Hey all....my name is Scott. I'm a 15 year old dude from Johnston, RI. I've enjoyed giving people advice in the past, so I decided to check this out. Ask me questions...if I can find some time I'll try to answer. :)
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Gender: Male
Location: Johnston, RI
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: DemonicScott
Member Since: December 9, 2004
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ok, um i completely deleted my history and now i want it back, lol, um how the heck do i do that?! ne one, help please! (link)
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You cant really do that, unless you can read binary coding. Or, if you have Windows XP and System Restore is enabled, try that...it might bring it back, but I'm not 100% on that. Sorry I couldnt be of more help! :)
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16/f.... this may be a stupid question, but what are those people called that you talk to about your problems and you tell them everything and then they give you advice and everything is confidential. They do it for a living. Nothing SERIOUS is going on in my life (ex. I'm not pregnant, I don't go drugs, I'm not a lesbian, etc.), but I feel like I can't talk to my parents (about guys or whatever) I never have and I probably never will. I'm an only child and I've been the center of their lives for 16 years and I hate it. I always have...I wish I can share the spotlight with someone, but thats not going to happen. Sometimes I wish they didn't care about me AS MUCH as they do. I feel like I need to go see one of those people because I've kept so much inside of me all my life and now I think I need to deal with a professional who can help me. And I'm afraid of a lot of things (I always have visions of disturbing things in my head, but thats a different story). How can I tell my parents I need one of those people without hurting them? (link)
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No questions are stupid questions, first off. Second, I think you may be reffering to psychologists, or shrinks, whichever. I know how it feels to have overprotective parents, I'm 15 and just this year theyve started to give me a little space. If you want to go to a psychologist, it might get your parents more concerned, and it wont lead to anything good. Try talking to your parents first, preferably your mom, because its easier to talk to someone of the same sex. Also, another person/people you might be comfortable to talk to are your friends; you may not know it, but a lot of them mightve been through the same experiences as you have. I hope this helped in some way, and good luck to you! :)
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okay so my best friend and i have been friends for about 3 years and he always seemed to be happy, until mid-way through last year. he started getting really depressed. i can always tell when hes down b/c he'll start saying things to me like i love my Colleen, and so ill ask him about it and we will talk it out and he seems to be okay after that. but recently he has been really down. he will put up away messages and that say "gone to lookout rock, not that anyone would care. dont expect me to be back soon" and those really scare me. ive told him how i feel about it and how it scares me but all he can say is "dont take it seriously"...what should i do? do i take him seriously? or let this go by and try 2 talk to him and help him?(( i also dont want to end up having something really bad happen on my part b/c i cared too much...if thats possible))any advice??
Thanx,
Colleen
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After reading that, I dont think he's depressed. Rather, I think he might like you. Do you have a boyfriend or another guy that you could be kinda close to, other than him? See, I think what he might be doing is trying to get close to you, but he might be shy. I dunno, but from this, I got the vibes that he liked you. He wouldnt suddenly become depressed for no reason; sometimes when a guy likes a girl and theyre not sure if they like him back, he can get very depressed. Trust me, I'm very much like that.
You can never care enough, Colleen. I wish there were more people who actually cared about others. I hope this helped in some way. :)
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okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!! (link)
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All right, well, the first thing I would do is send a real picture of myself. If you think he'd like you for you, he would appreciate you. Remember, its beauty thats on the inside that counts. If he cant appreicate you for you, then he isnt worth it. Anyways, I hope this helped in some way, and I wish you good luck with you and this man! :)
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what does it mean to pop your cherry? i have heard it tons of times but i never really understood what it meant x3 (link)
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It means, if you are a girl, that you lost your virginity via sexual intercourse.
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Ok, i just got a motorola IM free and it has a base unit that plugs into a USB port on the computer. Problem is that my computer doesnt recognize that i have USB ports. I think my dad may have gotten it to notice the ports but it says they need to be configured. What does this mean and how do i do it? (link)
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Ok...I had a problem a little similar to this on my desktop. What I ended up doing is searching through my computers CMOS. It said something about USB and it was disabled, so I re-enabled it and the ports work as good as new. Remember, if it isnt enabled in the CMOS, then the computer wont supply power to it.
Hope this helps...it helped when I had the same problem.
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i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer! (link)
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First of all, still remain his friends. You never know, maybe with some time stuff might work out for best for you? Personally, I've liked a lot of girls, and a lot of them either had boyfriends or got one after I asked them out. If you have his IM or phone number, talk to him through that. Remember, the key is to remain his friend. You never know what'll happen. ;)
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
Thank-you so much for the help (link)
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The ideal thing behind this is to not hurt him. Myself, I've asked out a lot of girls and got turned down without them blinking an eye, and it hurts. Remember, its a perfectly normal human emotion to like someone. What if you liked someone and they didnt like you back? I know for a fact that no one would want to feel hurt about it, because that can be the worst thing. Its best if you tell him that you dont really know him that well and cant really make a decision until you do. Remember, hes a person just like you, and sure he might be a little shy, but you cant just ignore him. Shyness takes a lot to overcome, I used to be very shy and I never talked to anyone of the opposite sex.
Just remember to be very nice about it; I dont think you really want to hurt him, do you?
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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Ugh. I see this a lot of times around my school. In this case, the key is that he used to like you. Maybe he thinks that you still do? If thats the case, you have to let him know somehow that you dont like him, it might get him to back off a little bit, thus ending the problem.
I hope this helps in some way! :)
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Eep. I'm er..I play for both sides of the field and i'm v. v. nervous about telling people. There is this girl I am really interested in. I want to..You know pursue her but i'm not sure if she er..*blushes* is the same as me. ((don't worry, she's single it's a different one xD)) I'm just so scared she might think i'm a weirdo and we might not be abel to be friends again.
-Truley yours,
Bisexual babe xD I couldn't think of anything else! (link)
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Ok, well first of all bisexuality is perfectly normal. If you like someone of the same sex and you want to persue it though, it might be helpful if you know if shes bi or not. To find this out, a good way to find this out is to poke around at it, instead of outright asking her. Once you find this out, persue it, if you really like her!
:hugs: Hope this was of some help...thanks for your question!
-Scott
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