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Theres this guy. and hes my close friend and he tells me he likes me and thinks about me alot and loves my eyes.Then he goes out with my friend. But he apologized to me 7347 times and said hes goin out with her for the wrong reasons and that when we were with her the one time that all he could think was me and how he hurt me. And he still tells me he wants to be with me and that he likes me a lot and even told some of his friends he might break up with my "friend" n get with me. But then today on my advice page he asked me a question about her n how he still likes her n how he heard shes gonna break up with him n he doesnt want to ruin the relationship by doin it first if its not true. It hurt to read that and i dont want to ber mad at him because its not in my nature.idk if i should wait for him or should i jus move on?? please help when i ask him about it he says " ur paranoid i like u"
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That has happened to me before too, that exact thing.What I finally realized is that he didn't really like me. So I just moved on. I know it sounds hard honey, but my friends helped me through it. I hope things work out for the best.
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ok- if your the kind of person who likes to wait around whilke the guy you like is messin around with ur bsetfriend-shure wait--belive me when i say this-this guy doesnt kno wut he wants-either that or he wants sum1 to be there is sumthing happens to "him and her"-iv had this happene to me-and he mite not have been lien-he could have ment it-but maybe now he sees that he rlly likes the new grl he found-so maybe you should just move on-and go to a guy that doesnt make you wait while he goes out with your bestfriend
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If i were you i would move on...because hes with your friend for one thing and if your friend found out that he was breaking up with her for you then it might ruin your friendship, tell the guy he should have thought about wanting to be with you befor he went off to be with your friend, and if you dont move on just play hard to get but if i were you i would move on and find me someone better.
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I think that this guy is in between two girls right now and he isn't sure which way to go. How long have they been dating? Maybe he doesn't want to loose that bond with her. Maybe he is scared of making another commitment and maybe loosing something he never knew he had. I think you should leave him alone in a situation such as this. It will only lead to trouble with the girl and their will most likley be confrontation. I hope your problem gets solved. Good luck. ^_^
-ManderMuffin
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Stop wasting your time hoping this guy will come around. Hes a wannabe player. Plain and simple stop worrying about this zero and find yourself a hero!
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you need to confront him about it tell him that he needs to move on and just get find someone else that he could care about and trust.
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This guy sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do and doesn't know what he wants. You shouldn't waste your time with him. Did he know that was your advice column? How do you know for sure it was him? What advice did you give him? I would say stop messing with girls heads and figure out what you want, or don't date anyone until you grow up a little. That's my advice for him if you haven't already responded to him. You can quote me. I don't mind. If he wants to know if she wants to break up with him, he should ask her himself. If she's smart, she will. And you should stick to being friends or move on, if he keeps pushing for more. You can do better with someone who's honest, and knows what he wants.
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