about

Name: My name is Amanda.
Age: I'm 15.
Height: Sadly, i'm not even 5ft. -__-;;
Hair Color: The box said egyptain plum xD
Eye Color: Green.
School Life
What's your school's mascot? It's a panther thing..
School color(s)? Baby blue and white.
G.P.A.? I don't fuckin' know. o____X;;
Who is your favorite teacher? Mrs. Bambuhrg.
What do they teach? Biology.
Is this your favorite class? Hell no.
Internet
Do you use any instant messengers? Of course.
If so, which ones? MSN, AIM, and yahoo.
About how many hours a day do you spend online? 5 kajillion!
Do you have a digital camera? Yes.
If so, do you post pictures of yourself online? Yep all the time.
Music
Do you play any instruments? I play the flute and the drums.
If so, what one(s)? I just told you. o.o
3 Favorite Genres Of Music: Emo, screamo, and rock.
3 Favorite Bands: Another tragic ending, green day, red hot chilli peppers

advice

when i first moved in 3 years ago me and this guy joked around a lot. well now i'm in highschool and we have a class with each other. he's a junior and i'm a sophomore. so this weekend he came with me to my job and we kissed. well then here comes saturday and he came over to my house and we messed around a lot. and so then he wanted me to come over to his house. so i did. we had dry . well then on sunday my parents were gone for like 3 hours and he came over and we did it again. except this time we both really wanted to go full out. but we did. but ever since saturday the first day we did it dry, it really hurts down there. will that ever go away?

He probably gave you some sort of sexual infection. . . "Just use lotion" . . . XD

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I am going to see Killswitch Engage, and friend of mine wants to go, bnut she's broke. WHAT should I do?

-Forever and always, totally and completely naked

I think your sweet and she should stay home and wash the dishes as usual, Adam. I mean Forever and always, completely naked. ^_- *hugs you*

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For a while now, I've had this nagging knee problem. I'm a wrestler, and the problem with my knee irks me greatly. I'll be running or something and it gives out and I end up falling. I dont want to go to doctors, because then my parents'll worry endlessly about it. When I have matches, it seems like when I wear a support wrap on it, my knee seems more stable. I'm just really lost as to what to do with it. I dont want doctors and their "surgery fixes everything" blab. Thanks in advance. :)

Augh, your such a stinker for not wanting to go to the doctor's about this problem. It could get really serious. A long time ago, my dad got into a motorcycle accident and he broke every bone is his body ((or so he says c.c)) But anywho, he hurt his knee really bad and thought that he didn't need to go get it examined. His kneecap slipped out of his socket and healed the wrong way so now he has very bad pains from time to time. I really really really think that you should at least get an x-ray to see if it's as serious as that. Even if you didn't break it, you might of dislocated it. In the majority of cases the source of knee pain is from behind/under the kneecap (patell IN OTHEa). This joint is vulnerable in anyone doing activities as strenuous as yours because of the stress placed on the joint in the various positions you all do. The joint shape that relies on specific muscle activity. Dislocation of the knee cap is often caused by sports injuries or overstrenuous exercise. For example, a sudden change of direction when running, a sharp blow (such as a kick) or a fall may all dislocate the kneecap. Dude, after the first blow/dislocation it will most likley happen on a regular basis. Even though dislocations may cause less severe pain and swelling, they may cause chronic pain over a long period. In other words, GET YOUR ASS CHECKED OUT BEFORE I BEAT YOU UP, MAN!
Self-care action plan

To reduce the risk of knee injuries during sports activities:

* exercise regularly to stay in shape,
* stretch and warm up before starting the activity,
* wear kneepads or other suitable protection,
* stick to the proper technique for the activity,
* wear properly cushioned sports footwear,
* train on appropriate surfaces.

If you suspect that you may have dislocated your knee or torn a meniscus do not try forcefully to straighten out or bend your leg.

Place the knee in a comfortable position and give it support. It helps if you lie down and support the knee in a raised position.

Put an ice pack on the knee to relieve pain and prevent swelling. Painkillers or anti-inflammatory medication such as aspirin or ibuprofen may also help.

