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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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I need advice!!! I am really really impatient about like everything!!!! How can I learn to be more patient in situations like waiting for something I am excited for or even just waiting like 20 minutes for something? Thank you!!
keep your mind busy on something else. think about what movies you want to see, where you and your friends should hang out next and plan sleepovers, if you have a crush think about them and just keep your mind busy on something interesting. you could also watch tv or read a book or magazine to stay occupied while you wait.
my dad's offering to buy me a used car. what are some cute cars that aren't too awfully expensive?
bugs/beetle (they are called different things) are really cute and pretty cheap. maybe as low as 5 grand? if you havent seen one heres what it look like.. http://images.quizilla.com/J/JU/JUI/juicycouture/1137627560_icturesbug.JPG
hey i just started musical theater and i dont know anyone else whos doig it...and im soo terrifyed.i wanted to do musical theater cause its my passion...i love it but im so afraid that no one will like me or somthing..how can i get rid of this fear?
you should atleast know one or two kids doing it and if you dont then you can always make new friends. why wouldnt they like you? just stay confident and be yourself and go up to new people and say hi im ___ whats your name and become friendly with them. making friends is easy and as long as your not mean to them theres no reason why they wouldnt like you. good luck
at school everyone call me egghead because of my head shape but i dont like it i have told the them to stop but they dont listen
from egghead
when they call you an egghead laugh about it and make a joke about it so they have nothing to laugh about. if they say "ew your an egghead" say "yeah my head is so oval shaped on easter my baby cousin thought it was a real egg and tried to paint it" if you make a joke about yourself they have nothing to laugh about and they will leave you alone!! or you could always just laugh when they make fun of your head and say haha oh my gosh your so funny. just make them know it doesnt bother you and they will walk away.
i like a guy so so so so so much but im afraid to go out with him because ive never kissed a guy before and im really freacked out by it and dont know what to do please help! thanks
aww you should go out with him.
kissing is nothing to be afraid of and it will happen when the time is right and it will just happen. its nothing to be scared of.
you will regret it if you dont go out with him. you seem to like him soo much.
me and my boyfreind were in the bathtub both with no clothing what so ever on
and i think he cumed
can it swim up and get you pregnant if we didnt have sex
but we were close to eachothers private areas?
no theres no way sperm could get through water you are not pregnant. =)
so i have this cool guy friend. he has a girlfriend, BUT he majorly flirts with me. when he does, his gf isn't around. he's not a cheater or anything bad like that. but it seems like its not a very good thing. does it seem bad to you? should i tell him something? i'm not sure. i feel like i'm in the way. what do you think i should do.
you should tell him that you dont want to get in between his and his girlfriends relationship and that he should stop flirting with you because then it will make his girlfriend jealous.he needs to learn when to back off and stop flirting and only flirt with his own girlfriend.
I'm 14/f. I weigh about 102, give or take. I haven't danced in like 7 months and I noticed my stomach is getting soft. My friends tell me that I'm still very skinny, but I think otherwise. What do you suppose I should do to get back in shape.
PS > I'm taking yoga this year. Will that be good?
Yoga is going to get you right back in shape so yeah it will help a lot. Eat healthy and cut down on the junk food. Do cardio excersizing (running walking swimming) and do crunches (regular crunches and side crunches.) Just eat well and excersize and you should be fit again if your out of shape.
where is a good place to go for a first date?
thanks xox
You could go
Bowling
Movies
Mall
Ice Skating
Roller Blading
His/Your House
Beach (If its still warm.)
Out To Dinner
Theres tons of options so pick from the above and I'm probably forgetting alot too. Have fun on your first date!!!
ok so homecoming is coming up
but like my boyfriend goes to a diff. high school than i do.. so i dont know what i should do.. because if he went 2 my homecoming it would be really weird because he doesnt know ne of my friends but like my friends know about him and they would like be annoying me the whole night.. especially my guy friends. but then if i went to his.. it would be weird too. i know a bunch of his friends but like all the girls hes friends with hate me { even tho i dont even know them } just because im going out w/ one of their friends and im from a diff. school. i really dont get it.
but ok what should i do?????!?!?!
thanks xox
you really need to work this out with your boyfriend. if it was my opinion i say you 2 should go to your homecoming because it doesnt really matter if he doesnt know anyone and im sure your friends will be too busy dancing to bug you and you could tell them in advance to step off. but i think this calls for a discussion between you and your boyfriend.
me + my friends love hanging out on like weekend nights and we usually go 2 the movies or some1s house or the mall or the football games or something. but those places get boring after a while. does anyone have any ideas about other places we could go?? like.. places that we could go wen there is girls + boys.
thanks xox
bowling,ice skating,roller blading,amusement park,mini golf,you could try a different mall.
