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i got 3 simples wierd questions im 14/M
1:What is an averge penius size ? when ur an adult of i dunno
2:when i make out with girls i heard they like to get their lips bite? buh i dont know exactly how and where i should? and if i should kiss their necks?
3:i had tons of changes to have sex buh i never want to cuh i mscared if the condoms pops and its such an urger what should i do !?
1. 4-6 inches
2. nibble at there lip, if they look weirded out then stop cause you might be actually biting them or they just don't like it. Kissing a girls neck in my opinion, is very nice. Go for it.
3. Buy good condoms that won't slip off, break, etc. I'm pretty sure condom companies make good ones, but just buy a brand name condom (good quality). If your having sex with a condom and still worried then just pull out before you finish just incase.
Hope this helped
How long does it take to lose 3,500 calories, or 1 pound, by running?
http://www.healthstatus.com/cbc.html
You can find out there. I don't think anyone can give you a for-sure answer because weight and age is a factor too.
ok theres this guy i just met from fresh start. and he's IMed me alot today. i really dont know him that well. but he flirts with me a lot. and i have to admit it kinda scares me because i dont really know him, and he comes on kinda strong. and he wants to hang out somtime. do you think i should?
If you want to.. I don't know who he is or what hes like so I couldn't tell you yes or no. But do you think hes cute, or a good person? Do you want to know what hes like? Even if you don't want him you can always make a new friend. I would hang out with him because you never know, he could be your future boyfriend or a good friend. I say go ahead.
okay so im like getting discharge and its like brown do you know whta it is? kthanks
If you just had your period its probably just like, left over blood. Ew that sounds nasty. Or it's a sign your period is coming soon. It's normal though.
I'm going on vacation in Chicago in a couple weeks with my parents. What are some good places to vist, shop, etc? I'm only 15, so no bars or anything like that, haha. I don't just want a Googled list, though. From personal experience, what was best? Like if you visited, or live there.
thank you in advance! =]
Hm Chicago is great. I realllyyyyy disagree with the person who answered before me. You can check out the Shed Aquarium (biggest indoor aquarium in the U.S), the Field Museum, the Museum of Science and Industry, Navy Pier, or just go shop around. I suggest atleast one of those places. I always love the museums. The Shed is really cool too if you like fish and animals and stuff. There are boat rides at Navy Pier and a bunch of other stuff. I strongly suggest getting a bite to eat out there too. Uno's has amazing pizza my mom says (a Chicago-in). I hear they created the deep dish pizza. And even if it's not Uno's, go get Chicago pizza anyways. They say the farther from Chicago the worse the pizza =). Theres so much to do down there Im 100% sure you'll find something to do. Oh yeah, The Sears Tower! Even go by the beach and go for a bike ride or just walk on around. Hope this helped!
im about 135 lbs. 5'9"/f. i want to lose a few pounds, so lately ive been jogging about 2 miles each morning and eating 1000-1200 calories, but im not losing weight. what gives? any tips to lose some weight?
You are at good weight and probably don't need to loose a pound. But running 2 miles a day will help. It won't take a day or two to loose lbs because running will give you muscle. I used to run a mile a day and I didn't loose lbs, but now I am not as active and if i eat right I loose a pound. Though you only eating 1000-1200 cal.'s a day make sure your eating the good caloires. Healthy stuff that can help keep off weight and keep you .. healthy of course.
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im babysitting an 11 year old boy and a 7 year old boy tonight with my brother (who is 15).
do you have any ideas on what they would want to do for fun? i havent had any experience with that age group yet, so im not very familiar..
and im going to be babysitting them from 8:30 pm to about midnight. do you have any ideas on cost? these people are pretty good friends of my mom, if that helps.
thanks in advance!
I'd think you might get around 30 dollars. If they are family friends they might give more. 3 1/2 hours and 30 dollars.. that seems right?
I haven't baby sat boys of that age, but my brother isn't too far from 11. Try video games. Suggest if they'd like to play. Maybe bring any video games you have over and tell them to play with you and your brother. They're pretty active too so maybe you can play hide and seek tag, flash light tag, anything. Be careful though, you don't want anyone to get hurt. I bet they'd love to eat cookies, so maybe try bring some or maybe you can make a batch with them (if you know how and if its allowed). Legos! They could love those. Do pretty much whatever they want haha. Good luck!!
i need a new sn and like i want sometihng that hs to do with a song. so can you help me? :]
Sure but I have no idea what songs, music, or style sn you want. So you'll have to i.m me so I can help you out more.