See a doctor as soon as possible if you think you have dislocated your kneecap or torn a meniscus. You should also seek medical advice for pain or swelling sustained after a knee injury during exercise, sport or an accident.
A NOTE FROM AMANDA: OBESEITY CAN ALSO CAUSE THIS TO HAPPEN, SO SEND THIS TO BILL IN ADVANCE OR TELL HIM TO LAY OFF THE CHEESE FRYS!



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okay so my mom smokes and i hate it.. like all my clothes smell like smoke b/c our house always smells like it and my teachers look at me evilly b/c i smell like smoke but i cant do anything about it do you know any way to either get my mom to stop smoking or to like at least have my house not smell like it all the time?!

You should let your mom know how you feel. Tell her that her smoking concerns you too. Let her know how much you care about her. My mom smoked for awhile and I told her that she was slowly killing herself and gave her very true and scary facts on smoking and the risks of it. I also told her she was putting MY health at risk. Then, she stopped and she's more healthy than ever... ^_^ Hope I helped!

-ManderMuffin

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im 14/f...and the hair that i have above my upper lip has gotten really dark and noticeable...its embarassing...my mom says not to shave it, im scared to get it waxed, it hurts when you pluck it, and well is there anything else?!

I think you should shave it off even though your mother says not to. It's not going to disappear no matter how much you pray it will so better to just take it off. Actually, you should go buy some nair. That's a great product it's a hair removal treatment and it ranges from 5-10 bucks. Not bad, eh? Anyways, it loosens the hair and it loosens up the hair and removes it from the roots. ((I use it for my legs because I hate nicking myself and razor burn sucks.))

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im 16/f
my parents offerd to by me a car. whats a good 1?

Nissan Skyline

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2day my family and i(14) found out that my older sister (27) has a tumour down there, and is supposed to be haveing surgery in a week. after that they will be putting her on keimotherapy(sp?) and well if none of those cure her, she will then only have 1 more year to live..im so scared of loosing her!

I'm very sorry about this horrible thing happening in your life right now. There really is nothing you can do but cherish the time you have with her now. Don't think about the tumor or treat her different, either. Make sure you talk to her as if she's the same sister you have had for 14 years. That's what she wants. She doesn't want any sympathy. At least I wouldn't. Anyways, I hope your sister recovers and in the mean time feel free to e-mail me,

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Theres this guy. and hes my close friend and he tells me he likes me and thinks about me alot and loves my eyes.Then he goes out with my friend. But he apologized to me 7347 times and said hes goin out with her for the wrong reasons and that when we were with her the one time that all he could think was me and how he hurt me. And he still tells me he wants to be with me and that he likes me a lot and even told some of his friends he might break up with my "friend" n get with me. But then today on my advice page he asked me a question about her n how he still likes her n how he heard shes gonna break up with him n he doesnt want to ruin the relationship by doin it first if its not true. It hurt to read that and i dont want to ber mad at him because its not in my nature.idk if i should wait for him or should i jus move on?? please help when i ask him about it he says " ur paranoid i like u"

I think that this guy is in between two girls right now and he isn't sure which way to go. How long have they been dating? Maybe he doesn't want to loose that bond with her. Maybe he is scared of making another commitment and maybe loosing something he never knew he had. I think you should leave him alone in a situation such as this. It will only lead to trouble with the girl and their will most likley be confrontation. I hope your problem gets solved. Good luck. ^_^
-ManderMuffin

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Does anyone know what song this is??

So cut my wrists and black my eyes
So I can fall asleep tonight and die
Because you kill me..You know you do
You kill me well you like it too


Thanks.

This song is by hawthorne heights and it is called ohio is for lovers. Your welcome. ^_^

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how do you know if a girl is devirginized based on her physical outlook and socialization??
does it easily show?
thank you.........

You don't know. You shouldn't be wondering, either because this just leads to the spreading of rumors and problems. Why do you even need to know? If it is your friend who you are wondering about, then you should talk to her about it. If she decides not to tell you, you should respect this. What I hate most about society today is the need to labalize people by their outer appearance. Get to know a person. A girl could dress very er.. Well, let's just say they could dress in very revealing clothing or be very outgoing and they could still be a virgin. Just the opposite applies, too. My friend isn't a virgin and she is a very quiet, nice, and she dresses in dickies hoodies and boy pants. I mean, you can never really tell.

