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Question Posted Thursday December 9 2004, 5:56 pm

My friend just spread a rumor saying i wanted to have sex with my cousin who everyone knows b/c he's my age. I want to just beat my "friend" up or cuss her out, but i know that's not the right thing to do. Anyone have any suggestions? and DONT tell me to just talk to her. I want to say something that'll make her wish she never messed with me!

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Additional info, added Thursday December 9 2004, 6:41 pm:
I'd rather not do anything pyhsical and beat her up cuz i dont wanna ruin my reputation more then she already had. .

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nicegirl90247 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 7:48 pm:
Well, she must have some reason she wants to hurt you. Sit her down and ask her what is the problem and why does she want to hurt you. Real friends don't do things like that. If she refuses to acknowlege she did anything wrong, and insists that the rumor is true, get your cousin to talk to her too and tell her that if she doesn't tell everyone that the rumor was not true, that you both will together and it will make her look like a fool. Don't let her intimidate you. Be strong. I'm sure your cousin is just as embarrased as you about this disgusting rumor. If you have anything on her, you might threaten to bring it up if she doesn't stop the rumor herself. Good luck!

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ManderMuffin answered Thursday December 9 2004, 7:26 pm:
Your right, you shouldn't talk to her. She obviously doesn't even have the right to be mentioned in the same breath as you if she goes to such tactics to spread a silly rumor that isn't true. But maybe confronting her about it withought appearing upset in any way shape or form is the best way. she'll soon be sorry she said that to you because will realize that she lost her friend to a very silly rumor that she felt the need to spread just so she could raise her popularity even if for 5 minutes. Sorry about the situation you are in right now and i'm always here to talk. If you would like to instant message me sometime with more of your problems, my screename is MaiShukketsuOmoi.

-huggles and good tidings,

Amanda

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arlo answered Thursday December 9 2004, 7:12 pm:
if you really wanna put her in her place, say " you're just messing with me cuz you wanna have a 3some with me and my cousin to full-fill some sickass fantasy of yours you sick fuck. why don't you just go have sex with a horse you whore!" or you could not say that, i'm just in a bad mood and i thought it would be fun to say.

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kimispry45 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 7:00 pm:
I'd be the crap out of her thats a wrong thing to do..hope i helped

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jeffsbaby answered Thursday December 9 2004, 6:56 pm:
well i wouldnt take stuff like that it may not be mature but niether is she if i was u i would just walk up dont even say anything and hook the shit outta her .... just dont do it in school or w.e!
GOOD LUCK!!!!hope i helped

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday December 9 2004, 6:49 pm:
Well talk to your cousin and see if he has heard anything and what he thinks about it. And have him talk to them. And that sounds like a sick joke if you ask me and this friend of yours needs to mature

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Karen answered Thursday December 9 2004, 6:40 pm:
Just beat her up since you don't wanna talk to her! Even though violence is bad, just beat her up! You could also spread a nasty rumor about her to get back! If she has any embarrassing stories, tell everyone them! I know that's bad but what she told everyone about you was worse! You gotta let her get the fact that you don't want her spreading rumors that aren't true! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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MiSz_LaDii_L answered Thursday December 9 2004, 6:38 pm:
grl...if i was you then i would have beat her ass down for talkin crap about stuff dat she dont know anything bout i know ppl say violence aint the answer but just let her know what comes around go around...karma is a b****!!! but just dont step down to her level she get what coming to her trust!!

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happychicka answered Thursday December 9 2004, 6:28 pm:
just say that she underestimated you and that the rumor was just plain mean and nasty and full of crap that wasnt true so hope i helped
*happychicka*

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