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Scared Streak
F/16
Okay me and my bf have been goin out for a year and bout six months. He has fingered me and went down on me before, but the problem is i havent done anything to him yet...besides just feel down his pants. We are goin to hang out tonight and i want to give him a hand job but i have this little scared streak in me to not do it. i know he wants me too but i'm just a little scared of what he will think. i dont know what to do. any advice helps!
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He's not going to think anything except "wow, this is great!" If you're not sure you're doing it right, just ask him "does this feel good?" or you can even laugh a little and say "am i doing it right?" he's not going to think badly of you for not being an expert... he'll be more flattered that youre doing it for the first time with him. and if yhou're worried that he will think you're being slutty something, well he's already done pretty much the same thing to you, so you doing it to him isn't any different.
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its not hard to do just move your hand up and down while it is wrapped around his penis and also kinda massage everything else(his balls)but not hard and also take off rings or bracelets if you are wearing any
hope i helped
but don't do anything that you are not comfortable with!:)
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how about not doing anything! your only 16!!!!!
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first of all dont do anything your not comforatble with doing.
and since you have that scared feeling, you should do anything untill your ready, and you feel positive about it.
if he really likes you he will respect your answer.
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okay well i understand what you are going through. but you really shouldnt be scared. No guy is going to complain that you are touching his penis and there is no wrong way of doing it. just breathe and start. and if you are really worried about it, ask him what he likes and where is feels the best to touch. Hope I Helped!!!<333
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