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i have trouble committing to relationships when they get serious. i think it is because i dont want a relationship where i see a girl every day. i like dating once in awhile but if it starts to get too intense i usually back off and need some time by myself. girls that i date dont seem to understand that i get a little overwhelmed. i am a bit shy at first until i get to know someone but this doesnt seem to be the problem with this. what do you think i should do to get over it?

I think that you are just experiencing new things with girls right now and you are a little uneasy when it comes to making a commitment. Maybe you've always been the guy/girl that has alot of friends of the opposite sex and you can't really tell when you should start or end a relationship. I think right now you are changing and you seem like a very independant person. Don't be afraid to trust people and you don't always need to tend for yourself. I hope that i've helped you a little, if not I appologize.

-Mander

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I have a friend. And I want to move the relationship further. How do I do this, while keeping the friendship intact? How do I do this at all, especially after some stuff she has said to me recently?

Well, it depends on what KIND of stuff she has said to you recently. Has she said bad things, things that may lead you to believe that she wants to move the relationship further or just the opposite? Well, in any case you should tell her how you feel. That's the best way to tackle something like this. Of course if you are more timid and you want to be a little less obvious put some hints out to her. Say things to her like "You are a very important person in my life and I just want to make sure that we stay friends, no matter what happens" Something along those lines. Well, thank you for your question and be sure to im me if you have any more or if i'm not online you can just post a question here! Best of luck to you and your friend,

-Mander Muffin

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I have a crush on this girl but I cant act on this crush til she is 18 what should I do.

Signed
Mighty Mouse

I think that it is very sweet you have this feeling for them and who knows- They may love you more than you will ever know. They may not even care about your age difference and still respect it. I think it's very admirable that you think about the whole legal thing or my ass will be in jail. You will get mighty far with her, mighty mouse.

-Mander

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My friend just spread a rumor saying i wanted to have sex with my cousin who everyone knows b/c he's my age. I want to just beat my "friend" up or cuss her out, but i know that's not the right thing to do. Anyone have any suggestions? and DONT tell me to just talk to her. I want to say something that'll make her wish she never messed with me!

Your right, you shouldn't talk to her. She obviously doesn't even have the right to be mentioned in the same breath as you if she goes to such tactics to spread a silly rumor that isn't true. But maybe confronting her about it withought appearing upset in any way shape or form is the best way. she'll soon be sorry she said that to you because will realize that she lost her friend to a very silly rumor that she felt the need to spread just so she could raise her popularity even if for 5 minutes. Sorry about the situation you are in right now and i'm always here to talk. If you would like to instant message me sometime with more of your problems, my screename is MaiShukketsuOmoi.

-huggles and good tidings,

Amanda

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Uh yes my pet keeps pestering me to have sex when I dont want to. I tell him know but I just wake up to him licking furiously at my testciles What should I do T~T

Oh, my goodness you goofball. If you were being honest about this ((which i highly doubt)) then you should get that pet outta the house. It will start to become a bigger problem if say, a friend sleeps over your house. He/she may think you are a sick sonamabish and will never talk/look at you the same way.

Lovingly yours, Mander Muffin
((Joer, you big meanie I love you so much. xD))

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I am shy. And bad with women. So being shy and bad with women is no fun. How can I become more open and expressive?

-Always and forever, completely and totally naked.

First step to being better with women, be more open and less man-like. Ya, I know it sounds stupid and you probably hear it all the time but most of us don't always want the guy who takes steroids and never crys. So, anyways what I guess i'm trying to say is that you definatley have to be more open to your feelings and just be crazy. If your generaly not an outgoing person the best way to go (as always) is to BE YOURSELF! Show no fear in being yourself TEH GURLS WILL LOVE YOU FOR THAT! I know I would.

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He doesn't listen to me and has violated my um.."personal space" if you will. He doesn't care about what I have to say and I don't like him...I don't know what to do.

Have you reminded that asshole who's body that is? Hmm? Don't let him cross a line that you feel uncomfterable with. Make sure you let him know exactly how you feel. Second off, why are you dating him if you don't like him? Maybe you did but after he did that to you, you became a little hesitant to trust him? I think you should break things off with him, personally before it comes to a point where you both end up hating each other. That almost happened to me and my ex. We are good buddies now and I can talk to him.

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