this guy screwed me over? i still LIKE him though..
Question Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 7:22 pm
16-f
this might be kinda long but im soo sorry! i'll try to keep it as short as possible..
the guy im gonna be talking about was going out with this girl for about a year and a half and he was or still is whipped over her..
so this guy has always sort of had a thing for me or was at least very attracted to me! i mean i thought he was attractive too :) but he is my cousins friend! ive talked to him maybe once or twice before and hes so nice but i dont know if its a "im gonna be nice to get into your pants" kinda nice or if he is just like that! because i hungout with him one day and we went to a movie and hes like..wow you look really cute today! and hes like no wait..you look beautiful everyday i see you. i mean hes told me i looked beautiful before..and that he could never forget my face but i was like aw your so nice! and then he is like can i kiss you because i want to! and im like sure. so we kissed and madeout at the movie and we were like cuddling and all this but then later he was like want to do more? and im like NOO. and hes like im so sorry! alright thats fine im sorry do you forgive me? do you promise me. i knew he felt bad but after this i was starting to fall for him more and more each day but i was trying to tell myself not to because i didnt want him to go back out with this girl he still loved and have me get screwed over..but then later that day he was like you cant tell anyone what we did at the movies promise? and im like yeahh..but i accidently told my best friend already! and then later im pretty good friends with his bestfriend and i guess that this guy told him what we did even though he was like dont tell anyone and i wont tell anyone? and then last night my best friend was talking to his best friend and him and this kid i like went to the fair and shes like oh cute a date with you two and this kid is like yeah we're going to go cheat on our girlfriends. and i was thinking WHAT? him and his ex-girlfriend are back together...ahh. but then he is like they are dating secretly again. probably so this girl can go cheat on him like she has so many times before. i am soo heart-broken and me and my dumb self knew this was going to happen but i still liked him! i dont know what to do. i want to get over him because i know i dont have a chance now..but then its like i cant! ive never had a boyfriend before and this kid was the only one who was treating me nice and he payed for everything we did even though i offered. i wish i was going out with him instead of his ex. what do you think would be best for me? i dont want to find another guy..i want HIM. but he loves HER..
adviice_whore answered Sunday September 3 2006, 10:27 pm: i know this isnt what you want to hear but wait 2 weeks and let time heal your problem and i promise you will be over him theres nothing you can do since he loves her so let time go by and you will be over him. [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
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