Hi I was at a was at a sleepover and my friends dared me to cut my bangs,and i think they look horrible! my mom and my aunt say they look so cute, that is just because i had them when i was like 7 so can you give me any advice on how to make them look better?If you do....thanks a lot!!
Like the person said below bangs grow out very quickly so you are lucky!! You can put your bangs up in hair clips and bobby pins so no one notices they are shorter. You will only have to deal with this for like 2 weeks then your bangs should be back to normal.
I've dated this guy Mike, He was my first real boyfriend.In the start of our relationship, He was a totally sweet guy. after we dated for about 2years, I started to realize he wasen't "mr. amazing" for me. He started to addicted to drugs and started to get snobby with me. I broke it off, I'm a major drug-free person. I had to grow up in a drug filled family, I can't take having a boyfriend with those problems. After about 2months I met this guy Aaron He's a little older then me, He's got a good head on his shoulders. Not to mention he's amazingly sweet. He's currently my boyfriend, But I haven't told him about Mike, he's asked about past relationships I told him, they werent important. Some of feels like I'm not ready to move on. I havent seen Mike in about 5 months, why is taking so long to get over him? I have this really sweet guy, who's a great person who cares for me.
I'm 18 by the way & Aaron is 20.
hunny the reason why it so hard to get over mike is because you guys were together for 2 years and thats a long time and he was your first REAL boyfriend which will make it even harder to move on but all you can do is let time heal. i think if you wait another month you will be over mike. time is the only thing that can heal these wounds so your stuck with waiting. everytime mike pops into your head think "druggy". your right you dont need people involved with drugs in your life. aaron seems like the sweetest guy ever and i really think he could be the one for you. he has a great life ahead of him. ♥
im soo sorry this is so long :(
13/f
okay so theres this guy and during the summer we got close and even started tlking to eachother like "hey sexy" sorta thing. we even tlked on the phone once and he called me once but i couldnt answer. it always seemed like he sorta liked me because of the way he talked to me, and how when i asked him if i could trust him he said " yes you can trust me. you always can." and one time he thought i was mad at him and i told him no never he said " ok good cuz i didnt want one of the coolest girls at school to hate me." and i of course told him i could never hate him. so not too long ago me and my cousin were hanging out and being hyper when she dared me to send this to him:
I want you
Your hott
its complicated....
so i did. and i thought it was a funny little message and excited to see what he would say. but the day after i realized i should prolly delete it, just because i didnt want him to think that i LOVED HIM. so i was gonna delete it, but it was too late, and he read it. he never responded. then 4 nights after, my cousin prank called him. so the next i sent him a mssg saying how sorry i was for everything even the prank call and all he said was "its okay i get prank calls all the time.ha" but he didnt respond to the message. things were never quite the same.. and i told him that. i told him i hate how we dont tlk like we used to and he said but why? we still tlk. and i sed no not like we used ot and all he said was ohh. then i got my best friend to ask him if we were still good friends and he said yea we are. but it reallly doesnt seem like it anymore and my best friend even told me she sort of likes him which got me mad and im scared he likes her too cuz he tlks to her but i dont know what set him off so much because i said sorrry for tht message :( by the way this year hes not at the same school as me this year so i dont see him alot. but i dont know what to do anymore. i try to forget him but i cant. ive recently started tlking to him again, but its still like not at all the same. i dont know what to do. i like him ALOT. i even dream about him sometimes and think about him and every song tht comes on he pops into my head. and i want things to be like they used to but sometimes when im messaging him he just stops and doesnt reply and i really dont want tht to happen again. i want to stay in touch with him. help me pleasse :(
if you really like him dont give up just yet. call him alot more and ask him to go to the movies and stuff and make sure he gets the point that you like him. become better friends like you used to be. i think you should be the one to ask him out because if you dont he might go after your cousin instead and you will be heartbroken.
On tuesday i am going to go get my eyebrows waxed for the first time. i need to know a few things: how bad does it hurt? Will that area be really red wednesday morning for school? if so how do i make it less red? Do they ask you how you want your eyebrows waxed or do they already have a certain way they doe everyones eyebrows?
thank you
-also i cant change they day im going to a different day i have to go on tuesday.
