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i feel empty...
well to start, i've had this best friend since 2nd grade or so and we would always talk to each other everyday and go everywhere with each other. since i'm now in high school, i never get to see her anymore because she's still in middle school (she's only a year younger). the part of this that kills me is that she lives four houses down from me and we don't even see a glimpse of each other. she never evens calls me either. we're too busy with homework and what not.
and believe it or not, when we do see each other every once in a while, it feels awkward to be around her. we just don't know what to say to each other anymore.
because i've been away from her for so long, my life just seems so empty. and i can't trust anybody but her, so it has been really hard to keep my feelings in, but i've managed.
Next school year, we'll be spending all the time in the world together because we're both in band and band is together a lot. it takes up so much time, there doesn't seem to be time for yourself (that's not a bad thing in this case) so we'll be around each other a lot.
my question is--is how can i keep myself from feeling so empty until the summer vacation?
(and just to let you know i'm straight. me and her are really, really close friends)
much thanx in advance. ^_^
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True is,when you go to high school everything changes.Most deffinately your friends.The same thing happened to me and my best friend and surprisingly weve made it through.If you have yoru friends number or if you dont just walk up to her house and ask her to hang out one day and try to catch up on whats going on in both of your lifes.Tell her that you miss talking to her and that you miss you guys being close again.If she says she missed you too then maybe theres a chance you can save your friendship,make plans to hang out again maybe even try hooking up her other group of friends and your group of friends so you can all hang out together.If she brushes you off though and says that she dosent want to hang out or anything then maybe its time to move on and find other friends to hang out with she probablu wasent worth it anyway.Or it could be just people change which happens alot.Try joining a new club or a sports team youll make alot of friends doing those things.Since youll be in band together next year,i think your friendship will make it all you have yo do is just talk to her maybe the reason shes not talking to you is that shes waiting for you to talk to her so pick up the phone and call ;] Good Luck Hun!
♥ danielle
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well your both getting to the age where you are kinda going your own ways. And since you really haven't talked much, she may have interest in other things now. But who knowa, you maybe nice friends again once you are back in that same class.
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