Question Posted Saturday December 11 2004, 9:07 am
okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!!
Ok..fess up..but it may be that the cousin has said something..send a picture...have a friend take one..chin slightly up, flattering clothes good makeup..and tell him..that you just did not want to disappoint him..but you could not do this anymore...
did he send a picture to you?? If not he may not be the cover boy either(most guys in newspaper ads like about their looks too!)
so fess u..find a really good picture of you..and cross your fingers....have faith...ok..am totally hoping this all works out.
Ps lots of people do what you do..does not make it right..but really undertandable...
DemonicScott answered Saturday December 11 2004, 9:43 am: All right, well, the first thing I would do is send a real picture of myself. If you think he'd like you for you, he would appreciate you. Remember, its beauty thats on the inside that counts. If he cant appreicate you for you, then he isnt worth it. Anyways, I hope this helped in some way, and I wish you good luck with you and this man! :) [ DemonicScott's advice column | Ask DemonicScott A Question ]
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