i REALLY REALLY like this boy. hes soo cute and nice. i talk to him online kind of alot but we never really talk in school. hes a year older so i dont have any classes with him. and when we pass each other in the halls we never say hi. he says that hes kinda shy when it comes to talking to girls and im the same way when it comes to guys. i want to invite him to the movies but i dont want him to think that im being too forward cause i dont know how he feels about me. and i dont want to invite more friends cause i want to it to be just me and him. but i want to start talking to him in school too. so what do i do?
herbivore answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:17 pm: hey. it seems like the best thing for you to do right now is to make the first move. i dont think that you will give the wrong impression if you ask him to the movies or something. if you start to have a conversation with him, he will start to warm up to you. you should start talking to him in school too so you guys can get to know eachother better! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥ [ herbivore's advice column | Ask herbivore A Question ]
coconutcatastrophe answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:07 pm: wow i know how you feel i was in this exact same situation once..well i would just be really outgoing most guys like outgoing s because well..they're fun to be around :] since you said you never talk to him in the halls you can talk to him online about hanging out then you should let him know that you've never talked in school before and maybe once you start talking to him, he'll realize how outgoing you are and he'll feel more comfortable talking back to you! good luck hope i helped! ♥ [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Monday May 1 2006, 6:00 pm: You should say something like "You know what I just realized? We've NEVER talked at school before. Tomorrow, I'm gonna say hi to you & you should say hi back, lol". Since you guys often pass eachother in the halls you should get into the habit of saying hi to eachother. The both of you are shy and the internet is a good way of communication in that case. If you tell him online that you'll say hi to him ahead of time he'll be expecting it and you'll have no other choice but to do so, lol.
As for asking him to the movies, try and get into the habit of saying hi to him and maybe strike up a conversation with him during lunch or something. Then ask him if he wants to hang out. Hopefully I helped.
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