatever? this qasaim guy wasnt even in the movie..

even though im 16,i turned on nick yesterday and watched it! haha its hilarous i actually love it,the songs are pretty good as well.But i went on a message board and thought this might explain where he went: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0444736/board/thread/65191469?d=65192408#65192408

i tried my best looking everywhere for it,i hope it helps you out leave me one in my inbox if you need anymore help.

♥ danielle

Q: well to start, i've had this best friend since 2nd grade or so and we would always talk to each other everyday and go everywhere with each other. since i'm now in high school, i never get to see her anymore because she's still in middle school (she's only a year younger). the part of this that kills me is that she lives four houses down from me and we don't even see a glimpse of each other. she never evens calls me either. we're too busy with homework and what not.

and believe it or not, when we do see each other every once in a while, it feels awkward to be around her. we just don't know what to say to each other anymore.

because i've been away from her for so long, my life just seems so empty. and i can't trust anybody but her, so it has been really hard to keep my feelings in, but i've managed.

Next school year, we'll be spending all the time in the world together because we're both in band and band is together a lot. it takes up so much time, there doesn't seem to be time for yourself (that's not a bad thing in this case) so we'll be around each other a lot.

my question is--is how can i keep myself from feeling so empty until the summer vacation?

(and just to let you know i'm straight. me and her are really, really close friends)

much thanx in advance. ^_^

True is,when you go to high school everything changes.Most deffinately your friends.The same thing happened to me and my best friend and surprisingly weve made it through.If you have yoru friends number or if you dont just walk up to her house and ask her to hang out one day and try to catch up on whats going on in both of your lifes.Tell her that you miss talking to her and that you miss you guys being close again.If she says she missed you too then maybe theres a chance you can save your friendship,make plans to hang out again maybe even try hooking up her other group of friends and your group of friends so you can all hang out together.If she brushes you off though and says that she dosent want to hang out or anything then maybe its time to move on and find other friends to hang out with she probablu wasent worth it anyway.Or it could be just people change which happens alot.Try joining a new club or a sports team youll make alot of friends doing those things.Since youll be in band together next year,i think your friendship will make it all you have yo do is just talk to her maybe the reason shes not talking to you is that shes waiting for you to talk to her so pick up the phone and call ;] Good Luck Hun!

♥ danielle