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There is a little space in between my AC and the window frame I didn't notice until recently... I think spiders got in through there and hatched baby spiders in here. In the past 3 days I've killed about 9 spiders and they all look the same. Is there some kind of spray or something I can buy to spray in my room to kill these spiders? I've found out I'm scared of spiders so I can't handle killing them every night until they're all gone, I need something to kill them NOW. I know they make can of spray to set off to kill fleas and stuff, but do they make something like that to kill spiders?
I hate spiders. I'm a total arachnaphobic, lol. I freak out around spiders. Regular bug spray kills spiders. Just buy a can of that and keep it in your room and spray it lightly on the spiders and in that little area you think they're coming through (and any other little areas similar to that one). Good luck!
right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx
Xanga is just an online journal where you can write things. You can go to other peoples xanga's and comment on their journals and "subscribe" to them, meaning you add them to a list of "favorite journals" I guess you could say. http://www.xanga.com/ViNTAGED_SNAPSHOTS click there for an example.
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the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.
If you don't want to go out with this guy. I guess you should call him up and tell him it was a dare and you shouldn't have done it and apologise.
ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms
Well, it depends how much stuff you're getting for doing that. If you're getting a lot of new things just for cleaning your room, then (personally) yes, I think you're semi-spoiled. If you have to do this stuff all week and you do and then you get just a few things that you've been wanting, then no... you're parents think that you've earned it and you deserve it... and if you DON'T do the things you have to-you won't get the things you want. I don't think thats spoiled.
I have to admit, I'm a huge wuss and I can't drink any hard alcohol straight. I always have to mix it with soda or something. Is there any way to make drinking alcohol straight easier or more tolerable?
If you're under 21 (which most likely you are), I'd say wait a few years... then you can worry about it.
do guys only go for skinny girls or do they go for average girls too?
All guys are different and like different types of girls. I think the personality counts for some guys as well. As Stephen Coletti (Laguna Beach: the Real Orange County) once said "Theres definately a fine line between hott skinny and unnatractively skinny.". lol. I don't think very much guys like where the bones are popping out... I hope I helped.
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okay 2 yrs ago a boy moved to cali that i really liked and hes moving back!! i get to see him on wed. but i have changed and so has everything else so what do i do?
p.s i stil like him and iwant him to like me too!
13/f
Just be yourself! Two years ago you were still a kid and now you're a young teen, so of course things changed. I'm sure he's different too in some ways. Just act normal and get to know him again. See if he's your type still. If so, go for it.
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How do you put a picture on myspace as a comment thingy to someone else? Do you know what I mean? I can't really explain it...
Try . Thats usually the html code for posting an image. Good luck!
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hi. my dad is a ass hole. he yells at me and i can never do any thing right. how can i tell him that i do not want to work with him.
If you're saying that you currently work a paying job with him and you want to quit, just tell him that you would rather find a new job, therefore you want to quit. Or just tell him that it wasn't what you expected it to be and you don't want to work with him anymore. Good luck!
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School is coming up soon, and im not sure where to shop for my school clothes every year i go to the mall and shop but i want something different..
You can try online shopping. Places like http://www.littleblossom.com http://www.alloy.com etc. There are tons of places you can try online. You can try Kohls, Target, and other little boutiques in your area. Good luck & have fun.
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If i run for 30 minutes every day on a tred mill, how much might i lose by christmas?
also, does running on a tred mill give the same results of regular running?
Sure you might run everyday, but a lot of it has to do with what you're eating, etc. If you're running & eating healthy, then yea, you'll lose weight. But if you have poor eating habits, runnings good... but you won't lose weight. Stick to exercising, and eating right and you'll lose weight. I can't tell you how much, but you will lose some. I run the treadmill too (a mile a day), and I'm not sure if it gives you the same results. I imagine so, since you're body is moving at least. Hope I helped and good luck with losing weight!
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anybody know some cute icon sites? like xangas? please tell me! thanks
You can try my icon site. Theres not that many there, but I'm adding some everyday. http://www.xanga.com/xGNARLY_iCONS.
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okay so im going to the movies wiht this guy i met through a friend(i guess you can say) on the internet ... he seems so swwet and nice..but i really want him to notice me when i see him....what are some ways for him to notice me?
