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OK so theres this boy..my best friend actually.Well i really really really like him(i missed like thousands of reallys btw)..and he says he likes me too and that im the love of his life.but he has a gf.What should I do?..I REALLY LIKE HIM IM GETTING CRAZY...and im 99% i means it when he says he like me too.please help!
well it seems that he needs to decide between you 2. tell him that he cant have both. tell him how you truly feel about him. ask how he realy feels on his girlfriend. them give him a mental list on how you could be so much better for him.
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I am a Female Freshm,an in highschool(fifteen years old) there is this guy who likes me. He's a true Hottie and he's really nice! But the thing is, is that one of my best friends went out with him for two years and it wouls be extreamly akward fro me and her with this one! what do i do?
maybe it wouldnt be as awkward as you think. i saw go for it lovey. if hes so hot then say yes. but talk to your friend first and to share her feelings with you. say that you dont want to put your friendship in jeopardy. but make sure you tell her that you realy do like him. if shes really over him then she'll understand
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year [1yr3m] and face it, it's not the same. I love him as a friend, but I really don't think I feel anything relationship-wise with him. I really don't want to go out anymore because I feel like I'm just putting on an act, and he can tell that it's not the same anymore because I'm not as touchy anymore and I don't show much emotion at all. My friends know that I can't really stand him as a boyfriend anymore. It's just that everything he does annoys me, and it's not his fault, it's mine. I just want to move on and just be friends. But I can't find the nerve to do it, because it's so tough because we've been going out for so long and he's probably one of the few people that I can tell almost anything to and I feel myself around. First question: How can I build up the courage to actually do it? Tips please?
Second Question: We went on a break around Christmas (I enforced it) I was like' I don't want to go out anymore' and he thought it was just a break. Throughout the whole break he kept asking what he did wrong. He didn't do ANYTHING!, it's just not the same anymore. He just keeps saying 'there has to be a reason, things don't just change like that ..how can you just all of a sudden stop liking me' It's things like that that I don't know what to say to. I hate how I have to explain everything, but I guess he deserves it. How can I answer all these questions? It's not like he did anything, it was just the relationship lost it's spark. If I said that, he just DOESN'T GET IT! He keeps asking what happened, even if there wasn't a specific event. How can I get it through his mind that he didn't do anything wrong, and what can I say without sounded like a complete bitch (even though dumping somebody is bitchy).
It's not like I want to, (even though I do) but it's more like I need to, because I'm not happy, and I'm not acting happy around him which doesn't make him happy.
Any relationship advice, personal experiences would help me so much.
questioon1: well it seems that you have the standard 'love you like a brother' syndrom. many couples have it. its the result of too much together time. so maybe your feeling suffocated. so im thinking the best thing to do is to get some alone time. tell him that you need space. this information might hurt him and you both. but if your feeling so bad about this whole relationship you'll know deep down thats its the right thing to do. but make sure you tell him that your still interested in being friends. that might annoy him and he might not give you an answer right away but eventually you'll be friends again and happeier.
question 2: well it seems you've already broke up with him. well remember you dont have to answer these questions. tell him you fell like a brother. (that might make him feel better because even though your not together anymore, it would comfort him to know that you still consider him to be close)
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Alright, there's this cocky kid in my first 3 morning classes, and I was never really bothered by it until he started going out of his way to be rude. It really bugs me and he's not rude to anyone else at the school except for me! I've never even talked to him so I don't know why the heck he hates me. Once in math class, I got up out of my chair to work on the math worksheet with my friend, Marie. When I got back, I found his assignment planner book on my chair so I would sit on it and be laughed at so he could point out one more of my flaws. I knew it was his, but I asked the boy behind me if it was his anyway because the cocky kid, Austin just ignores me when I try to talk to him if something is his or not. He's asked me to borrow pencils and pens and I've always said yes - I'm a bit of a pushover. I just don't understand why he dislikes me! Judgmental much? I was walking over to the techer's desk to ask her if I could borrow some white-out and on my way over I asked him to push in his chair. He sighed in an annoyed way and pretended to ignore me. When I walked by his and his friend's desk to hand them the stapler, they said "Woot!" sarcastically and motioned for me to leave them alone. Any help? What should I do? Why do you think he dislikes me?