It hurts for the one second while shes putting the wax on and then as soon as she pulls the wax off it doesnt hurt at all. On a scale of 1-10 for that one second where she is pulling it off I would rate it a 7 but it goes by so fast its not that bad. I know people that cry when they get there eyebrows waxed but I never cried. I don't have sensitive skin so the area wasn't red at all but I guess it depends how much pain you can take and if your skin is sensitive. The girl who does my eyebrows just does them and doesnt ask what shape I want. Im not sure about the other ones. Its really not that bad you will live.
i have the hardest time picking out a gift for a my boyfriend. what are some good gift ideas for a guy for his birthday, christmas or valentines day?
movies
shirts
gift card
money
cd
if he plays soccer then soccer ball or jersey if he plays baseball a basball or new bat etc.
just get him something he likes...
I need a new screename.... i need one that states who i am and everything... but nothing to cheesy,...
heres some things about me
im 15 name is Ashley... im in 10th grd... im a cheerleader, i love to sing, model, and dance,... i have many many friends... i have big browneyes that in the right light look green... and i have sholder langth brown/blond hair...
help me out... what may be some good screenames????
brunettegirlx
cheeringislife xo
dancing queen 7
belt it out
omg its ashley
brown eyed angel xx
social butterfly xo
love to cheer
sing me a tune
ashley can disco x
ash x ley
x lovin the runway
I know these might sound stupid but mix 'em around a little bit .
16-f
this might be kinda long but im soo sorry! i'll try to keep it as short as possible..
the guy im gonna be talking about was going out with this girl for about a year and a half and he was or still is whipped over her..
so this guy has always sort of had a thing for me or was at least very attracted to me! i mean i thought he was attractive too :) but he is my cousins friend! ive talked to him maybe once or twice before and hes so nice but i dont know if its a "im gonna be nice to get into your pants" kinda nice or if he is just like that! because i hungout with him one day and we went to a movie and hes like..wow you look really cute today! and hes like no wait..you look beautiful everyday i see you. i mean hes told me i looked beautiful before..and that he could never forget my face but i was like aw your so nice! and then he is like can i kiss you because i want to! and im like sure. so we kissed and madeout at the movie and we were like cuddling and all this but then later he was like want to do more? and im like NOO. and hes like im so sorry! alright thats fine im sorry do you forgive me? do you promise me. i knew he felt bad but after this i was starting to fall for him more and more each day but i was trying to tell myself not to because i didnt want him to go back out with this girl he still loved and have me get screwed over..but then later that day he was like you cant tell anyone what we did at the movies promise? and im like yeahh..but i accidently told my best friend already! and then later im pretty good friends with his bestfriend and i guess that this guy told him what we did even though he was like dont tell anyone and i wont tell anyone? and then last night my best friend was talking to his best friend and him and this kid i like went to the fair and shes like oh cute a date with you two and this kid is like yeah we're going to go cheat on our girlfriends. and i was thinking WHAT? him and his ex-girlfriend are back together...ahh. but then he is like they are dating secretly again. probably so this girl can go cheat on him like she has so many times before. i am soo heart-broken and me and my dumb self knew this was going to happen but i still liked him! i dont know what to do. i want to get over him because i know i dont have a chance now..but then its like i cant! ive never had a boyfriend before and this kid was the only one who was treating me nice and he payed for everything we did even though i offered. i wish i was going out with him instead of his ex. what do you think would be best for me? i dont want to find another guy..i want HIM. but he loves HER..
i know this isnt what you want to hear but wait 2 weeks and let time heal your problem and i promise you will be over him theres nothing you can do since he loves her so let time go by and you will be over him.
what are a couple good quote sites besides like quote-mania?
and it would be best if they had a lot of like love and getting hurt kinda stuff..
THANKS
go to xanga.com and search through profiles and type in heartbroken quotes and do the same with myspace
I havent had a real boyfriend in a while and a guy just asked me out that I like but I have liked another guy for a while too. I am totally having second thoughts on saying yes. but I think right now I would be having second thoughts if I said yes to anyone becauseI am so used to being able to do what ever I want and not have a comitment. is this normal??
if you like him you should give him a shot you never know it could work out. if it doesnt work out then ask out the other guy you like.