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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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i'm in this problem too. you can tell them that your cramps are really bad, and you'd like them to go away. that's what my sister's on it for. or you can just go out there and tell the truth. hopefully your parents will understand! good luck! :o)
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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes. (link)
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Take some midol.. or go on the pill.. or maybe even a heating pad? Good luck.
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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him (link)
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k.. tell him how you feel. it's about the only thing you can do! be like "i thought i should let you know that i like you a lot. i don't know how you feel about me, but now you know how i feel".. if he doesn't like you, make sure nothing changes between the friendship ya'll have. good luck :o)
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me and my boyfriend went to a party and all I remaber is like dancing and all but then the next day I woke up next to my boyfriend and we where both naked and we both didnt remeber what happenend (link)
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if you both woke up naked, i'm sure you had sex. u need to find out what some pregnancy symptoms are.. if you show any of them, you need to buy pregnancy tests. it's really serious when your in a situation like that. ask people that went to the party, and asked what you did . i hope i helped. good luck! i hope the best for you!
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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333 (link)
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if he was going to go down your pants, i'm sure he would finger you. it's early if you think it is. if you think it's too early, then don't go with it. dont be forced into anything. because thats a bad situation to be in. if you think it's okay, then go for it. good luck :o)
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My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!! (link)
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just go for it!! start a regular conversation.. maybe about homework and what not.. and flirt! just go for it.. do what u gotta do. if he doesn't go with it, then let him go. there's a million other guys out there anyway! good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it! (link)
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haha i think u guys are like.. feeling eachother up? it's nothing bad, don't worry. a lot of teen couples do this. it's good that you guys are virgins and you believe in abstinence.. good job :o)
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Does anyone know of any free picture sites (I mean for sharing photos)? NOT picture trail, I don't want a free trial, I want something that won't get rid of me after 30 days, lol...Thanks in advance. I'll rate. (link)
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photobucket.com - thats what i use :o)
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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :) (link)
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no.. it's not wrong if you like it. if you don't want him to do that stuff, it's wrong. it's wrong to let him force you into things you don't want to do. make sure he doesn't do that to you. because that situation sucks like a bitch! good luck!
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What the hell do i get my boyfriend for xmas? of course, he told me not to get him anything but i have to. im lost for ideas. hes 13..he likes pink floyd, jimi hendrix, and ppl. help me please (link)
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if you go to best buy, they might have some concert dvds of jimi hendrix and pink floyd and other bands he might like.. good luck :o)
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Everybody I've asked has said different things about it but when is the best time to have sex so you wont get pregnate, alot of people say to do it when your on your period because its less likely, is that true? thanks a ton!!
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i heard it's the worst time when ur on it! but no matter what u do, protect urself!! good luck!
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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!! (link)
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look online at websites that'll help you.. go to askjeeves.com or google.. but you should go to the doctor anyway, just to make sure! good luck!
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I'm 14 and this guy i'm good friends with it 15, of course he is your average, out of control teenage guy. All we ever talk about is sex and everything, even school related subjects seem to trace back to it. He's already told me that he wants the first time to be with me BUT he's got a girlfriend. I have asked him if he talks about this with her and he always says no that he doesn't want to scare her away, yet it is okay to talk about it with me??? I don't know if he's mixed up and doesn't know what he wants or what, but really, is that normal to be serious about doing it with your friend and talking about it while you have a girlfriend that you refuse to let go of? (link)
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it's not normal for a guy to talk about sex with you when he's got a girlfriend. it's disloyal to do as a boyfriend. if you don't feel comfortable with him talking to you about sex when he has a g/f.. tell him to decide between you two.. because it's not fair to the other girl. she's going to get hurt in the long run. i hope i helped :o)
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One of my best friends we'll call her Nicole did something totally uncalled for last night. We all went to this dance and she knows I have a major crush on this this kid. I'll call him Ryan she slow dances with him right in front of me. Next time I'll see her is Mon. and I don't know how to react to the situation. I have another crush but he was with his ex- girlfriend (who is also my friend). Help me please. (link)
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well... don't you love the drama? but yeah she pry is just tryin to make you mad. go up to her and be liek "so how was slow dancing w/ ryan*".. if she says good or if shes a smart@$$ about it .. ignore her.. shes not a very good friend. ask her how she could do that to you.. good luck!
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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my boyfriend is like that. just tell him to back off. he can't control your life, if you guys are going to have a relationship, that's not the way it should be. he can't tell you what to do. talk to him, and if he gets mad - let him be. hope i helped :o)
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I have a friend. We've been bestfriends for 3 years now. Well lately, we haven't been talking to eachother. She found some new friends, as have I. But I mean, once in a while, we'll talk. But, she's become this total slut. Seriously. She'll makeout with any guy (no matter the age). Plus she cheats on her boyfriend. She also tells everyone that she's gotten drunk/high/fingered/given a blowjob/given a handjob/had sex. Which is so not ture! But everyone at school is thinking she's a whore. I know she doesn't do it. But I have a feeling that she might, someday. She's only 12. But, she does all these crazy things with boys. No one likes her anymore. (link)
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my old best friend was just like that. she was 11 when she lost her virginity.. and she's slept with several guys over 18 years old. she has a horrible rep and she's 15 now. everyone calls her jailbait. don't let that happen to ur friend. talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop making herself sound like that, because she's going to regret it. she'll be known as the town whore, and i'm sure that she doesn't want that. sooner or later, she'll get in trouble with the cops. just talk to her, and if she doesn't listen to you, she's not a good friend.. hope i helped :o)
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i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer! (link)
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i think you should consider finding someone else. if you don't have the time to talk to him, or if you never see him in the hallway.. it's not worth your time. and plus, he has a girlfriend.. good luck wit ur situatiion.. hope i helped :o)
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my boyfriend seems like hes my life i cant stop ever thinking about him and i always talkt o him on the phone and on AIM but now my grades are failing and my mom and dad says that if i dont get my grades up my life will be a living hell!!! there really strict on my grades! i dont know what i should do how do i jugle my boyfriend and school? also my friends?!!! also my boyfriend lives right next door thats why i see him so much!! thank you~! (link)
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k, if your boyfriend comes over almost everyday like mine does, then do your homework before he comes over. do your homework before you do anything having to do with your boyfriend. if you're struggling, ask your teacher for help. last year i was like that with my boyfriend and i did horribly. this year, i'm an honor student w/ a boyfriend. u just gotta stay on top of school.. homework right after school.. and study hard for tests.. hope i've helped :o)
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hey!! i have a chance to try out for my high school musical (i'm in 8th). It requires singing and dancing, so i definitely have a chance with the dancing part. but with the singing, i'm not bad but there are a couple of better people. does any one have any tips on what i can do... like projection, that sort of thing. thanks! (link)
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don't screw up.. and if you do, just get back up there and act like nothing happen. smile, and do the best that you can. that's all they ask. good luck :o) hope i helped!
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my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga (link)
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if the guy was a good boyfriend, he wouldn't pressure you. he'd wait until you were ready. if he's going to keep pressuring you like he is, then i would get rid of him. i'm sure you don't want to be pressured anymore. just tell him ur not ready for the commitment! hope i helped :o)
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