Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Talking to myself


Question Posted Thursday February 22 2007, 3:47 pm


For as long as I could remember, I've talked to myself (out loud). This may sound strange, but sometimes when I'm alone, I start having random conversations or debates. At times, I'll just start stating my thoughts out loud. I never, ever do these things around other people. In fact, no body would ever guess that I actually do talk to myself. I stop myself sometimes and wonder why I have such a habit.
I know that I'm a stable person, but I feel so
alone sometimes that I just start talking when no body is around. The thing is, that in the back of my mind, i understand what I am doing. I can bring myself to stop; it's not as though I have no control over this.
I feel like this is abnormal...but I really don't know. Is there anyone who has a similar habit? Or, is this even normal? Please only comment if you know about this. thanks


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Mental health?


MW8305 answered Friday February 23 2007, 12:49 am:
I talk to myself all the time. Even in public. I tend to talk to myself when I'm trying to concentrate... Because talking to myself allows me to better articulate thoughts that I have not said aloud before.

No one I've met thinks this habit is abnormal. Most of the time, when someone asks, "Hey... Who are you talking to?" And I reply, "Oh... I was just talking to myself." That's when they usually confess, "Yeah... I do that too. All the time."

I don't think you have to worry about talking to yourself. If you're going to worry... Worry about the voices you keep hearing. Just kidding. ;)

[ MW8305's advice column | Ask MW8305 A Question
]




megan13456 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 10:36 pm:
heyy i think it is completly normal.
some people talk to themselves, other dont.
i talk to myself plenty of times sometime when people are around. a lot of people talk to themselves. its completly normal. although some people will think thats wicked weird but hey dont worry about what they think.

Hope I Helped :)

[ megan13456's advice column | Ask megan13456 A Question
]



Alexandkendra answered Thursday February 22 2007, 6:08 pm:
I do it too.
Its nothing bad, actually in essense its good.
Its normal though and nothing to worry about.
Its just habits,kinda like some people bite their nails.. we talk to ourselves :]

[ Alexandkendra's advice column | Ask Alexandkendra A Question
]



Xenolan answered Thursday February 22 2007, 5:00 pm:
I think that this is one of those things that almost everybody does, but nobody admits to. There's nothing wrong with vocalizing your thoughts in order to fill silence, as long as you're alone (if you do it in crowded rooms, people will be annoyed and have reason to doubt your sanity).

I have heard that this habit can be one of the signs of Attention Deficit Disorder, but if you don't have any other symptoms, it's probably just something you do - and as long as it's not causing problems in your life, it's harmless. So go ahead and talk to yourself. At least you'll know your audience is listening.

[ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question
]



jealousyxo answered Thursday February 22 2007, 4:57 pm:
I acutally kind of get where your coming from.Im a sane personI think everyone pretty much talks to themselves they just dont admit it.I talk to myself sometimes like if i cant find something,or im upset about something or with someone ill say "why did she do that to me?" if one of my friends got me upset.I do it especially if i said something really stupid then ill say to myself "omg why did i say that?!that was soo stupid!" but i never talk to myself in public because that would just be crazy,i just do it when im alone,but i dont do it that much.So i can relate to you.Its kind of my habit too.I think its normal i mean hey you need to get your thoughts and problems together right? lol if you need anymore advice just leave one in my inbox ;]

♥ danielle

[ jealousyxo's advice column | Ask jealousyxo A Question
]



vomski10 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 4:56 pm:
haha i do it all the times its alright. it's just a way to get out whats on your mind. your fine

[ vomski10's advice column | Ask vomski10 A Question
]



sabrinax answered Thursday February 22 2007, 4:41 pm:
i do exactly the same thing, and if you asked other people who weren't embarassed to admit it USUALLY they also do the same thing. it is normal, you're just thinking out loud. some people need noise and can't concentrate in a quiet environment, when other people are just bored and feel like talking. when i'm home alone i hate silence, so you can always catch me singing or talking out loud.

[ sabrinax's advice column | Ask sabrinax A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: bad sister
Next Question >>> coma

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker