Hey everyone, my name is Kristin, there's a picture of me on my advice column.. I'm a senior in high school and im 18 years olds.. I know I'm pretty young, but I've been through more than anyone would imagine and I've been through things most teenage girls haven't experienced yet in life. Here's a few things about myself, I've gone through a very serious one year relationship that ended a long long time ago, my parents have been divored for about 6 years, I cheerlead for my high school, I do ballet and have been playing the piano since I was seven, I work at a nearby UPS Store, and I am a dedicated Greek-Orthodox Christian. I hope to get accepted into Cal Poly San Louis Obispo and major in Nutrition..I love to hear about other peoples issues and problems so I could help them deal with it by relating them to my own experiences. So if you wanna talk, I'm here =]
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E-mail: princesskristin01@yahoo.com
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Location: I live in California, I'm half arab half italian
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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
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maybe make one more trii talkin to her bout it, show that u care, but dont over do it. after that last trii, just wait and wait, once her and her lil new best friend get ina fight shes going to run back to u, TRUST ME. but u cant always be that person whos goin to be there for her whenever she needs some1..dont let her take u for granit. remember one last trii, then trii hard and move on, ull be able to find a better friend than her..
gO0d luCk..
~kristin
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I've been having these dreams that are really weird and I don't understand them. First, last night I dreamt that I was being very intimate with this guy. It wasn't anyone that I know, but this is kinda weird but I dreamt that I was kinda having sex. I've dreamt it before and I just don't understand. Maybe you could help me out? Please..these are really bothering me and I've been having them more often now. Also I dreamt that I was going to marry this one guy that I know and he lives far far away from me. But the thing is I barely know him! So I'm confused. I don't exactly want an answer about that dream just the ones where I'm being very intimate. Thanks for your help!, If you need anymore info, IM me at AnnaxBanana45 or email me AnnaBanana146@aol.com *Love Me* (link)
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dont be weirded out by these dreams. even if u dont feel it when u are awake, ur homones are still working away while u sleep. if youare having sex with some1 in ur dreams, no matter who it is, its just a wet dream, EVERY1 has them. i had a wet dream once when i was having sex with this ugly guy in my math class. EW. so yeah lol dont worry bout it. ull prolly keep having them, but theres nothing u can really do about it...hope this helps
kristin =]
(i appreciate being rated thanks!)
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For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??
-Zero
-Thanks! (link)
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at dances, no1 realli pays attention to how other ppl danCe.. but ull be suprised to how many ppl spend their time AT dances feeling self concious bout how they danCe. if i were u, dont worry bout looking good, just have fun. go crazii and dance tha way u dance in ur roOm. once ur friends see that u dont care bout tha u look when u dance, then they will feel more comfortable to dance toO!
g0Od luCk..kristin :)
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Okay im 17 i will be 18 n feb n there is this boy that i talk to on the net n like i met him a couple times n talked to him n he is 15 wont be 16 intill march n like i can tell him anything n i think im sorta getting feelings for him but i dont know if i should date him since he is 15 n younger them me .. n my friends what will they think> (link)
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#1--who cares bout what ur friends think?
#2--i think u should go for it!!!
but the thing is, is that are u sure that he doesnt wanna date u cause he thinks that he'll seem kool having an older gf?? think bout that..i dunno him or u so i cant say..but if u dont think thats tha case, go for it. just remember, hes way younger and his mentality is at a different level as urs..
~kristin
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Okay there is this boy that i met a couple times but i mostly talk to him on the phone i wanna hang out wit him n get to knwo him n we both agreed on that well the first nite we were suppose to do something he was sick for the day the sec time he got hurt at work .. im not sure if he is just making this up or it really happen but like i said i sorta like this boy n wanna get to knwo him n hang out what do i say to him for him to see it (link)
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yEah..it kinda does sound like he isnt interested. but u needa be more specific, olike whose tha one who usually calls eachother? if ur tha one who usually calls him, suggests to kik it, etc, then he prollie isnt t0O interested.
lov kristin
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Today i gave my boyfriend head for the 1st time ...and then I did it a second time and that time i like almost gagged! what should i do should i say anything...???
signed confused one (link)
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literally, almoswt every time a girl deep throats a guy or gives there guy head, they will feel like gagging. its totally normal ...if i were u i would make a joke outta it or something, he prollie doesnt even care.