Crackthesky92- talk to me there.
ok so this guy knows i like him, and he told me he likes me back. and ive been so happy. but hes got a girlfriend. i kinda hurts because hes told me that he likes me and that im fun to be around, but hes still going out with her. should i just be happy that he likes me and not worry for now and hope they break up?
I would ask him about it. Be like "hey you said you liked me and I like you back but you have a girlfriend and I don't know what would happen?". You probably ask if hes going to break up with her, is he just messing with me, whats the deal? Go ahead and be happy he likes you, but don't over do it because you never know if he's going to break up with her or not. So just ask him, and if you don't want to ask him, hold on to your seat because you don't know what'll happen for sure. Hope this helped
Lately, I've been so aslkaalkn about everything. All of my friends have been telling me that I'm changing, and not the good kind. I've been really.. depressed, I guess you could say. I've basically given up on boys, because every time I try something out, it ends up going horribly wrong, and I do some pretty stupid things in response to it. I've been wanting to lose a lot of weight, but I don't really know how to get started. Do you know of any like, small exercise routines I could do every day, to get me started? I honestly think I have something wrong with me, like I might be "clinically depressed". I don't know what to do about it. I can't talk to my friends, because I'm afraid they're going to think of me differently. And I CAN NOT talk to my parents.. They would be so disappointed in me, even more so than they already are, if that's at all possible.
I don't really know what the point of this is, but do you have any suggestions for cheering up, or getting better? I can't stand being like this much longer..
I have alot the same situation as you.. or I did have that situation. About loosing weigh..
You've got to eat right first. Cut out fast foods, sweets, pop, junk food. When you get going on a good eating plan it is okay to have a scoop of ice creme or a slice of cake once and a while.. just make sure its a serving size (not huge- dont over eat your sweets). A scoop of icecreme should be around the size of a tennis ball. If you can cut out that crap then thats a big step already. Snack less- 3 meals a day with 2 snacks inbetween. How I eat is (an example)..
Breakfast- between 7:30-9:30 a.m
-2 over easy eggs with toast and jam, one cup of skim or 1% reduced milk.. or
- cup or cereal (wheaties, total, special k, etc), skim milk, frest fruit or veggies
snack- between breakfast and lunch
- hand full of carrots or other fruits or veggies
lunch- between 12:30-2:30
- Progresso Chicken Noodle soup with whole wheat crackers... or
- turky sandwich with a little mayo and some fruits or veggies
snack- between lunch and dinner
dinner- anything that is healthy pretty much. Salmon is really good. Just make sure not to over eat mostly.
For work outs.. try jogging a mile a day. Just find a route around your neiborhood that is a mile (have your mom drive the route to see how long it is) and run that in the morning, night, whenever. If your not up for that, try walking more. Walk to places with friends, walk around, walk your dog? Walk more.. it's great for you. Plus, power walking burns as much calories as jogging I heard. Also bike riding! When im sitting around the house feeling lazy I get on the ground and do crunches. I seriously had the "pregnant" stomach look and after doing 50-100 crunches a day it was gone after a month or two. For exercises go here...
http://www.self.com/fitness/
Watch some videos and read up on stuff.
http://health.yahoo.com/topic/weightloss/overview/article/prevention/17888;_ylt=AmLOwDPfUIHXfgbhOkj6fBTOtMUF
Read that! It's super good.
Now your depression problem. You should be able to talk to your friends. If not, what kind of friends are they. Your having problems.. they SHOULD listen. Espically if they say your changing and might be worried about you. Don't worry about parents.. I honestly don't think anyone can talk to their parents. For cheering up.. just find stuff that makes you happy. When Im at cheerleading I don't think about things that upset me.. they don't cross my mind at all and it's because im doing something that makes me happy. Find something like that, whether its cooking, hanging out with friends, exercising, whatever. That should keep your mind off stuff. Also, try not being alone. For me when I am alone alot I get really sad and depressed. But when Im with people I care about like my friends they do/say stuff I can't help but laugh at. And of course it cheers me up. I really, reallyyy hope this helped. If you need someone to talk to im here. I will for sure listen to anything you need to talk about.
