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hey. my name is christina. cool people call me X. so can you. kelly is my best friend. you can see her column on KELLY ELIZABETH i absolutely love basketball, shopping, and friends. stupid question=stupid answer. go ahead, ask me anything! dont be shy!

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how do you french braid?

hey. french braids are amazing and they really arent that hard to do once you get the hang of it... here are some sites to help you::

http://home.columbus.rr.com/dreamweavers/braids/french.htm



http://www.dreamweaverbraiding.com/braids/self_french.htm

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what do you all think about guys wearing bras.

one other question why do women always say bras are a pain to wear. I don't see why.

hey. guys wearing bras would be weird, funny in my opinion. you dont see any male lingerie models. but if one is self consious, they should talk to a parent or a doctor. they are a pain to wear... just trust me. they are uncomfortale sometimes and the underwire is a pain (they sweak sometimes ;P) you have to wash them a lot, and they show through shirts. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ive heard a lot of reference to love handles on advicnators.

what are "love handles"?

hey. lets just say that love handles arent really a good thing. it is when excess fat hangs around your waist. they are usually found when pants are too tight. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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is lake water bad for acne?

hey. i dont think that lake water is bad for you acne. you just want to make sure that you skin doesnt get too dried out in the sun. wear a waterproof sunscreen and make sure to moisturize! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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my bestfriends boyfriend is an ok guy i actually used to have a crush on him like a year ago but eversince theve been going out she never has time for me when shes over my house shell talk 2 him on the phone it gets annoying wat should i do HELP!!!

hey. you should talk to your friend if you have a problem with how she is acting. but you have to think to yourself, is this her first boyfriend. she may have liked im a lot! but i know that is no reason to abandon your best friend. i would tell her that she doesnt have to give up you or the boyfriend, she just has to remember who came first. :) you can even set some rules like no talking to her boyfriend while she is at YOUR house. hope everything turns out okay. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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how do you know if a boy is flirting with you?

hey. you can tell if guys are flirting with you when they laugh at your jokes and seem to like to be near you. they might try to touch you a bit, but it wouldnt be that much. they would compliment you and treat you nicely. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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can blowdrying your hair make your hair lighter?
thanks

hey. when i blow dry my hair it always looks a bit blonder. not that much though. i found this product called SUN IN and you can spray it in your slightly damp hair and blow dry on a meduim heat. it costs like 6 bucks and i got mine at wal-mart after a few times your hair should become lighter. just make sure you dont put in too much at one time because it will turn orange. you can just follow the directions on the back. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok this is kinda gross but yesterday when i got home from school i had to go to the bathroom really bad and i was kinda constipated.. and then when i wiped there was really little blood..but then when i went to sleep, on my underwear was a lot of brown..so idk if it's my period or what ? it didnt really look like it, idk though
could it of been my period or no?
14/f

hey. congradulations you got your period! see if this continues to happen. but you can always ask a parent to make sure. :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Are big heads unattractive on girls? Mine is kinda big, and I don't fit into many hats. I'm really self concious about it.

hey. I HAVE A BIG HEAD TOO! haha. i used to have a problem with the size of my head, but i learned to get over it. i just say that my head is full of brain. ;) you just have to realize that no one is perfect and you cant fix everything. that is how you were made. about the hat problem, there are different sizes of hats. if you cant find on that fits you, you might want to try looking on the internet. stay positive. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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okay you know how in proactive there are like 3 bottles, one for the face wash, one for the toner and one for the lotion..

okay well the problem is that i dont have enough money to buy proactive so could someone give me either a good face wash, a good toner, or a good lotion for ACNE ..it would be plenty of helpful and ill rate 5's for anyone that trys

oh and also for each product i dont want it to be too pricey, like under $10 for each bottle

hey. the best stuff that i have used is clearsil daily face wash. it works great and it doesnt cost too much, you can get it at any local drug store. it is usually between 3-7 dollars, depends on what product you use. if you have acne, you want to make sure that you dont wash it too much because it will dry your skin out and make it worse. and be sure that you be patient for results. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok so i was wondering.
when you get fingered.
do guys want you to have hair down there
cause like... if you do...
then are they gonna go to all there
friends and be like BUSHHH
or if you dont then are they gonna
be like SHE SHAVED IT ALL OFFF!! hahaha


so yeah i was just wondering what
you think guys prefere. please help??
thank you.

umm.. hey. i dont really know what they prefer. my best advice would be too ask a parent. i know it maybe embarassing, but it would be the best thing to do... even if you dont want to.. it can never hurt to do what you think is best. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok ive liked this girl for ever and shes like stoped talking to me then she started again but the i started likeing her like alot alot and I told her then she started acting alot defferent she like stoped talking and stuff liek that.I still like her alot and dont know what i should do like make myself stop likeing her or what?

ty and P.s i know you lol

and another p.s this is my semi revised 1 i might make another ima horible typer lol =p

oh aha okay. hey. i think that you should just go on liking her. its okay for you to feel that way. is the girl that you like going out with someone right now? if so, maybe that is why she isnt talking to you. you can also go up to her and maybe apologize to her for maybe freaking her out a bit. she will forgive you. you can start small talking with her and maybe she will warm up to you. you can take it from there. well i hope everything turns out okay... if you have anymore questions, feel free to ask! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
P.S. who is this?