Any help is very appreciated.
Thank-you.
With Love,
Sidney (AlmostSidney)
well it sounds like the typical bully that wants everyone to laugh.maybe you did something but you just dont know what. stand up for yourself and let him know your not going to take it anymore. i know most people say not to tattle but maybe you should. but if you do he might make fun of you. dont ignore it and think that it will never go away. maybe you should talk to a guidance counselor. i hoped that helped you Lovey. just remember that you dont deserve this and he shouldnt get away with it.
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Well i onyl have one friend, yeah imagine how odl i am and ot of my whole life i got ONE friend. Well we always talk to each other on the computer and now she rarely tlaks to me and tlaks to other people and it makes me feel sad and alone and i can't make friends easily. What should I do? Please give your advice nicely I'm really sensitive about this
well you could be experiencing some friend jealousy. (dont be upset we all have them at some point) talk to her let her know that your uncomfortable with the situation. make plans to go places with her. dont make her think that your starting to be a little boring. really i think you should try making new friends. it could be scary. butim sure your a nice person and alot of people will be your friend if you just hang out with others. but if you want to look at your friends point of view, maybe she wants to have more friends. she still like you, but she just wants to be more active. so tell her that you understand and are willing to make the relationship work.
im 14 and im a freshman. so 4 years ago in fifth grade there was this guy. he was really cool although we never really talked. we've been in all the same classes since then and ive liked him ever sice. but he just kinda ignores me like im part of the background. maybe cause weve known eachother so long. what can i do to make him notice me??!
thanks
well talk to him and be interesting. dont be all soft spoken. be interesting and fun to hang out with. make eye contact to let him know that you've noticed him. be loud laugh to show that you have an exciting inner life.
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have some hair on the back of my neck. To the point where when I put my hair up I become uncomfortable. I shaved this area, but the stubble is so unattractive and there's no possible way to get rid of it. What is a solution that isn't drastic because I let it grow out after shaving it and the amount of hair was much worse than what I had to work with before...?
sweetie tey do have such a thing as neck waxing
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I'm talking about the home version game Dance Dance Revolution Extreme 2. I know that it is a great way to exercise because you are definitely moving a lot. Now, on the workout program, you input your weight, dance to a song, and then they tell you about how many kCals you burned. Now, here is my question: If I eat popcorn and consume 200 calories, then go burn 200 kCals on DDR, did I burn off that popcorn? Now I know that its just an estimate but roughly, is that about correct? Or is kCal a different amount than Calories? I tried to look it up on google but I didn't understand anything.
Thank you!
i dont know but DDR isnt really all that correct. you could have stepped off the matt or something. gyms are more adequate. DDR are just estimating to make it sound like your doing soo well and losing soo much weight. but dont base yourself on playing DDR whenever you want lovey. because then you realy wouldnt lose a whole lot
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ok so me and my girlfriend were talking on the phone and we were trying to figure out more stuff to do like sexually but we couldn't think of anything. so is there anything else we can to besides fingering and a handjob, blowjob and, me going down on her we both r trying to wait until we get out of high school to have sex anything would be great thanks
wow. well its not healthy to base your whole relatonship on sex. it just makes you both sound really horney. i cant think of any right now but maybe you should try being more active like a beach or sports. spicing a relationship doesnt neccassarily mean oral contact. it just plainly means that you want more things to do. something new and fresh.
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so apparently $50 Hollister jeans cant hold up, because now right on corner of my back pocket, a hole which started and used to be small has now stretched to literally the size of a quarter or bigger.
ive been puttin duct tape on the inside to cover it when i go to school & work.. but it looks kinda retarded.
wut can i use to cover it?
someone said patches.. but unless im stupid that would be like a patch over the outside right? which would look pretty dumb on my butt.
any ideas?
btw, nothing expensive =]
oh & no sewing machine access.