Well if its just you two, I'm sure he'll notice you, lol. Just be yourself and talk to him & have fun!!
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okay. so i like this guy. he just happens to be my best friend. the other night, my friend ( ally ) got on my screen name ( i was there too ) and told him that i thought he was hott. and then she was like do you think im hott? *remember, she was pretending to be me and wouldnt let me say anything to him...* he responded by saying, i would go out with you. it was kind of a shocker. no, it was a shocker. because 01-hes my best friend. and 02-no guys ever want to go out with me. or even consider it. and so i was kind of dazed for a little while. and then, i told him that ally said all of it. but he seemed like dissapointed that it wasnt me. today i was going to tell him that i actually do like him & all, but i never got the chance. its just akward. but i dont want our friendship to be ruined by it if we date. so i just want to know other peoples points of view. please!!
I think you should tell him, and you should go for it. If he's your best friend, you guys obviously enjoy eachother's company. And you like him, and he said that he likes you (or that he'd go out with you). I don't think a friendship can get ruined by just one date (well, a lot would have to go down that night, but I think everything would be fine). Ask him if he wants to hang out soon and just tell him how you feel. Tell him that whatever Ally said, is what you think. Good luck with whatever happens!
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ok i have heard that if you put lemon juice in your hair and then go outside tha the sun makes the lemon juice make your hair lighter. is it true, and if not, what are some things that really do work. i dont want to color my hair, just make it lighter
I've never tried the lemon thing, but I've heard a lot about it, and thats what people say--if you put it in and then go into the sun, it makes it lighter. But I have tried the product "Sun-in". It works good and lightens your hair. You don't even need to wait until its sunny. You can do it at 10 at night! All you need is a blow dryer. You take your damp hair and spray Sun-in in and blowdry it. You might have to do it one day (half a bottle), and then use the rest of the bottle the next day. Then theres some knock-off products of Sun-in, like "A touch of Sun", etc. ♥ Please rate.
ok well my friend told me this:if your around alot of poeple who are on there periods, then your body reacts and thinks that its supose to be to and you have your period, even if its not the right time. is that true or what?
I think I read that in a magazine a few years ago. But I *think* its quite true. Its because, since you're around those people often, you're doing the same things as them. If you walk to a lot of places, both or all of you are all walking at the same time and doing the same amount of activity. So you'll get your periods around the same time. When I hung out with my one friend all the time, we got our periods close to the same time, since we were doing the same kind of stuff. So yes, I think its true.
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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss
If I looked like you and I didn't know what to wear. I'd probably just pick a pair of fitted jeans, a fitted tee (plain or vintage--like an old advertisement shirt). And maybe a pair of old school vans? Maybe the slip on kind, in a color that matches your shirt. For your hair, you could leave it down, or scrunch it up and then put it in a messy bun. And just do you normal makeup routine. If you don't usually wear makeup, maybe wear some mascera, eyeliner & lipgloss. Try to stay away from trying to be something your not. If anything, just dress casual... Hope I helped!
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My birthday is coming up soon and I was just wondering if anybody had any ideas on what we could do for fun...I'm turning 14 if that helps at all!! =) I rate for good ideas!! =)
signed,
Birthday Girl
Just have fun chilling with your friends. When will you open presents, eat cake & stuff (if you're doing that)? If you haven't figured that out yet, maybe do that back at your house. Also, listen to music, have snacks out, etc. Hope I helped & happy birthday!
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ok so sometimes at night i cant sleep and im up and i get the munchies i know its not healthy to eat junkie foods especially after like 5 o clock ive tried like nectarines and fruit but it actually leaves an empty feeling in my stomach any ideas? thanks bunches!
Its good that you've tried fruit & sometimes its hard to not eat munchies at night. Sometimes though, you have to be strong. Keep with the fruit and maybe tell yourself, "if i don't eat anything right now, I'll treat myself tomorrow to something". It doesn't have to be edible. Hope I helped!
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hello i was also wondering how to make things on my column bold , italic, underlined and stuch? and how do i make something my background? THX
bold: < b > blah blah blah < / b >*
italic: < i > blah blah blah < / i >*
underlined: < u > blah blah blah < / u >*
and for backgrounds, theres a place under "column settings" where you put the code for your background.
*Make sure there aren't any spaces in between anything.
Hope I helped!
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