-katie
i like this guy. we flirt alot. like the other day we were at dellwood park and he was teaching me how to skateboard, and i was afraid to go down this hill thing, so he held my hands and ran down it with me. all my friends say it seems like he really likes me. he has a girlfriend. but he flirts with me a lot. so im not sure what to do exactly. i would tell him i like him but if he does have a girlfriend it would feel weird for me. help please
Try having someone else tell him. Like.. have a friend tell him "do you like so-and-so because I think she likes you". If he knows you like him he might A.) get closer to you if he likes you back, flirting more, etc B.) back off because he knows he has a girlfriend and he really likes her... or C.) not change at all (the worst choice). You don't want to get a bad reputation of a whore or slut because you stold someones boyfriend.. so let him come to you if he really wants to. Hope this helps
alright. so like i have never had a boyfriend before and im 12 years old. i really like this kid but i think its gay when like the girl asks the guy out? idno its just me. i go to taft. like guys have asked me out before, but i just didnt like them. am i like weird or something for not going out with anybody before? like i dont know. thanks alot :)
It's not weird at all. You shouldn't go out with someone just to say you've gone out with someone.. thats using them and it's bad espically if you don't even care about them. Don't worry if you haven't have a boyfriend because eventually you will find someone you like enough to go out with. I think it's normal for a girl to ask out a guy. Some people think its weird but I don't. Its just an opinion. Hope this helped
hey katie,
i live in lp and you do know me =). i met this guys at fresh start, and i really like him. but he has a girlfriend. i like him a lot. do you know how to win a guy over?
thanks
Well make sure he might like you back because if you try flirting it might not work if he really likes his girlfriend. Just be fun, yourself (of course), and talk to him. Don't dumb yourself down or that kind of flirting like, "omg haha your hilarous omg cutie" cause sometimes thats just annoying.. but some guys might lke that? Flirt like bump into him, nudge him, smile, laugh, etc. But only if you think you have a chane. Hope this helped.. good luckk =)
sorry, i know people ask this a lot. but my and this guy like each other.. and we'll probably end up doing stuff together. do you personally think that its better to shave down there? or just trim.. or what. i just dont want a weird reaction or anything. what would they think is normal and okay?
thanks
Most guys like it trimmed or shaved. It's nicer and probably more attractive to them. I think it's better to shave down there. And I'm sure your guy will think it is great hah. =)
r you supposed to shave ur vagina?
If you want to. Its normal to shave, its normal not to shave. It depends on the person.
so, i think this girl katie is awesome. haha ily katie
Haha, =)
Hey kt,
There is this girl I like and she likes me, but I dont want to go out with her because im moving in a few weeks to colorado, yeah its me, so should I be with her for the time I have here or what?
Thanks kt
Why not? I mean.. if you might never see her again you should go for it right? But you'll just have to make sure that you can let go, and get over it when your gone. If you can then I say go ahead.
so i think this girl katie is really pretty=]
ily
=) oh man you always make me smile
what is the healthiest breakfast that also helps control weight?
Eggs are really good. I hear they keep you full and they're just super healthy. Try making an omlette or scrambled eggs.
2 eggs, sliced cheese (if you want any), ham/canadian bacon/turky, peppers, tomatos.. really you can make scrambled eggs with anything.
If you want the classic sunny side up eggs, make 2 for yourself and have it with toast and jam, and a cup of milk or OJ. hope this helped =)
i need major advice. i really like this one kid. hes one of my best friends and we get along really good. but he has a girlfriend. and today we were flirting alot and stuff. but my 3 of my friends and 2 of his all hunt out today. and my one friend was all over him. i mean like jumping on his back in the pool and everything. and my other friend was complaing how this one kid liked her and then was sitting on his lap. and its just i like him so much and im not sure if he knows. and now that my supposedly good friend is all over him i dont know what to think. cause he was flirting with her to. katie i really need help!
First, don't be suprised that your friend was all over him because girls do that a lot. Does she know that you like him? If she doesn't then you can't blame her because she never knew. And imagin if you were her and you really liked a guy, would you go for him? You can't blame people for going for something they want, ya know. Put yourself in there shoes first. The only reasonable way to be mad if she knew you liked him, said she would stay away, and then lied and was over him. Now the guy situation... try talking to him. Your best friends, ask who he likes. If thats to hard, scary, whatever, ask a friend to talk to him about it. Also, to find out who he might like, see who he is most intrested in. If he acts the same around both girls he might not even care abuot them and they can just be a piece of ass. See if he trys to be around them or if he just sits there when they go for him. Hope this helped a little. I.m me if you need too!