YOU PUT DUCT TAPE ON YOUR PANT AND TOOK IT TO SCHOOL! that looks realy cheap but your so brave to do it. i think you should just buy yourself some more jeans. buy them on clearance so you dont have to pay so much. $50 for hollister jeans is a rip off. you could get al least 3 jeans for that much at a nice flea market or sales.
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ok its like this IM A 15 YEAR OLD FEMALE....theres this ...and we have been talkin about havin sex...but i dont kno if i should shave my vagina or not...see i kinda shaped my pubic hairs up a little but there are still hairs where i shaved and dey are all pokey...and it feels weird...should i jus shave the rest off or what??? please help me with ths ASAP!!!! THANKS
well some guys like a little stubble. ask him.
i would shave the rest. but if its troubling you so much then get a bikini wax. it will hurt but it will be worth it. and its not like you have to keep getting it done. just keep shaving more than your legs.
im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
Help please?
find out about him w/o being to stalker-ish. talk to his friends and his ex-girlfriends. become great friends with him w/o being like a sister to him (because then he'll say your too much like a sisiter to him)or ask him out but ask if he will ever hurt you. get emotional when you say it. if he cries the he definately wont hurt you. if he laughs and makes jokes about it then maybe he just isnt the guy for you. just dont act hurt or ask why.
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ok so me and my boyfriend have given oral to each other and i gave him a handjob. we're both virgins and we want to do something new but we're not sure if we want to have sex yet. what can we do?
well dont make each other boring or the relationship might stop. if u dont want to get too intimate then base your relationship around it. a healthy relationship is not on intimate matters. make alot of dates (not too many movie date) do something more active. go to the beach or the park and play basketball. if u do want to be intimate w/o making love then you should be satisfied with what your doing. if you ever want to move past that then make sure your both totally truthful and aware of the consequences
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I just got a Macbook (an apple), and I'm worried. My brother took my other computer, and I had been looking at porn. I deleted the history. Just now I was searching threw my setting and other thing and I came across "Cookies." I clicked it and it's checked on "Only from sites you navigate to..for ex.. not from advertisers on those sites." I clicked "Show Cookies," and it showed these porn websites. Apperntly they had cookies. My brother was complaining about my old computer being so slow, and not to mess with it.. that he's going to take it to his appartment and fix it. I'm afraid he's going to look in cookies or something. Do you have any idea for me what to do? I can't go to that computer at all.
maybe tell him to bring it back. or blame it on one of your friends. say 'one of my friends were using my computer and was looking at it'. or say it was a popup. they do have those alot. porn pop-ups. say one just came up. and this excuse might sound lame but you also could say that you accidentely went their. you were on google or something and the page sounded cool and you went there but you did not expect porn
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f/17
me and my boo, weve been talking for a long time like 6 months, and i think its time i ask him out since hes so shy. I seriously think hes never been in a relationship before and im surprised he grabs my hand wen we walk or puts his arms around me alot. I want to ask me out but dont know how. Hes really shy with that, and how can i ask him to be my boyfriend without flipping out, like getting a heart attack because he gets nervous?????I really want to be his girl, i need advice. How can i ask him to be my boyfriend???
if your such great friends then just ask him! if he really wanted to ask you then he would have. or if your positive he really wants you then U ask him lovey. i know it can b scary but if your so confident that he will say yes than why would that give you a heart attack? i think you should find i private place and say all your feelings. or better yet call him. then your not talking face-to-face. or if your worried about being tongue tied then maybe e-mail it. but its best to do this all on friday or the weekend. then it will all b up in the air and give you both time tohink about it. and get use to the situation
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 and i smoke and i get the ciggerates from my cousin but the thing is she didn't know that i got them from her until this morning and now she is pissed off at me becouse when i was 17 she let try smoking becouse i was curious and wanted to know what it was like but she made me promise to never do it again so i promised her i wouldn't do it again but now she won't even speak to me becouse she's mad becouse she thinks my mom'll find out that i started smoking at her house and won't let me come back anymore and she thinks i hate her but i don't .I don't know why i wanted to smoke i didn't know it would make my cousin this mad at me becouse we've never even had a fight before in my life becouse we used to be so close like sisters.I don't think she'll belive me if i tell her i'll quit becouse i told her i wouldn't do it again the last time and i lied to her and went behind her back how do i regain my trust and not make her mad at me anymore i hate when she's not speaking to me what should i do?
