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dont want it to get boring
ok so me and my boyfriend have given oral to each other and i gave him a handjob. we're both virgins and we want to do something new but we're not sure if we want to have sex yet. what can we do?
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try doing 69. its amazing and its really exciting the first time. you think him ogin down on you felt good ... it feels so much better when you are pleasing him at the same time. enjoy yourself and maybe try doing things in a different surrounding. like if you always do your sexual stuff in a bed, try it in the shower, or on a couch, or anyplace you can imagine. a change of scenery will add a spark to what you already do. enjoy :D
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well dont make each other boring or the relationship might stop. if u dont want to get too intimate then base your relationship around it. a healthy relationship is not on intimate matters. make alot of dates (not too many movie date) do something more active. go to the beach or the park and play basketball. if u do want to be intimate w/o making love then you should be satisfied with what your doing. if you ever want to move past that then make sure your both totally truthful and aware of the consequences
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number one don't give up your virginity until your ready...trust me i did when i wasn't ready and it sux cuz now i'm stuck with a kid and i'm only 15...and we used protection...so maybe if you guys have done oral maybe you guys can work up to sex but until then do what your doing maybe let him finger you if you haven't but i'd advise you to slow down a little even though you love your bf he might not be the one for you...there's always that chance that he might break up with you after you guys have sex..but also look on the bright side.
hope it helps
sincerely
katie
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yeah this is completely fine, since you shouldnt have sex until your both Ready. you could have anal sex if you wanted [some people dont like it as much] and also im pretty sure he probably has done this but fingering would be alright. also a thing you two might enjoy is spooning or forking. yes he'll get right up close to there but he wont get inside you and the pleasure should be quite enjoyable to both of you. just be imaginitave i guess and dont do anything you dont want to do!
xoxo helpachick
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