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Holy moly.. Christina is the shizz...what should I do?

xD

hey. you should rejoice because maggie is the shizziest!! ♥ ♥ ♥

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I'm taking my dog to get put down on Friday. She has cancer and is really sick. I've had her for 10 years and it's going to be really devastating. I don't know how I'm going to handle it. Has anyone else had a pet put down, how did you get over it? What's it going to feel like, no one close to me has ever died before!

hey. this same thing happened to me too. my 15 year old dog dog suddenly died when i was at school in the 2nd grade. when i can home i found out and i started balling. the same thing will happen you you. you will probally cry a lot, but after a few days you will get over it. what i would do right now is to take lots of pictures of him right now and maybe make a photo album so you can remember him. i know it may be hard to let go, but your dog has to be put down for a reason. she cant go on living in pain. it will be the best thing for her. hope everything is okay and i hope this helped!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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i need help!!!!!it was just recently my birthday and my boyfriend got me the most beautiful gift. soon it will be his birthday and im not sure on what to get him because im not really sure what a good gift for a guy would be. i love him so much and i just want it to be perfect. any ideas? they are very much appreciated.

hey. i always have trouble getting people gifts. i just never know what they want! the best place to start out with is buying him something that he likes. if he is in to sports... buy him a new football or a jersey of his favorite player. gift cards are also a great idea. dont be embarassed, but you can also ask his mom or dad what they think that he will like. they may have a few ideas. also, you can never go wrong with candy!;) dont be afraid to be creative and try new gifts. hope this helps :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok so here is my problem. i'm not so good at talking to guys. well, scratch that. SOME guys. most guys i can just talk to like normal and laugh with, like i'm having a coversation with my brother. but other guys, cute ones in particular, i really have no idea how to talk to and i always seem to blush or stutter when i try to talk to them. it's really annoying and i don't know why i can't talk to them. my crush is one of the people i can't talk to. any advice?

hey. i have the exact same problem ;). but what i found that works is if you talk to them in a natural way. i know it may be scary... but you just have to be yourself. if you talk to them with the impression that you are scared or intimidated by them, then they may feel like you dont connect with eachother. you want to start of with small talk, like talk about something that you both are interested in like sports. you can make your way up from there. you can maybe get your crushes screen name and start talking to him them. but dont start off too strong until they know you better, you dont want to scare anyone off ;). remember, if you are comfortable talking with them then guys will be comfortable talking with you!! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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is there a good way to slim your thighs?
like i know that running is good, but i've been doing that && i havent been seeing much of a result.

is there any good ways to do it && how long should it take?

hey. if you want to slim down your thighs, it first depends on if you have fatter thighs and you want to make them thinner or if you have very muscular thighs and you want to make them slimmer. here are a few ways on how to make your legs skinnier: take an aerobics class (its a great way to get your legs in shape), jump rope 3-4 times a week for 10 minutes, swimming (on your back just using your legs), fast walks 20-30 mins each 3-4 times a week, and also you can ride your bike standing up to increase leg movement. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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i have short hair about up to the end of my neck. and it's black,and incase this helps i'm african american. i was just wondering what color highlights i should get. and i was just also wondering if higlights damage your hair? please be honest b/c i don't want my hair 2 break down for nothing.thanks in advance

hey. i dont think that highlighting your hair would damage it all that much... it is just adding a bit of color. since your hair is dark, i would stay away from blonde highlights! i would go for some dark, rich browns, or you can even go to mahogany. that would look but in my opinion!! :) about the damage again, your hair wont really be damaged unless you consistantly straighen, blowdry, and color it, you should be fine! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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I don't know the title of the song that they play during that mastercard the commercial!

I think some of the words are like "fifteen miles for a moment and I can't help..." I don't know the rest and i don't know the TITLE!!

hey. the song is called 100 years. it is by FIVE FOR FIGHTING. its a great song! i love it! ♥ ♥ ♥

I'm 15 for a moment
Caught in between 10 and 20
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are

I'm 22 for a moment
And she feels better than ever
And we're on fire
Making our way back from Mars

15… there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to lose
15…there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live…

I'm 33 for a moment
Still the man but you see I'm a they
A kid on the way
A family on my mind

I'm 45 for a moment
The sea is high
And I'm heading into a crisis
Chasing the years of my life

15… there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to lose yourself
Within a morning star

15… I'm all right with you
15… there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live…

Half time goes by
Suddenly you’re wise
Another blink of an eye
67 is gone
The sun is getting high
We're moving on...

I'm 99 for a moment
Time for just another moment
And I'm just dreaming
Counting the ways to where you are

15… there's still time for you
22… I feel her too
33… you’re on your way
Every Day's a new Day

15… there's still time for you
Time to buy and time to choose
Hey 15… there's never a wish better than this
When you only got 100 years to live

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16/f

i REALLY REALLY like this boy. hes soo cute and nice. i talk to him online kind of alot but we never really talk in school. hes a year older so i dont have any classes with him. and when we pass each other in the halls we never say hi. he says that hes kinda shy when it comes to talking to girls and im the same way when it comes to guys. i want to invite him to the movies but i dont want him to think that im being too forward cause i dont know how he feels about me. and i dont want to invite more friends cause i want to it to be just me and him. but i want to start talking to him in school too. so what do i do?

hey. it seems like the best thing for you to do right now is to make the first move. i dont think that you will give the wrong impression if you ask him to the movies or something. if you start to have a conversation with him, he will start to warm up to you. you should start talking to him in school too so you guys can get to know eachother better! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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