I havent had a real boyfriend in a while and a guy just asked me out that I like but I have liked another guy for a while too. I am totally having second thoughts on saying yes. but I think right now I would be having second thoughts if I said yes to anyone becauseI am so used to being able to do what ever I want and not have a comitment. is this normal??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? crazyme6 answered Monday September 4 2006, 3:01 am: listen to your heart.if you really do like this guy and the thought of being with him makes you happy,then you should say yes. second thoughts are normal, but if you have more negative thoughts about it than positive thoughts..you might want to spend more time with him so you can let your thoughts and feelings develop. committment isnt a bad thing whatsoever..it may be new to you but im sure you'll love it cause when youre in a relationship you feel like youre always safe and theres always that one person that loves you and will be there for you. well thats all i have to say..if you truly want to be with him..then go for it! [ crazyme6's advice column | Ask crazyme6 A Question ]
bitterxsweet answered Sunday September 3 2006, 10:40 pm: yeah i think you should just give him a shot. if you like him then he jus beat the other guy to it. but yeah thats normal.. the relationship im in now, it took me a while to go for it bc i had been single for about 6 months sooo i knew i wouldnt be used to not flirtin around and havin total freedom, but im glad i made the decision i did cuz i have way more fun in the relationship now =]. good luck! [ bitterxsweet's advice column | Ask bitterxsweet A Question ]
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