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the guy i like has a gf!
i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer!
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If he has a girlfriend you'll just have to be patient and be a friend. You can't go charging into their relationship because you like him. It's hard enough for us girls all competing as it is. As for not having enough time to talk to him. Be freinds with him after school, and start by making him a phone friend. You'll be suprised about how much a relationship can grow over the phone, my boyfriend and best friend for about a quarter of a year now became my friend OVER the phone, and we're still as much in love as ever. So give it a try. What do you really have to lose?
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well just ask him out maybe hell like u better than his gf.hey are u julie?just wndering
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You can't do anything, he has a girlfriend. Well you can start developing a friendship with him, that'd probably be best. When you see him in the halls stop and talk to him for a minute, get his screen name, his number, whatever. Try to get over him, you're just going to beat yourself up every day if you don't, unless he starts liking you.
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If he knows that you like him and he likes you just tell him that he has to pick either you or the other girl and he has to pick one.
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I know how you feel there have been plenty of guys that either I have liked or one of my friends has liked that already have gf. My suggestion to you is to try sending signals to him like when you pass him in the hallway try just taking a long "glance" at him.
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try to talk to him on the internet, if he has an sn. and if you guys have like football games try to have a friend make you guys talk! thats what my friend did, but like two years ago, but, anyways, it worked! and i got to be friends with him and then once you;re friends you can do the whole flirting thing and who knows maybe you guys can get a little closer! and maybe hell break up w/ his gf b/c he may like you better! it's a stretch, but hey- you never know!
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Well if you son't know him like at all you should try to at least become friends with him. But if that doesn't work you should try to just get over him as hard as it is and try to find a new love and what i mean by new love is a "SINGLE" guy. ~!GOOD LUCK~!
~!Chelly~!
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well i think u shouldnt talk 2 him because his gf might get jealous and dump him so u should find a new love life
hope i helped
ditsy
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i was in the same position last week except he was going out w/ my Bestfriend. how serious are him and his gf? if you really like him, and you think he's worth the while then you just have to be patient, try to talk to him more in school, and on the computer or phone. and eventually he'll see what a great girl you are and you guys will become really close. once your close friends start flirting w/ him when you see him in the hallways or if you guys are at the same place w/ friends outside of school..he'll eventually see what an osm girl you are and like you back! hope i helped, let me know how everything goes! *xoxo
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Stay good friends with him! Try to talk to him more like through AIM or by a phone! You never know but if things don't work out with him and his girlfriend, he will start liking you! Get him to notice you more! You could also flirt with him a little bit but don't let his girlfriend get jealous! Talk to him more in the halls if you can! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i think you should consider finding someone else. if you don't have the time to talk to him, or if you never see him in the hallway.. it's not worth your time. and plus, he has a girlfriend.. good luck wit ur situatiion.. hope i helped :o)
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First of all, still remain his friends. You never know, maybe with some time stuff might work out for best for you? Personally, I've liked a lot of girls, and a lot of them either had boyfriends or got one after I asked them out. If you have his IM or phone number, talk to him through that. Remember, the key is to remain his friend. You never know what'll happen. ;)
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