urgent!
well if your sooo close why isnt she talking to you. and smoking is never the answer. it causes lung didease etc. i think you should really sit her down and talk. drug counseling is good but kinda extreme plus yor parents would find out. well lieing was your second mistake and you should make it up to her. keep trying dont give up. call her, email her, or get her face-to-face. really this all sounds baby-ish and you should tell her. your younger but your willing to talk it out and explain. she on the other hand is like 'well ill just give her the silent treatment and shell learn her leason'. no thats not the answer and almost never solves the issues.
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i need a recording software for my computer that is free or a trail download or some one can send me. i am looking for fetures such as recording through microphone / recording overlay (so i can listen to a part i allready recorded, and record while listening to that part) and any other kool fetures but the overlay and mic part are what i want most at the moment thanks :P.
PS: names of sofware, or if any one has any tips for "ulead video10" recording because that is what i am using at the moment
thanks alot in advance
sweetie this isnt exactly advice. its more like overall help.
but i cant help you anyway sorry
I use the tanning bed but since I have been using it my sides are white!! How can I changes this? Should I lay on my tummy while I tan or what?
well personally i dont reccommend tanning salons. really their just 'cancer in a box'.
i dont use them so i dont know anything about that. but i would tell you to go to a pool area and lie in the sun. sunlight is much healthier and it feels better.
hope that helped you lovey!
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I am a dancer. I just started 1 year ago. I want to pick up some classes like ballet or hip hop or something. I am in NSB, FL so if any one knows of some good places to get aquainted let me know.
Also, I am having issues with my flexibility. I cant seem to get my right leg flexible enough top go into a full split. And when i am in my left split my right leg prevents me from going down all of the way, any suggestions?
Oh yeah, and how do I find my Center of Gravity?
i was a dancer too, but i quit sadly cause the actually wanted me to dance lol! (i just wanted to hang out with my friends)
anyway. im also having issues with flexibilety and it could embarassing when everyone else is super flexible. but just stretch lovey. everyday for 5 minutes. tht what im doing right now. im teaching myself to do a split. so what i do is put myself in that position and just sit like that for 5 minutes. IT WILL HURT. im not going to lie about that. i did feel it in the morning, but its totally worth it believe me. JUST REMEMBER TO STRETCH EVERYTHING EVERYDAY and i guarantee improvement
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I can not stop eating.
I lost 5 pounds last month,but all of as sudden now my body is going insane. it's like I NEED TO EAT, even when I don't feel hungry like today for example, I've had
a pudding, chocolate bar, jo louie, a sandwhich, bag of peanuts and smarties, grilled cheese, mac and cheese, crackers and cheese, oatmeal, chcolate eggs, big chocolate bunny, yogos, coffee, fruit-to-go.
And it's only 1 in the afternoon.
My stomach is HUGE, and hurts, but I still want to eat.
What can I do to get this under control?
I'm madly craving sweets.
WOAH SLOW DOWN LOVEY!
don't give yourself a heart attack! there are such things as healthy snacks and sweets. do some research and work off that extra body fat. if your so self conscious about your weight, then get up and do something about it! dont just sit at the computer waiting for some1 to solve your problem for you. go out and do some sport and get active. get your friends to do it too. make it fun. cut your daily intake in half and NO BEDTIME SNACKS. when u get up in the morning your going to feel hungry just dont stuff yourself!
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