~kristin
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I know that i like guys, but iv always had a fascination with girls and have begun to wonder if i might be bisexual. If i was i wouldnt know how to come out and tell ppl because i would be to afraid of rejection. I hope that this fascination for girls goes away because i'm getting tired of wondering if i might actually be right! If you have any kind of advice for this difficult question please help!!!Thx
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those are only ur homones acting up..im sure uve seen porn, etc with lesbians n stuff and it just makes u wonder..most girls think about lesbian stuff its not unnormal. on tha other hand, if u actaully are ATTRACTED emotionaly and physically to grls, then u are bisexual. to be honest, id wait until ur in college to come out because every1 is alot more mature and excepting after highschool...good luck
~kristin
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me n mi boyfriend have been tagether for almost a year now nd we've done everythin but have sex and well tanight he was fingering me nd that nd it got a little out of control nd ima virgin nd hez lyke well jus let dem meet nd i waz lyke k nd he did nd there wasnt a condom nd it wasnt long but im really afraid that i culd get pregnant i dunt no what happen lyke with him 'down there' but im so scared can i get pregnant from that it was only like a minute but idunno is there a possibility ? PLEASE HELP im way to young ta get pregnant im so scared (link)
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u needea be alil mmore specific on what went on down there, but not trying to scare u, but YES u can get pregnent off olike anything...dont worry, all u have to do is go to planned parenthood and get the day after pill!!! u can take it i think no more than 3 days after having unprotected sEx...do u drive? if not then get some1 whos close to u and who u trust to take u, and make sure ur bf goes with u for support. most likely ur not pregnent, but its possible, but no matter WHAT, get tha day after pill JUST IN CASE. tha ppl at planned parenthood are REALLY nice and they are all girls im pretty sure....just go there lkike within tha next day or 2
~kRisStin
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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
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im totally not trying to sound like a mom right now, but alota times our parents are right about friends, etc...like last yr i had a really close friend and 4 some reason my mom REALLY didnt like her, etcet...tha girl did like nothing wrong or nething, my mom juswt had like a really bad feeling buot her, then tha next yr we g0t in a fight and she TOTALLY backstabbed me adn spread rumors bout me... is there nethinhg in specific ur mom doesnt like bout her?
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well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me (link)
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omg!!!! TRUST ME she would do SHIT to u..tha ONLII reason why she keeps buggin is cause u seem like a pussy[NO OFFENSE] i mean in her eyes. for her, its like an ego-booster. she feels bigger and better and intimidating, dont let this bitch keep on haressing u. stand up for urself. if she says shes guna beat ur ass say, u wanna waiste ur time? go for, since u know me oh so well, then come and beat my ass.
if she really does, theN FIGHT tha bitch. bitch her fucking ass!!!! dont be scared, i promuise u, once ppl see that u dont take shit, they wont fuck with u!!!
~kristin
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If someone dares you to stick your hand in one of those ice despenser thing on the refridgerator/freezers and you happen to get your hand stuck in the ice machine.. what do you do?? (link)
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LOL..funnie question..thats all i wanted to say
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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to me, i wish there were MORE guyz like u..ive been looking for a decent, polite guy, similar to what ur describing yourself as, for a longgg time!!! but i guEss if i think bout it, ALOTA girls are attracted to the bad boy type, so maybe the girl u took out is one of those girlz who are more attracted to tha bad boyz...keep up what ur doing, just dont over do it. when we all get older,into college, etc, girls will appreciate alot more how much of a gentlemen u are cause we will be more mature, etc..but in my opinion,keep up what ur doing =]
~kristin
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My friend and i are best friends forever. Theres this guy that she has dated a lot of times and they have broken up for the last time.. i hope. Because secretly i like him. I told my bff and she said it was cool and every thing was fine. Shes still hooked on this guy plus she has another guy that she "loves". i know she will hate me if i go out with him, but i dont know what to do, and im not going to talk to the guy i like. please help? (link)
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as long as u talk to ur best friend bout going out with this guy, and as long as she FOR SURE says whole heardetly that she doesnt care, then go for it!
~kristin
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I started to like someone.. that has hurt me manny times in the past.. and i dont know wat to do. Its not a big problem. but im soo confused. BEfore he lied to me, and went out with my friend. HELP (link)
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i know its sooooo hard to trii and stop liking a guy that uve liked for awhile..u cant help ur feelings and emotions. but something u can help is ur RESPECT for ur self..thats sumthin u cant ever forget bout. this guy has hurt and lied to u in tha past aka disrespected u..trii to do w/e u can to get over this dude.
..love kristin
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ok there is a guy i used to like a whole lot. and i dont realli like him much ne more. but i still feel like crap, he broke mi heart pretty much. and now i dont even talk to him. cuz like he alwayz blocks me. itz soo annoying and it hurts cuz he used 2 like me and now he iz such a jerk. but when we r like inperson with each other he is nice and stuff. and it almost looks like he still likes me. but like tha same day online, he blocks me. i hate this!! aargh plz help me!! how do i stop feeling thiz way?
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to bE honest, when ur online, and he blocks u , that sorta means that hes annoyed of you =/..i know that thats prolli one of tha reasons it hurts...its rejection kinda. ur prollie hurt/annoyed/mad cause u still have feelings for this dude and he doesnt anymore. i went thru tha exact same thing except it was more deeper...i bet u alot if u STOP talking to him STOP making it obvious that u like him, stop alll contact with this guy, he'll miss tha attention and trii and talk to u and trii to get that attention bacCk...guyz want what they cant have...remeber that..play hard to gEt..
gOod luck
kristin
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i didnt kno wut to put this under... since it kinda has to do with sumthing my parents hav to deal with i put it under familyz. well you kno how when u have ur period that that first daii iz the worst and that you go to sleep and stuff of coarse you have a thingy on and stuff but how do you not stain your bed? i alwayz hav trouble with that and i had to throw away a thing of sheets becuz of it. sum1 plz help. iz there like sum secret to it? help! (link)
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hMm..its really hard not to stain ur sheets. maybe u could lay out a towel on ur bed when u goto sleep??
--kristin
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ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!
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what i think u should do, is stop like avoiding him cause he'll find ways even more ''creepier'' to get ur attention...u should take him aside, NOT in public, and tell him straight up how u feel..be mature about it..hes not stupid he wont keep makin it obvious that he likes u if u tell him to stop..k hope this helps
kristin=]
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ok i've never worn a tampon and i kinda want to but its a little weird knowing that that will be going...there. and what if i put it in wrong? any advice on like what kind to use for the first time? or anything like that... (link)
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NOT to scare u, but its gunna hurt like a BITCH if uve never have had sex be4. but after the first time, itll get easier and easier to stick in. i know it seems kinda dirty going inside you, but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do =/
~kristin
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hey, well i've had my period for almost 2 years and i still get that discharge is that weird?? what should i do (link)
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not weird at all..im in tha exact same position as u and so are alllll my friends...dont triip everything is totally normal..
--kristin
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thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...
do i still have feelings for him? (link)
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yEah u still have fEelings for him. but tha thing is, u prOllie have small feelings for him for now because tha idea of him not liking u and not being with onlii u scares u...maybe ur scared that he'll forget about u when he likes somebody else? thats happened to me be4..sO obviously u do have feelings for him, but not they arent that significant..hope i helped
lOv..kristin
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